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Why Do Dommes never switch - 6/12/2009 11:19:49 AM

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i want to know Ladies why do Dommes never switch. i mean do Dommes not get tired of being like well Domme? i mean what happens if a slave approaches You with a whip? do you sort of get all apprehensive? in that situation who cracks the whip? have You ever fantasised about being a sub? and how do You know what its like on the other end if you have never received a whipping? how do You know when a sub is faking or when he is really in pain? Answers on a post card Ladies. But serious did You honestly think that i would say i would like some feedback on X. that really would be too funny wouldnt it Laughs, hope everyone is in good form
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RE: Why Do Dommes never switch - 6/13/2009 9:07:51 AM

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Because they are dominants, not switches.

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RE: Why Do Dommes never switch - 6/13/2009 9:39:27 AM

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I was a Domme for 8 years, strictly Domme, no switching, yet when I found Lumus, well, something inside of me changed and wanted out. Now, I'm a bossy bitch with attitude and sub only to Lumus. There is a dynamic between us that just brings out my submissiveness with Him.

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RE: Why Do Dommes never switch - 6/13/2009 9:49:06 AM

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They say the best way to get a domme to switch is to spill a drink on her.

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RE: Why Do Dommes never switch - 6/13/2009 9:51:15 AM

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.....Now, I'm a bossy bitch with attitude...

Truer words have never been spoken *snort*

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RE: Why Do Dommes never switch - 6/13/2009 9:58:34 AM

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They say the best way to get a domme to switch is to spill a drink on her.

You could say, that, ummmmm, it was a drink.

And of course, Bear... a lady never lies, she just omits certain things. And then there's holly.......

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RE: Why Do Dommes never switch - 6/13/2009 10:07:04 AM

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Answers on a post card Ladies??? Feeling a lil toppy Kevin?

I don't do post cards... and being told to is a hard limit. I do believe I just answered your questions anyway.

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RE: Why Do Dommes never switch - 6/13/2009 10:22:04 AM

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Would I ever switch?

Absofuckinglutely not. Nope. Never.

The thought is nausea-inducing and contrary to what makes Me, Me.

Why don't you go ask a male dom? A lot more men than women switch, but they can be secretive and controlling about it, so perhaps that's why you asked an otherwise trollish question.

So the only appropriate way for a man to approach with a whip is on his knees, head and eyes respectfully down, and the whip in his open palms, the handle towards My hand. Otherwise he would be in for the beatdown of his life, his face and ass would be pulp and not in a good way, followed by his arrest for attempted assault en route to the Emergency room where they try to extract said whip from his wrecked-tum.

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RE: Why Do Dommes never switch - 6/13/2009 11:06:19 AM

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Aylee mabey it is because they are dominants with switches. Op you are probably going about it all wrong. There is a simple way to get them to switch.

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RE: Why Do Dommes never switch - 6/13/2009 11:06:35 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: lobodomslavery

i want to know Ladies why do Dommes never switch.

Never switch in what way? Rain gave you one example.

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i mean do Dommes not get tired of being like well Domme?

Tired of being themselves? This question makes no sense.

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i mean what happens if a slave approaches You with a whip?

What do you mean? I am at a club or party and an s-type walking around with a whip in his/her hand says "hello" to me? I would say "hello" in return. The same if they had anything else in their hands.

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do you sort of get all apprehensive?

Only if they were running full tilt as though they wanted to club me over the head like a baby harp seal. But again, anyone doing that with anything or nothing in their hands would give me pause.

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in that situation who cracks the whip?

I would guess that the one that owns the whip gets to play with it. But you probably do not mean this literally. If you are not MY s-type, why would I give a dead rat's ass (to use a Holly-ism) what you are holding? How would it make any difference to me?

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have You ever fantasised about being a sub?

Have I ever had internal speculation on what something would be like? Yes. Do I dream about someday having a master? No.

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and how do You know what its like on the other end if you have never received a whipping?

Dom does not automatically equal sadist. It seems as though you are confusing s/m play with a d/s relationship.

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how do You know when a sub is faking or when he is really in pain?

Check to see if their eyes are dialated.

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Answers on a post card Ladies. But serious did You honestly think that i would say i would like some feedback on X. that really would be too funny wouldnt it Laughs, hope everyone is in good form
kevin

Feedback on "x?" Whatever. Kevin, you really need some therapy. You treat women as if they were two-dimensional objects instead of realizing that they are human and comprise more than your 2-D fantasies.

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RE: Why Do Dommes never switch - 6/13/2009 11:12:48 AM

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Kevin you need 3D glasses

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RE: Why Do Dommes never switch - 6/13/2009 2:06:16 PM

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Kevin needs to remember what threads he has already started. It would also be nice if he used the SEARCH function, or maybe READ some of the posts on the Ask A Mistress forum, since several of the ladies there actually ARE switches, or were submissive at one time.

And Kevin? Believe me, you could not have handled some of the scenes I have bottomed for.

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RE: Why Do Dommes never switch - 6/13/2009 2:11:39 PM

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But F.. How did the Top know you weren't faking it? Gee..I am now wondering how many of mine, have faked their own blood? Hmmm..?

Edited because I can't see worth a shit..lol

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RE: Why Do Dommes never switch - 6/13/2009 2:12:54 PM

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Faking what? It's not like I was tied down or anything!

Somewhere, someone has some really fabulous polaroids... I wonder whatever happened to them?

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RE: Why Do Dommes never switch - 6/13/2009 2:17:48 PM

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*Whispers to Holly* Hide the damn polaoids! She is asking about them!

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RE: Why Do Dommes never switch - 6/13/2009 2:23:18 PM

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F.. did you deliberately spill water on your tops?

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RE: Why Do Dommes never switch - 6/13/2009 2:25:15 PM

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Wha? It is NOT my fault that the shelf catches things!

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RE: Why Do Dommes never switch - 6/13/2009 2:28:21 PM

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YAY FOR BEWBAGE!!

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RE: Why Do Dommes never switch - 6/13/2009 2:40:27 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: MoGa

But F.. How did the Top know you weren't faking it? Gee..I am now wondering how many of mine, have faked their own blood? Hmmm..?

Edited because I can't see worth a shit..lol

Just so you know, the fake blood stuff smells like mint. So, do you recall if their blood smelled minty or not?

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RE: Why Do Dommes never switch - 6/13/2009 2:42:32 PM

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Nope, nor did it taste minty *s*

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