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Am I blind, or what? - 2/11/2006 7:37:04 PM   
fastlane


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Status: offline 		Tee hee hee, or should you be?
How many of you like to be totally surprised and how many want to know what is coming next? Blindfolded or not...that is the question?

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RE: Am I blind, or what? - 2/11/2006 7:43:44 PM   
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ORIGINAL: fastlane

Tee hee hee, or should you be?
How many of you like to be totally surprised and how many want to know what is coming next? Blindfolded or not...that is the question?



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RE: Am I blind, or what? - 2/11/2006 7:48:24 PM   
fergus


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Status: offline 		I DON'T like suprises one bit ;)

Which is why it's so good to use them in a scene. Keeps me off balance.

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RE: Am I blind, or what? - 2/11/2006 7:56:24 PM   
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Status: offline 		i woulnd't want a blindfold on the first few sessions, until such time as i am comfortable with the Mistress present...then, who knows

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RE: Am I blind, or what? - 2/11/2006 8:07:00 PM   
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Status: offline 		I love blindfolds, not knowing what is coming next or where it will be is very arousing for me. I also like guessing what He is using.

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RE: Am I blind, or what? - 2/11/2006 8:42:02 PM   
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ORIGINAL: MHOO314
I will have the boy respond to this one--<smirks>


i think i'm ... wait, i can't see anything, i don't know what i am ... Oooooo! Owwwwww! Gasp!

Well, trust might play somewhat of a part in just how hard it is to take not being able to see what's next, but then again, if i don't trust, what am i doing there in the first place? Overall, the blindfold may lead to a greater sense of falling into the situation, and the added vulnerability actually deepens the sense of trust and with it, connection. It can make me feel on edge, but it can also make me feel very well taken care of. And frequently, it can let my mind take me deeper into the sense of exactly what i hope to feel.

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RE: Am I blind, or what? - 2/11/2006 8:47:31 PM   
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Status: offline 		Anticipation and fear (the good kind!) of the unknown are two of the biggest aphrodisiacs for me. When a blindfold goes on, my heart starts to pound immediately.

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RE: Am I blind, or what? - 2/11/2006 9:09:40 PM   
windy135


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Status: offline 		I have a love hate relationship with blindfolds.. :)

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RE: Am I blind, or what? - 2/11/2006 9:39:33 PM   
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RE: Am I blind, or what? - 2/11/2006 9:57:22 PM   
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How many of you like to be totally surprised and how many want to know what is coming next? Blindfolded or not...that is the question?


I LOVE blindfolds. And if He can keep me from hearing along with it, that's even better. I love the temporary sensory deprivation, and it makes the play just that much more intense.

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RE: Am I blind, or what? - 2/11/2006 9:57:36 PM   
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RE: Am I blind, or what? - 2/11/2006 10:39:58 PM   
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quote:

How many of you like to be totally surprised and how many want to know what is coming next? Blindfolded or not...that is the question?


I LOVE blindfolds. And if He can keep me from hearing along with it, that's even better. I love the temporary sensory deprivation, and it makes the play just that much more intense.


Had blindfold and earplugs. Earplugs only muffle the sounds though, they didn't keep them out entirely. But...while kneeling like that in the corner of the room i could not hear him come and go - - had no idea what he was up to or when/what he might do. Other senses really kick in. Smell is a huge one. Since i love his scent, i would inhale deeply, trying to find him. You can sense when someone is close too, as the air around you seems to shift. It is quite intoxicating.

i agree with other posts. Total trust is critical.

Blindfolds are used a lot. Master likes the element of surprise.

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RE: Am I blind, or what? - 2/11/2006 11:12:04 PM   
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Status: offline 		ooohh...blindfolds...uhm...

yes, please...

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RE: Am I blind, or what? - 2/12/2006 1:36:24 AM   
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Status: offline 		I luurrrve blindfolds. I like surprises, the sense dep is great, and my other senses seem to intensify threefold. But I also sleep with a pillow on top of my head (what can I say, Im weird!) just because the feeling of something wrapped around my head puts me in a very comfy headspace.

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RE: Am I blind, or what? - 2/12/2006 4:00:12 AM   
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ORIGINAL: fastlane

Tee hee hee, or should you be?
How many of you like to be totally surprised and how many want to know what is coming next? Blindfolded or not...that is the question?


Blindfold's are wicked !!

Even with just a blindfold on ... you can't see her ...but you can hear the heel's clicking on the floor ...

Trying to guess where she is ...what she's going to do next....

All my attention goes into my hearing....and my sence of smell ...

What is she picking up now ...listening intently..flogger,crop,cane.paddle?

Then the suprise.......Mmmmm candle wax Woooo that's f**king hot ..

He say's ..the fear of not knowing what's next is great..

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RE: Am I blind, or what? - 2/12/2006 6:26:18 AM   
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Status: offline 		blind folds drooles theyre is something about being tied up blindfolded and wairing head phones and being total at the mercy of the one i love that makes play a perfect moment

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RE: Am I blind, or what? - 2/12/2006 9:20:41 AM   
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RE: Am I blind, or what? - 2/12/2006 9:27:55 AM   
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Status: offline 		mmm blindfolds, how exciting. Those lend greatly to the feeling of not being in control, fantastico.

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RE: Am I blind, or what? - 2/12/2006 10:41:43 AM   
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ORIGINAL: xxblushesxx

ooohh...blindfolds...uhm...

yes, please...

ditto!!!!

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RE: Am I blind, or what? - 2/12/2006 1:50:56 PM   
oceangem


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Status: offline 		Blindfolded, as it plunges you into the darkness, its the unknown of what is happening next, the skin comes alive and sensative to the lighest of breeze, the hearing becomes tuned to the slightest noise, the smell of everything is heightened


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