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RE: found a Mistress - 6/12/2009 4:48:24 PM

LadyHibiscus

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Grovelling just annoys me.

How much effort does it take to leave ONE teeny "shit is happening, bbl" email? A small courtesy, that is all that it would take, instead of just DISAPPEARING.

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RE: found a Mistress - 6/12/2009 4:55:56 PM

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Well...One has to be open to the grovelling to allow it. I mean, it's not hard on our end either to say "No way dude, fuck off", right? lol

But yeah, you are correct. It doesn't take much to keep people informed.

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RE: found a Mistress - 6/12/2009 5:05:38 PM

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ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus

Grovelling just annoys me.

I dont know how anyone could grovel and upset someone as delightful, and smart, and wordly, and beautiful as Yourself Lady H. I will go and make You a lovely cup of coffee.

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RE: found a Mistress - 6/12/2009 8:13:14 PM

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Thanks, Politesub! Double cream, no sugar.

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RE: found a Mistress - 6/13/2009 4:32:03 AM

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Thank you all for all your post! Last night i talked with Mistress, i said talked ie phone not net and we are going to meet! This cumminig week, the date and time are set! Not that i know what to exspect, maybe some wrath? but im glade we will be meeting So the next question besides being very humble, and greatfull for this meeting what else should i due? im new so any advice will be appreciated! Its important to me i believe she is the lady for me and i cant scew this up again!

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RE: found a Mistress - 6/13/2009 10:53:55 AM

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Covering her tab.

you'd score points with me for pumping my gas (into my car..) and offering to clean out my car. ( esp. if you haven't seen it yet.)

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RE: found a Mistress - 6/13/2009 7:40:54 PM

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Stop believing she is "the lady" for you long enough to relax, have fun and be yourself. Since you are new to this, don't be in such a hurry to commit on the first date or you might come across as needy, creepy or just plain undesirable.

Use a spell checker. I sincerely wish for you that your verbal communication skills far exceed what you have typed here.

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RE: found a Mistress - 6/13/2009 11:20:44 PM

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I agree with cagedfreely...though some people (like myself) are strange about personal things like cleaning. But pumping the gas and covering the tab are good starters. I also like when a sub extends his arm to me when we walk. It's a very old-fashioned classic sort of thing but I think it shows respect.

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RE: found a Mistress - 6/14/2009 7:17:24 AM

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ORIGINAL: JoeVanilla

Stop believing she is "the lady" for you long enough to relax, have fun and be yourself. Since you are new to this, don't be in such a hurry to commit on the first date or you might come across as needy, creepy or just plain undesirable.

Use a spell checker. I sincerely wish for you that your verbal communication skills far exceed what you have typed here.

Just a tad harsh, but I agree.
Be a gentleman, treat her like a lady...not your lady...and for goodness sakes, breathe!

Has she given you any reason to assume this is more than just a meeting? If not, don't assume. Since you're new and unsure of what to expect, why not just ask? Is she aware of your inexperience?
Again, if this is just a first meet, why not ask her what she would like.

Flowers are nice....not a giant bouquet but maybe a single rose. Are you meeting for coffee? I like when a man takes the time to ask how I like my coffee made (cafe' au lait).

Be pleasant and expect nothing but interesting conversation and a chance to meet someone new....unless you have both agreed to more.

Good luck.

*On a side note...please try to not substitute "cumming" for "coming".

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