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Was I supposed to get turned on? - 6/9/2009 7:54:24 PM   
Tysyacha


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Status: offline 		I sent a worshipful message to someone a while ago, and they responded thus:

"You are an ugly white pig who looks like a man. How totally fucking worthless."

I'm a girl, BTW. Was I supposed to get turned on by this reply? I deleted it. I mean, I know some people are way into abuse and humiliation, but I can't tell if that person wants me as a b*tch or is truly revolted by my appearance. I didn't mean any insult or any harm! I just thought that their picture was the most beautiful one I ever saw.

Maybe I should be grateful,
Tysyacha
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RE: Was I supposed to get turned on? - 6/9/2009 8:02:59 PM   
ShaharThorne


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Status: offline 		All their response showed was how shallow they are. Block and delete is a godsent in this case.

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RE: Was I supposed to get turned on? - 6/9/2009 8:03:54 PM   
MsLadySue


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Status: offline 		Personally I wouldn't give that dolt another thought. |You are a beautiful lady and he can't see past the nose on his face. Sounds like he was looking (fantasizing) about Barbie.

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RE: Was I supposed to get turned on? - 6/9/2009 8:11:48 PM   
LadySweetOrSour


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Status: offline 		Bloody hell, how rude!!

I personally never abuse anyone (unless they abuse me of course, and then it's usually too much effort!). I certainly don't talk to people that way in the real world and see no reason to do so on here. People who enjoy abuse usually only enjoy it from the one they serve/submit to/etc., not enjoy it from every Tom, Dick and Harry.

I can't imagine your email to this person was in any way offensive, so maybe the person thought it would be a turn on, or maybe he/she is just a rude, insensitive pig with no manners and a stinking attitude. I'm leaning toward the latter.

Tysyacha, you are a top bird and don't deserve to be spoken to by someone you don't even know it that manner. YOU choose who you submit to and what is ok with you and what isn't. Those things are worked out between partners, not abusers who use the net to hurt others, because they are too cowardly to do it to someones face in real life.

Abuse about an email isn't dominant, it's just fucking rude. Don't respond in kind, just, as Shahar suggest, block and delete. We all get arseholes emailing us. We don't have to give them a second thought.

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RE: Was I supposed to get turned on? - 6/9/2009 8:13:14 PM   
leadership527


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quote:

ORIGINAL: LadySweetOrSour
Bloody hell, how rude!!

Well, I think that about sums up my thoughts also.


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RE: Was I supposed to get turned on? - 6/9/2009 8:13:54 PM   
Tysyacha


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Status: offline 		Thank you, ladies! *HUG* It's people like you who keep me coming back to CollarMe, and people like that one who make me block and delete them!!!

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RE: Was I supposed to get turned on? - 6/9/2009 8:18:59 PM   
BigdawgsPSP


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Status: offline 		i am new here... and don't really know anyone...

but i don't care if its here, on the street, over the phone or whatever...

jerks are everywhere... this one may have had a beautiful photo but it is painfully obvious how ugly they are on the inside.

< Message edited by BigdawgsPSP -- 6/9/2009 8:19:41 PM >

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RE: Was I supposed to get turned on? - 6/9/2009 8:25:52 PM   
sugargirlxxx


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< Message edited by sugargirlxxx -- 6/9/2009 8:27:12 PM >

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RE: Was I supposed to get turned on? - 6/9/2009 8:32:03 PM   
DarkSteven


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Status: offline 		Plain and simple, there are idiots here on collarme.  You just found one.

The sooner you push the thought of him from your brain, the more space you'll have in that brain for more pleasant things.


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RE: Was I supposed to get turned on? - 6/9/2009 8:32:17 PM   
girlygurl


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Status: offline 		Grateful? Hell NO! They should have thanked your for the email. Excuse me, but that's total bullshit and the thought of someone sending you such a message is unacceptable.

Sending you warm hugs.

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RE: Was I supposed to get turned on? - 6/9/2009 8:37:49 PM   
dcnovice


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Status: offline 		I am stunned and horrified. I'm so very sorry you got such a rude message!

