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Is this the dumbest sentence in BDSM? - 2/11/2006 6:28:27 AM   
artglfr


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I was wondering about the dumbest things that submissives/slaves have heard and back when I was a subbie I had My first Mistress, who would say" do this OR I am going to paddle you!" What. is it just me or is a paddling a reward a treat ? I did finally talk to Her about this attitude but She never caught on to how I think. There are so few great Mistresses, but the ones who are are definitely worth the wait. Aren't they?

I reward My subbie when she does well with a red ass or bondage or sensation play that I know she will enjoy. I do not feel I should have to BEAT a submissive to do my will. If she doesn't wish to We are both wasting each others time.

Anymore great dumb lines?

Any comments?

Kinkily,
Art

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RE: Is this the dumbest sentence in BDSM? - 2/11/2006 6:41:33 AM   
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Depends on who you talk to, art. For some, a beating would be the perfect incentive to move their lazy ass and do what you talk them. To others, like you were, it is more of an incentive to just bend over and grin from ear to ear. Still other who are not pain sluts but not inclined to do anything anyway, there is no hope what so ever. People differ form one another, it's up to the Dominant to find the right incentive for the individual person.

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RE: Is this the dumbest sentence in BDSM? - 2/11/2006 7:07:03 AM   
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I agree with MrDiscipline44. What is one person's dumb line is another's dynamic. It depends on what the sub finds rewarding and punishing.

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RE: Is this the dumbest sentence in BDSM? - 2/11/2006 7:10:49 AM   
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Shortly after I met a Master who i still see from time to time, am really still getting to know.... we had played and he had put all his canes and other toys away.
We were sitting around just talking and laughing.. and i said something kinda smartass, not being rude or disrespectful, just kinda smartass.
He laughed, but told me you better watch it.. i may have put the toys away, but i still have my belt.
I just laughed again....
he said OK.. get up and bend over the table here.
I lifted my robe and did as told as he took his belt off and struck me three or four times with it.... moaning in pleasure, lol
it only took those few strokes to learn that threatening me with a belt only made me horny, lol


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RE: Is this the dumbest sentence in BDSM? - 2/11/2006 7:14:52 AM   
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" It was a dark and stormy night. "

"Kneel, bitch".

" Her breath came in short pants."

" As she was driven to the chateau, hot tears of shame streamed down her lovely face. Her innocence; soon to be gone, betrayed her. Denial fled. Desires, not yet realized...."

Hee hee. Betcha all can think of more..

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RE: Is this the dumbest sentence in BDSM? - 2/11/2006 8:33:30 AM   
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cravinspankin, you are so right! Of course we're all different, but Master learned quickly that using pain as a means of motivating me was not a good idea, because I am torn between my intense desire to obey and my intense desire for the beating! Although with me the need to please is stronger, so I wouldn't ever willingly disobey, but boy oh boy do I love the pain!


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RE: Is this the dumbest sentence in BDSM? - 2/11/2006 9:11:11 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: Tapestry

cravinspankin, you are so right! Of course we're all different, but Master learned quickly that using pain as a means of motivating me was not a good idea, because I am torn between my intense desire to obey and my intense desire for the beating! Although with me the need to please is stronger, so I wouldn't ever willingly disobey, but boy oh boy do I love the pain!



Agreed.
I would never deliberately disobey.
However... i have once been punished... and done so with pain.
While i normally enjoy that.. my mindset was so different for this experience. I was mentally and emotionally feeling so bad about displeasing him, about hurting him... that the whole situation definitely WAS punishment for me.
Yet.. his caring enough about me to punish me rather than just dismiss me.. and the way he forgave me and held me and loved me afterwards... combined for one of the most intense moments of my life.


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RE: Is this the dumbest sentence in BDSM? - 2/11/2006 9:12:40 AM   
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HEY WEIGHT KNEEL BITCH IS A PREFECTLY OK SENTANCE

quote:

ORIGINAL: Fawne

"Kneel, bitch".



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RE: Is this the dumbest sentence in BDSM? - 2/11/2006 9:53:02 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: Fawne




" As she was driven to the chateau, hot tears of shame streamed down her lovely face. Her innocence; soon to be gone, betrayed her. Denial fled. Desires, not yet realized...."







