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BlackRoseDeath -> Ideas On How To Great Your Master At The Door (6/13/2009 3:34:52 PM)

Hello my name is BlackRoseDeath
My Question is today
"What is the best way to greet your dom or domme at the door?"
What I am trying to ask:
How do you greet him or her? What do you wear? What are you first words to him or her?
Do you wear only your collar when you see them? And Etc...
I know it is a stupid question...but I would love some new idea on how to greet my lord




GYPZYQUEEN -> RE: Ideas On How To Great Your Master At The Door (6/13/2009 3:48:11 PM)

blackrose///

Has your "lord" not told you what he would like? given instructions?
DID he not indicate when you were to wear your collar? if you are collared
Was this not discussed before collaring?
Only he knows what would please him..

IF he has left this to you to as a creative task..to come up  with ideas
then
I have a few..
 
GQ




BlackRoseDeath -> RE: Ideas On How To Great Your Master At The Door (6/13/2009 3:53:46 PM)

He never told me anything
That is why I asked what another subs/slave do
My Master didn't tell me alot thing to please him really
I feel as I'm not doing a good job in serving him...





kuriouswitch -> RE: Ideas On How To Great Your Master At The Door (6/13/2009 4:38:00 PM)

I've greeted Master a few different ways, He's never told me any one way to greet him.
If I'm sitting I stand up when he enters the room/house and wait for him to come to me. he speaks first, he touches (hugs, kisses ect) first if that is his wish.
The day after I was formally collared I folded my blanket in half (the floor was stone tile and very cold and hard) and nadu'd naked on the blanket when Master walked in, I almost didn't make it in time (I had to find and fold the blanket ect) but I did and he was very pleased when he saw me kneeling there.

I don't think I could just sit when he walked in, I'd personally would find myself standing automatically when he walked in, but I enjoy kneeling for him as well.




antipode -> RE: Ideas On How To Great Your Master At The Door (6/13/2009 4:52:36 PM)

quote:

how to greet my lord


How about: "Nice to see you. I have run out of creative ideas, I can prove that to you as I am now asking forum questions about the most irrelevant things, so I am leaving to look for something more meaningful to do with my life".




breatheasone -> RE: Ideas On How To Great Your Master At The Door (6/13/2009 5:03:55 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL:antipode,

How about: "Nice to see you.


Good advise.

quote:

I have run out of creative ideas,


yes, she stated that, you are repeating it why?

quote:

I can prove that to you as I am now asking forum questions about the most irrelevant things,


i don't recall the OP saying she need to prove anything. And it may be irrelevant to you, but YOU didn't ask the question SHE did.

quote:

so I am leaving to look for something more meaningful to do with my life".


Now see....this i just don't get at all.... where did you see anything to indicate she wanted to leave?  Where did she even elude to needing more meaning in her life?

If it weren't for the quote you included, i almost wouldn't have know what post you were replying to. Did you even have a point?





DarkSteven -> RE: Ideas On How To Great Your Master At The Door (6/13/2009 5:13:45 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: BlackRoseDeath

He never told me anything
That is why I asked what another subs/slave do
My Master didn't tell me alot thing to please him really
I feel as I'm not doing a good job in serving him...



Uh oh.  You have a disconnect.  He's probably happy as a clam while you're beating yourself up.

Talk to him and simply ask if there are other ways you could serve him.




VampiresLair -> RE: Ideas On How To Great Your Master At The Door (6/13/2009 5:22:31 PM)

Fox greets me on his knees, in whatever he happened to be wearing that day unless I have told him otherwise. He has a cup of hot coffee offered up to me, and his eyes are down.
The reason he knows this is how I choose tobe greeted is that he asked me what I would like, and I told him.

Ask your master what he would like to see and then do it. What works for us wont matter a bit to him

DV




beargonewild -> RE: Ideas On How To Great Your Master At The Door (6/13/2009 5:36:49 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: BlackRoseDeath

He never told me anything
That is why I asked what another subs/slave do
My Master didn't tell me alot thing to please him really
I feel as I'm not doing a good job in serving him...




Maybe it's a good idea to sit down with your master and ask if he has a preferred way he'd like you to greet him at the door? If he doesn't indicate anything, just try a few different ways and note carefully the expression on his face. If he shows pleasure towards a specific way, then use that from now on.

Some ideas:

1) greet him at the door wearing and outfit that pleases him and have his favorite drink ready for him.
2) be waiting at the door on your knees, waiting for him
3) When he arrives, hang is jacket up, help him remove his shoes, give a foor massage and ask how his day went and listen intently




MMagic -> RE: Ideas On How To Great Your Master At The Door (6/13/2009 5:41:13 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: GYPZYQUEEN

blackrose///

Has your "lord" not told you what he would like? given instructions?
DID he not indicate when you were to wear your collar? if you are collared
Was this not discussed before collaring?
Only he knows what would please him..

IF he has left this to you to as a creative task..to come up  with ideas
then
I have a few..
 
GQ



Seran Wrap and a smile.




littlewonder -> RE: Ideas On How To Great Your Master At The Door (6/13/2009 5:50:16 PM)

I greet him with a huge hug and a kiss. After that all depends on who's around, our moods, etc...we don't have any kind of protocol, ritual or formalities.