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RE: Was I supposed to get turned on? - 6/9/2009 8:41:43 PM   
Musicmystery


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Status: offline 		I completely agree with Steven. At the very least, a nice thank you was in order, interested or not.

Thar be jerks in them thar hills. But gems too.

Let it go and enjoy the real men.



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RE: Was I supposed to get turned on? - 6/9/2009 9:20:12 PM   
ExtremeBondage


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Status: offline 		I apologize for the lame jerk that responded with disrespect and cruelty.
If you ever want to hear some good  words just  give me a yell, I am a world renowned piercer and bondage equipment creator.
I am an old fart to many and to many I am one of the best bondage, suspension, sensory deprivation and interrogation instructors.

Ask me about any kinky subject on your mind and I will deal with it politely .
You are amazing, to actually contact someone and give them a compliment, I am impressed and would love to  get to know you  better.

Let me know if talking to an old kinky guy, is ok .

The ADASHI

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RE: Was I supposed to get turned on? - 6/9/2009 9:29:21 PM   
Marc2b


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Status: offline 		Just another whack-my-little-dingle troll trying to bring a sense of power to his mundane, boring life by denigrating others from behind the anonymity of the computer screen.

The fault is his, not yours.

I'd fuck ya.

(and yes, that's a compliment)



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RE: Was I supposed to get turned on? - 6/10/2009 1:06:05 PM   
Musicmystery


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quote:

ORIGINAL: ExtremeBondage
I apologize for the lame jerk that responded with disrespect and cruelty.
If you ever want to hear some good  words just  give me a yell, I am a world renowned piercer and bondage equipment creator.
I am an old fart to many and to many I am one of the best bondage, suspension, sensory deprivation and interrogation instructors.

Ask me about any kinky subject on your mind and I will deal with it politely .
You are amazing, to actually contact someone and give them a compliment, I am impressed and would love to  get to know you  better.

Let me know if talking to an old kinky guy, is ok .

The ADASHI

WTF?

Let me give you my condolences and my business card?




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RE: Was I supposed to get turned on? - 6/10/2009 1:11:35 PM   
Asherdelampyr


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Tysyacha

I sent a worshipful message to someone a while ago, and they responded thus:

"You are an ugly white pig who looks like a man. How totally fucking worthless."

I'm a girl, BTW. Was I supposed to get turned on by this reply? I deleted it. I mean, I know some people are way into abuse and humiliation, but I can't tell if that person wants me as a b*tch or is truly revolted by my appearance. I didn't mean any insult or any harm! I just thought that their picture was the most beautiful one I ever saw.

Maybe I should be grateful,
Tysyacha



I have a somewhat unrelated question
what is a worshipful message?

Whenever anyone sends me a message saying that they enjoy something I wrote, or look good when clothed or whatever I am always grateful
the guy was a douche, and you should be grateful to him for showing you right away that he wasnt worth your valuable time :D

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RE: Was I supposed to get turned on? - 6/10/2009 5:17:43 PM   
windchymes


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Status: offline 		School's out, kids are home and their parents aren't.  We see an influx of this every summer break, spring break, Christmas break, etc.  Just don't even give it another thought.

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RE: Was I supposed to get turned on? - 6/10/2009 6:42:18 PM   
CatdeMedici


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Status: offline 		Honey, you are 29, pop the fantasy bubble and realize just because people proclaim to be in this life, doesn't make them nice.

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RE: Was I supposed to get turned on? - 6/10/2009 7:25:17 PM   
ThatDamnedPanda


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Tysyacha
Maybe I should be grateful,



I suppose that's one way of looking at it. Thank god it only took you one e-mail to find out what a wretched, despicable piece of shit he was.

How terribly sad that when you reach out to express something of your soul to another human being, they respond by spitting in your face. But in a way, the greater pity is his, that he'll live a lifetime without ever experiencing for a moment the beauty that is yours every day, the beauty that lives in your smile. I'm very sorry this happened to you.


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RE: Was I supposed to get turned on? - 6/10/2009 7:27:18 PM   
intenze


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Status: offline 		Was he upset about dominant women wearing boots perhaps? Or running for office?

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