any tips for a new sub? mistres wants me to learn how to massage

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ten0eight -> any tips for a new sub? mistres wants me to learn how to massage (6/9/2009 7:01:35 PM)
i'm so lucky to have been found by my mistress. she's already made me her personal chauffeur and pussy licker. she works late and would like me to massage her when she gets off work, but i've never massaged anyone before and really would like to make my mistress happy :) are there any other activities/things i can do?

beargonewild -> RE: any tips for a new sub? mistres wants me to learn how to massage (6/9/2009 7:05:36 PM)
salad tossing? drinking the golden nectar?

GeorgiaMaam -> RE: any tips for a new sub? mistres wants me to learn how to massage (6/9/2009 7:05:54 PM)
"Massage for Dummies" is a good basic book. If you're feeling really ambitious, see if your local community college offers massage therapy and take a course or two.

DesFIP -> RE: any tips for a new sub? mistres wants me to learn how to massage (6/9/2009 7:38:42 PM)
There are literally dozens of massage dvds out there. Look on amazon to start.

stella41b -> RE: any tips for a new sub? mistres wants me to learn how to massage (6/9/2009 11:29:39 PM)
While you're learning with your hands you can use balls so long as you've got something stiff to keep hold of. This is an alternative method.

OsideGirl -> RE: any tips for a new sub? mistres wants me to learn how to massage (6/10/2009 7:45:51 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: ten0eight are there any other activities/things i can do? Do you mean other than massage? Depending on her tastes: Learn how to taste, judge, pick out wines and properly serve them. Learn how to make her favorite cocktail. Learn about aromatherapy to go with that massage. Learn to make her favorite food, appetizer, or munchie. Learn to give a pedicure. Brush her hair. The list is endless.

ShaharThorne -> RE: any tips for a new sub? mistres wants me to learn how to massage (6/10/2009 9:26:40 AM)
Manicures to maintain my natural french manicure... That is just me though, the list can be endless.

CatdeMedici -> RE: any tips for a new sub? mistres wants me to learn how to massage (6/10/2009 3:29:35 PM)
Think for yourself how to please Her.[8\|] edited to add: <with Her and Your clothes ON--its a novel approach, I know, but give it a whirl>

windchymes -> RE: any tips for a new sub? mistres wants me to learn how to massage (6/10/2009 5:07:45 PM)
Wash the dishes, do the laundry, clean out the cat box, have dinner ready, let her have the tv remote.

FawneTwo -> RE: any tips for a new sub? mistres wants me to learn how to massage (6/10/2009 5:14:00 PM)
hee hee learn to give a sensational massage. to try: after she is relaxed warm and purring; use your tongue - start at the nerve ending rich base of her spine and sensously lick up. then lick down.

LookieNoNookie -> RE: any tips for a new sub? mistres wants me to learn how to massage (6/10/2009 6:35:42 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: ten0eight i'm so lucky to have been found by my mistress. she's already made me her personal chauffeur and pussy licker. she works late and would like me to massage her when she gets off work, but i've never massaged anyone before and really would like to make my mistress happy :) are there any other activities/things i can do? You've never (at 24) massaged anyone....and you want to know how to make a woman happy. Is your name "Rich" ? No wait....sorry....this is rich....(my error). Right then....massaging and all that....here we go.... Those things at the end of your arms....those are "hands" (you may have signed things with them in the past....they wiggle a bit....often used for TV clickers....getting milk from the fridge....hands....just slightly below your wristwatch). Okay....pay attention....there are five (additionally wiggly) things at the lower end of the "hand". Those are called fingers. Use them to pull off the ladies shirt (often called a "blouse")....and when you do so....you'll find this thing across her back....that's a bra strap (a bra holds her titties up...those are those fabulous protruding things in the front that look very much unlike your front). Unhook that (you'll figure it out...okay....wait....you may not. Those things were designed by a committee at NASA....find a pair of scissors if this takes longer than it takes her to say "*Jeeeeeeezuz!!!! Have you never done this before??????"). Those things at the end of your hands ("fingers")....use them to manipulate her skin (she will like this....it's the start of the "massage"). Continue doing this until she says something like "can you move a little lower and to the right?" (do so). If you feel something wet, that's either: 1) Her mouth (or something she very much* would like you to spend more time on)......OR......it could be.... 2) Her Pepsi. If her Pepsi says anything at all to you like "do that again please"....leave the room immediately. Feel free to bring your girlfriend to my place if any of this is confusing.

Andalusite -> RE: any tips for a new sub? mistres wants me to learn how to massage (6/10/2009 7:17:23 PM)
You can practice on your own feet and legs before trying to massage her - not as good as having someone else do it, and the angle's a little different, but you'll get some immediate feedback on how hard you're going, what kinds of touch feel good, etc. Of course, be open to feedback from her, and I agree that DVD's can be helpful in getting technique suggestions.

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