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Calandra -> RE: cuckoldress (6/11/2009 2:57:02 PM)
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ORIGINAL: Andalusite
my perception of cuckoldry in the BDSM sense is that it specifically involves humiliation play (you aren't good enough/big enough/can't fulfil my needs).
My cubby DOES enjoy the humiliation aspect of it... and I find that I get off on HIS enjoyment (even if deep down I truly find him more than adequate). What I was taking issue with was the idea that people who enjoy cuckolding can't have a genuinely loving, caring, sharing deep relationship - that it HAS to be a sign of disrespect or lack of connection for your cuckolding partner.
As it happens, I once knew a man who was into being cuckolded and only discovered his enjoyment after he was made impotent after a car accident. It was wonderful to see that he and his wife could still remain close as ever while she found her satisfaction with others...
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