Zechriel -> RE: Ideas On How To Great Your Master At The Door (6/13/2009 6:10:44 PM)

Good evening!
there are so many unanswered questions, your house or his? Few days a week or once a month? But you really have to talk, I mean, talk just to find out what he likes for Pete's sake. I had no idea the first few times I went to see Daddy, I just kinda stood there as we talked until he lead me around, hugged me, etc etc. Now I know,,
1. I ring the doorbell before I open the door which is always unlocked (his hearing is not great and I scared him once walking behind his chair while he was watching Snakes on a Plane) to let him know I am there. Yeah, I still giggle but not in front of him anymore.
2. Enter and take off my shoes (he is very neat and wears slippers around the house-he bought me my own slippers too)
3. Put everything on the table (coat,purse, food etc.)
4.Come from the side and ask about his work day. Then wait to see what comes next.

Usually we see each other about 3 times a week for an hour. If it is playtime (always at his house) then the commands are more direct and spur of the moment. You just have to know what he prefers otherwise you drive yourself mad wondering what to do or doing something wrong and getting punished horribly for it. But always ask politely ::smiles:: Good luck!
Love,
Zechriel [sm=couple.gif]




Kana -> RE: Ideas On How To Great Your Master At The Door (6/13/2009 6:16:59 PM)

Naked with a martini for him in hand works wonders for most guys!




sweetsub1957 -> RE: Ideas On How To Great Your Master At The Door (6/13/2009 8:31:29 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: BlackRoseDeath

Hello my name is BlackRoseDeath
Hi BlackRoseDeath.
My Question is today
"What is the best way to greet your dom or domme at the door?"
He didn't tell me specifics, so i just greet Him very excited to see Him.  If i were a puppy, my whole butt would be wiggling because my tail is wagging so hard.  :)
What I am trying to ask:
How do you greet him or her? What do you wear? What are you first words to him or her?
i greet Him with a huge hug and a big fat kiss on the lips and then on His neck too.  i wear whatever He asked me to the last time W/we IMed.  i'm freshly showered, shampooed, perfumed, etc.  i say "i'm soooo glad to see You, <pet name>!"
Do you wear only your collar when you see them? And Etc...
i wear my collar every minute of every day and night except when i'm actually in the shower or drying off, as it's leather.
I know it is a stupid question...but I would love some new idea on how to greet my lord
No question is stupid if you don't know the answer.





silvermuse -> RE: Ideas On How To Great Your Master At The Door (6/13/2009 9:21:42 PM)

A smile, a 'hello Master/beloved/love' depending on who is around. Honestly, we don't have any set way of greeting as 'real life' just doesn't work that way for us.

UM's, work, dinner, business partner living with us (who does know we're Master and slave), edits, re-writes, oh, your Mom called etc...

The fact I am happy to see him is enough for him.

muse




Hissltora -> RE: Ideas On How To Great Your Master At The Door (6/13/2009 9:47:44 PM)

~FR~

i'm gonna go in complete opposite direction from everyone else who answered "drool at the very site of him and drape yourself at his feet the moment he walks in".

Master N prefers i don't approach Him until His boots are off and He has come farther than 10 ft inside the door. He's the kinda guy that wants a moment to Himself to shift gears from work to home. Even then, a hug and kiss would be too much touchy feely. He'd prefer a verbal greeting and a sincere smile.

Sometimes what He gets is listening to me shout Hi Honey, welcome home! from across the house.

At least i'm not throwing children at Him. :)

Yeah, ask him. He'd know best.








Huntertn -> RE: Ideas On How To Great Your Master At The Door (6/13/2009 10:05:08 PM)

write five ways to great him when he comes in..put them in a hat and draw one..do all five..watch how he reacts to them..then chose one..if nothing else it will be fun for you both..grins




onlyfreelycaged -> RE: Ideas On How To Great Your Master At The Door (6/13/2009 11:03:21 PM)

my ideal of a way to greet a dominate man after work would be: house clean, chores all done, dinner ready (almost), favorite after work beverage sitting next to favorite after work drop spot. I'd be freshly cleaned up, looking beautiful. everything that needs being said on my end can wait until after dinner or doring dinner...

but, in reality, I've never gotten any complaints from not smelling bad, and not having anything that he has to do right way.




agirl -> RE: Ideas On How To Great Your Master At The Door (6/14/2009 6:47:33 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: BlackRoseDeath

Hello my name is BlackRoseDeath
My Question is today
"What is the best way to greet your dom or domme at the door?"
What I am trying to ask:
How do you greet him or her? What do you wear? What are you first words to him or her?
Do you wear only your collar when you see them? And Etc...
I know it is a stupid question...but I would love some new idea on how to greet my lord



I'm usually distracted, hear him open the door and dash to the kitchen to finish his coffee with semi-disguised panic...lol

I wear whatever I want to...unless he's told me to do something specific (rare)

My first words are usually........ * I had the coffee ready, kind of, almost ....* while he just grins at my usual scattiness and panic.

Basically...I greet him as myself...the person he knows. If he wants me to be prepared in some specific way, I just rely on him telling me that.

agirl








sirsholly -> RE: Ideas On How To Great Your Master At The Door (6/14/2009 7:36:48 AM)

I let him in....what more does he want?




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