Who are all these women who get to go to chateau's anyway? i've never been taken to a chateau. i'm going to ask my Master if maybe He has a chateau.

btw, i am studying fictional literature in school right now and the instructor (female) is picking apart those stories which show women in a submissive light. we have battled a few times (i hold back because hey, i still want an A). She asked, "Do women really want subjucation?" i wanted to reply enthusiastically, "I DO!!!"

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RE: Is this the dumbest sentence in BDSM? - 2/11/2006 11:04:29 AM   
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"This girl....." or "This slave..." or "This Dom..." or "This Master..."
I can't stand that stuff.

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RE: Is this the dumbest sentence in BDSM? - 2/11/2006 1:00:36 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: LRODANDMASTER

HEY WEIGHT KNEEL BITCH IS A PREFECTLY OK SENTANCE

quote:

ORIGINAL: Fawne

"Kneel, bitch".


I agree! It is rather a classic, capice?

Sigh. You know: no on has ever said that to me. Well, not in those word exactly..

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RE: Is this the dumbest sentence in BDSM? - 2/11/2006 1:41:47 PM   
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heres one "i am the domme i know whats right cause i am the domme and i say 60 c heat is not to hot now go out side and get over here now"

also "your a sub you have no will"

and lastly "i have to do it like that so you can escape if someone came in" = "ok i admit it i have no clue how to tie a knot"

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RE: Is this the dumbest sentence in BDSM? - 2/11/2006 2:58:16 PM   
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That's an amusing one. If it's winter, I guess you'd have to say her breath came in longjohns.

Her breath came in a toga.

Her breath came in a skanky old sarong.

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ORIGINAL: Fawne

" Her breath came in short pants."


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RE: Is this the dumbest sentence in BDSM? - 2/11/2006 6:09:03 PM   
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Well, being naked, in an umcompromising position and caned is just so humilating,, if done as a punishment it feels bad,, if done as simple play it´s a quite different.

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RE: Is this the dumbest sentence in BDSM? - 2/11/2006 6:41:13 PM   
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i can you've been reading my email...lol...


quote:

ORIGINAL: Fawne

" It was a dark and stormy night. "

"Kneel, bitch".

" Her breath came in short pants."

" As she was driven to the chateau, hot tears of shame streamed down her lovely face. Her innocence; soon to be gone, betrayed her. Denial fled. Desires, not yet realized...."

Hee hee. Betcha all can think of more..

fawne




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RE: Is this the dumbest sentence in BDSM? - 2/11/2006 9:44:07 PM   
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The worst line someone's said to me was actually just in the past two months. I was at a club, riding a sybian. I had said there was only one rule as far as the scene went- NO pressure to orgasm. He agreed and we set off to have fun.

Halfway through he starts talking to me about how good it feels and have me shout to the club that I was a slut (at which point I started yelling what a fabulous amazing cock sucking whore I was) AND trying to get me to feel like orgasming.

After a few minutes he said to his sub and my partner who were at the controls that "She only THINKS she can't orgasm, it's all in her head. If she just let that go, she could cum very easily."

Sigh. A few minutes later, I do the begging to end it and we moved on.

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RE: Is this the dumbest sentence in BDSM? - 2/11/2006 10:03:15 PM   
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quote:

I was wondering about the dumbest things that submissives/slaves have heard and back


I don't know if I would call it the dumbest, but, "You just wait, I am gonna fuck your mind and body with intense wildness" .

Oh No! Don't do that!


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RE: Is this the dumbest sentence in BDSM? - 2/12/2006 9:59:29 AM   
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I actually faked an orgasm on a Sybian once, because midway through the person at the controls decided I couldn't get off till I orgasmed. I had two choices...to get pissy and snarky or fake. Faking just seemed the faster and easier route. oh OH OHHH!...happy now?

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RE: Is this the dumbest sentence in BDSM? - 2/12/2006 10:21:08 AM   
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Why isn't the dumbest sentence in bdsm simply.........

The whale is undoubtably one of the largest mammals alive today......

I mean, c'mon guys; it's simple; it's stupid; and it don't get you no girls, and ain't that really what it's all about, anyway?


???
Ron

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P.S. Dear Sensualips;

I just came all over myself.........thinking that you would think enough of me to fake it just to please me............

XO,
You're a doll, alright........

LOL

< Message edited by mnottertail -- 2/12/2006 10:26:23 AM >


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