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NewMasterSilence -> New (6/10/2009 1:09:35 PM)

I am new to the lifestyle and am curious how to get into something like this. I am quite interested



Asherdelampyr -> RE: New (6/10/2009 1:14:09 PM)

with some good books and a meet with the local community usually

BDSM101 - Jay wiseman
the Loving Dominant - (I forgot who writes that one and lost my copy)
Screw The roses, Send me the thorns

try those out, talk to people around here, dont be afraid to ask questions.



sweetsub1957 -> RE: New (6/10/2009 5:19:40 PM)

i would say do some reading, like the books already mentioned, and also check out the site for awhile, read the message boards, and check the internet for Your local BDSM munches, etc.  That's what i did & it seemed to work.

Also, welcome to the boards.  [;)]



SirMIkeSD -> RE: New (6/10/2009 5:44:57 PM)

You are young take your time and don't push it, join groups local to you and will find real people who you can look up to and ask questions of. Books are a good place to start but no substitute for real life experience.

Mike



breatheasone -> RE: New (6/10/2009 10:06:13 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Asherdelampyr

with some good books and a meet with the local community usually

BDSM101 - Jay wiseman
the Loving Dominant - (I forgot who writes that one and lost my copy)
Screw The roses, Send me the thorns

try those out, talk to people around here, dont be afraid to ask questions.

PLEASE read all 3 of those books......PLEASE.....



SteelofUtah -> RE: New (6/10/2009 10:10:48 PM)

Top Right hand Corner of the page.

IT'S THE SEARCH BUTTON!!!!!

Many Answers can be found there.

Steel



GreedyTop -> RE: New (6/10/2009 10:25:15 PM)

Loving Dominant is written by John Warren



antipode -> RE: New (6/11/2009 6:09:46 AM)

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something like this


Something like what? You will find you get meaningful answers if you take the trouble to explain what you mean, expadning your posting beyond one line. I never give advice to someone who can't be bothered to type more than ten words, and provide some background. Just think of it as a conversation..



DesFIP -> RE: New (6/11/2009 6:20:56 AM)

Ask whoever you're dating if they've ever thought about having their wrists tied to the bedposts during sex. They say yes, you try it and then talk about it, and then try something else.

They say no, you drop it. If it's something you need to be happy you don't go out with them again, just move on.

This isn't rocket science, it's people exploring what they do and don't like.



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