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NiteCrush -> Whats up with this-Pro Dommes (6/12/2009 8:32:18 AM)

Ive noticed that almost every other dominant woman in my area is a pro domme..jeez    I have no problems with them existing but in my opinion they just spoil this site.

And since they cant full out say that they ask for money all of them find different words to pretty much say that they do.

Yes.. pro domme is a profession but thats why they got classifieds and news paper ads.. and so on..

perhaps it only bothers just me and no one else but this is my lil rant.

thanks for reading

/ end rant



VelvetCruelty -> RE: Whats up with this-Pro Dommes (6/12/2009 8:37:58 AM)

No, you will soon be joined by many who will be echoing your same sentiments.

If you notice, there is a section in the forums for professional dominants and slaves to advertise their crafts. Collarme only says you are not allowed to mention financial slavery. There is nothing that outright says professionals can't have profiles here.

The economy is bad, people are trying to make money where they can.

And as long as there is a man that wants to wear his wifes panties and be told he is a dirty little girl, then there will be a market for pro-dommes.

Why not get paid for doing what you love to do?

When I pro-dommed, the only ones who complained about it, were those who could not afford my time.

There are plenty of non-professionals on here, good luck with your search.



CatdeMedici -> RE: Whats up with this-Pro Dommes (6/12/2009 8:41:43 AM)

Next time you might try using the search engine, this topic has been beat into dog food.
 
Remember this is a FREE site, I guarantee you if it became pay, the only ones who could afford it would be the Pros.[;)]



Asherdelampyr -> RE: Whats up with this-Pro Dommes (6/12/2009 8:43:18 AM)

The first step is admitting that you have a rant, the next is getting over it
There are a lot of pro Doms/subs/random people everywhere, personally I am just happy that they are usually fairly upfront about it



NiteCrush -> RE: Whats up with this-Pro Dommes (6/12/2009 8:45:51 AM)

only ones complained were the ones that could not afford your time :P

or maybe some guys just dont see it fit to pay for pleasure.

lol one time i went to strip club lol yes one time lol


well my friends took me there..and im suprised how i didn get kicked out of there

because when the girl came up to me.. for a private dance.. i cussed her off  saying that she should pay me for a private dance.. hehe

pride? hmm maybe..





NiteCrush -> RE: Whats up with this-Pro Dommes (6/12/2009 8:51:49 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: CatdeMedici

Next time you might try using the search engine, this topic has been beat into dog food.
 
Remember this is a FREE site, I guarantee you if it became pay, the only ones who could afford it would be the Pros.[;)]



My bad.. Im pretty new here soo well on forums anyhow and thought it would be much much faster to just make my own thread then taking much time to look one up THENNN reply to it  hehe:P

blushes*



Asherdelampyr -> RE: Whats up with this-Pro Dommes (6/12/2009 8:59:51 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: NiteCrush



because when the girl came up to me.. for a private dance.. i cussed her off  saying that she should pay me for a private dance.. hehe

pride? hmm maybe..




this isnt pride
this is pure jackassery
seriously



VelvetCruelty -> RE: Whats up with this-Pro Dommes (6/12/2009 9:01:44 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: NiteCrush

only ones complained were the ones that could not afford your time :P

or maybe some guys just dont see it fit to pay for pleasure.

lol one time i went to strip club lol yes one time lol


well my friends took me there..and im suprised how i didn get kicked out of there

because when the girl came up to me.. for a private dance.. i cussed her off  saying that she should pay me for a private dance.. hehe

pride? hmm maybe..





To each his own. Some enjoy the humiliation of having to pay for it, it all rolls into a particular fantasy for them.

If it's not your thing, then it's not your thing.

There's plenty of room for everyone, pro - or not. [:D]




NiteCrush -> RE: Whats up with this-Pro Dommes (6/12/2009 9:11:18 AM)

its funny how you can make friends as easily as you can make enemies on here=)


and to the person that said jackassory?

wtf is that..



OttersSwim -> RE: Whats up with this-Pro Dommes (6/12/2009 9:21:30 AM)

Well...admitting that you cursed out an innocent human being who was just doing her job at a place where you went into of your own free will, certainly appears that you were being a jackass...



