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secretz81 -> does anyone read a profile?!?! (6/13/2009 3:16:41 AM)

I'm posting this with my Dom's permission (he's actually here watching me type).

It's become very apparent that there's a large majority of Dom's who seem to be incapable/indifferent/respectful to the fact that it clearly states within my profile that I am owned and am not looking for anything more than friendly acquaintances. 
Is it just me, or does it seem that too many of these people are just entirely too selfish to not take the time and atleast skim through a profile before messaging that person?  Or is just that they've never passed elementary school? 

I wish there was someway (or some sort of program) that would weed through these sort of people.  Maybe answering a quiz before you're even allowed to message the person...lol.  I dunno, just a thought. 

Remember  -  BahhhhhhHHHHHhhhh ....means no. 




LadySweetOrSour -> RE: does anyone read a profile?!?! (6/13/2009 3:45:27 AM)

No, many don't bother reading profiles at all. We all get those emails, owned, whichever side of the D/s fence we sit, straight, gay, bi, etc.

That's why god invented block and delete.[:D]




sirsholly -> RE: does anyone read a profile?!?! (6/13/2009 3:51:21 AM)

quote:

I wish there was someway (or some sort of program) that would weed through these sort of people. Maybe answering a quiz before you're even allowed to message the person...lol. I dunno, just a thought.


Just delete and move on.




purepleasure -> RE: does anyone read a profile?!?! (6/13/2009 4:49:55 AM)

if you hide your profile on the other side of cm, it will cut down on those unsolicited email.




MissIsis -> RE: does anyone read a profile?!?! (6/13/2009 4:59:10 AM)

The odds are small in here.  It seems some people will grasp at straws no matter what they see or hear.  Very often, there are dominants, who will just figure, they want something & will go after it.  I am not sure which applies to those who write to you.  They probably figure that most relationships in here don't last anyway, so if they are friendly to you, maybe you will pick them, if & when the chips will fall. 

You can always delete the emails with or without reading them.  And the block user function works great, too.  I use it for people who send profiles with silly masks, latex, or cock pics. 




DarkSteven -> RE: does anyone read a profile?!?! (6/13/2009 5:23:03 AM)

If you remove that profile pic, you'll get far fewer unwanted messages.




fluffypet61 -> RE: does anyone read a profile?!?! (6/13/2009 5:24:24 AM)

Also...some of them can't read English or whatever language your profile is written in.  These often just look at the pictures. 
 
Look into the Mail Controls under Read Mail and send unwanted categories to your bulk mailbox.  Then you can Check All and Delete.  Some of the things you can filter are Other Countries, over a certain age, under a certain age, all Male Dominants.
 
Good Luck in your relationship.  [:)]
 
Remember Block - Delete is your friend.




KatyLied -> RE: does anyone read a profile?!?! (6/13/2009 5:39:29 AM)

It's frustrating when strangers won't conform to your standards of behavior.  Did you know that you can ignore them?




lronitulstahp -> RE: does anyone read a profile?!?! (6/13/2009 6:14:27 AM)

Maybe you should put the bit about you being owned at the beginning of your profile....rather than on the very bottom.




Musicmystery -> RE: does anyone read a profile?!?! (6/13/2009 6:23:26 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: secretz81

I'm posting this with my Dom's permission (he's actually here watching me type).

It's become very apparent that there's a large majority of Dom's who seem to be incapable/indifferent/respectful to the fact that it clearly states within my profile that I am owned and am not looking for anything more than friendly acquaintances. 
Is it just me, or does it seem that too many of these people are just entirely too selfish to not take the time and atleast skim through a profile before messaging that person?  Or is just that they've never passed elementary school? 

I wish there was someway (or some sort of program) that would weed through these sort of people.  Maybe answering a quiz before you're even allowed to message the person...lol.  I dunno, just a thought. 

Remember  -  BahhhhhhHHHHHhhhh ....means no. 


The girls are no better, I'm sorry to say. I even get questions, simple questions with simple answers, that are addressed early in my profile.

People are lazy.






sunshinemiss -> RE: does anyone read a profile?!?! (6/13/2009 6:36:30 AM)

Them's not Doms... Them's wannabes...

They not weal or twue. 

... and thus begins the Real and True portion of the thread...




beargonewild -> RE: does anyone read a profile?!?! (6/13/2009 6:59:12 AM)

....and thank you for tuning into WCRP. The station that promises to deliver you the good, the bad and the bull at no extra charge!




LadyHibiscus -> RE: does anyone read a profile?!?! (6/13/2009 1:17:30 PM)

No picture cuts down mail substantially.  Or you could just delete your mail unread!  That certainly saves ME plenty of time!




Vendaval -> RE: does anyone read a profile?!?! (6/13/2009 1:50:01 PM)

Many do not, they only look for hot women or men in photos.




TANTRADD -> RE: does anyone read a profile?!?! (6/13/2009 1:58:53 PM)

Some ppl put a thing in the profile like...start you message with ***
if you have read my profile

and then stick to that..and not answser if the *** is not there..

I put in a thing 
Go to the dots .........
and I put there what I wanted them to write about  if they
do not I do not answer at all

SOME will go back in an effort to see why you did not answer and then actually read,,wow[:-]

You will be exhausted and annoyed if you answser all the BS..

another idea is have something in your name I guess like
FRNSONL or have hthe very first words  I AM HERE FOR FRIENDS

but many are looking at pics only or who is online

one woman says her profile says
I am here for the forums

and gets messages
I loved your profile
ahahahha
best of luck


GQ




MoGa -> RE: does anyone read a profile?!?! (6/13/2009 2:13:57 PM)

Hell, I am wondering if half of them read their own posts, much less a profile! [8|]




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