VelvetCruelty -> RE: Whats up with this-Pro Dommes (6/12/2009 9:28:38 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: NiteCrush

its funny how you can make friends as easily as you can make enemies on here=)


and to the person that said jackassory?

wtf is that..


Not enemies, just people expressing their opinions, that happens here, alot! [:D]



NiteCrush -> RE: Whats up with this-Pro Dommes (6/12/2009 9:30:49 AM)

i did it politely and i went.. to enjoy the dance..not to be aproached by her.. and reason i did what i did cause she was persistant.. .. as in she asked i said no thank you.. and she was like.. ohhh what im not good enuf for you..are you gay?



Asherdelampyr -> RE: Whats up with this-Pro Dommes (6/12/2009 9:33:39 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: NiteCrush

its funny how you can make friends as easily as you can make enemies on here=)


and to the person that said jackassory?

wtf is that..


Jackassery Jack-a-ss-ar-ie
verb
Pertaining to an action in which one acts like a jackass
"Why is it everywhere we go we get waylaid by jackassery?

Noun

An act commited without forethought or any consideration of that persons feelings, for no good reason
"Cursing at people for doing thier jobs is pure jackassery"

You knew when you entered what sort of place it was, yes? and you must have had some idea of what happens there?
So, what did you gain by being a dick to an employee at a place that you went willingly?

For the record, not enemies, that would require more giving a shit than I have in me



CarrieO -> RE: Whats up with this-Pro Dommes (6/12/2009 9:47:23 AM)

~FR~

Everytime I see one of these "damn the pro-dommes" threads I have to wonder about the people, usually men, who start them.

When I think of a pro-domme I think of a Professional...not some hot little barely-20ish cutie who promises to be the domme of your dreams...IF you send "her" your IM, credit card number and follow "her" to a pay site. 
The professional domme profiles that I've seen here generally make it clear from the starting gate that they're pro.  They will leave subtle, and sometimes not so subtle, clues for those who choose to contact them in regards to the fact. 

Maybe these men, again not always men but generally, aren't really reading the profile or they've chosen to ignore it because they will be the ONE She won't charge because they're just all that and a cherry on top. 
For what ever reason, they will then come to the forums...or post a scathing journal entry about the "damn pros"....to complain. 

For the record,though , I'm not really sure how pros on this site and the interaction the OP had with a woman at a club ties together.  Did you speak with her on CM?

OP....you're young and searching for someone to help you explore your submissive side.  It's time to put your big boy pants on, if you want to be taken serious then act like it, otherwise be prepared to be seriously taken and called out for it.
Attitude really is everything and your's is speaking loud and clear.



Asherdelampyr -> RE: Whats up with this-Pro Dommes (6/12/2009 9:49:32 AM)

He chose to mention that he treated an exotic dancer poorly, swearing at her and telling her that she should pay him for the chance to give him a lap dance



CarrieO -> RE: Whats up with this-Pro Dommes (6/12/2009 9:55:28 AM)

Which still doesn't tie into his rant about pros except for the fact that he gets pissy with people in certain professions. 

Oy, I'm going for coffee...and I don't plan on cursing out the counter help when they ask me to pay!



Asherdelampyr -> RE: Whats up with this-Pro Dommes (6/12/2009 10:06:00 AM)

I dont know how it was meant to fit, unless it was to get the point that he doesnt like paying women for things across.



Apocalypso -> RE: Whats up with this-Pro Dommes (6/12/2009 10:08:04 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Asherdelampyr

I dont know how it was meant to fit, unless it was to get the point that he doesnt like paying women for things across.
Or simply that he doesn't like women.



NiteCrush -> RE: Whats up with this-Pro Dommes (6/12/2009 10:28:30 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Asherdelampyr

I dont know how it was meant to fit, unless it was to get the point that he doesnt like paying women for things across.



ding ding ding ding ding

we have a winner



Asherdelampyr -> RE: Whats up with this-Pro Dommes (6/12/2009 11:50:16 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: NiteCrush

quote:

ORIGINAL: Asherdelampyr

I dont know how it was meant to fit, unless it was to get the point that he doesnt like paying women for things across.



ding ding ding ding ding

we have a winner


heres a thought
then dont pay them?
I dont like Carl's Junior, but you wont see me waving a sign telling them to close down
I just dont eat there :D



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