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finding what we need - 6/15/2009 5:50:15 AM   
analretentive


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Master? Why is it so difficult to find people with our intersts in collarme? Where can I post who we seek for my continued learning experiences? WTF?
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RE: finding what we need - 6/15/2009 6:03:03 AM   
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Status: offline 		Part of your problem might be that it is hard to understand what you write.  For example, right now, I don't know what you are talking about, except that you are frustrated.

If you take some time to explain yourself, you are more likely to get quality responses.


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RE: finding what we need - 6/15/2009 7:46:52 AM   
SmokingGun82


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Status: offline 		Since I'm not sure the question, I'll take a stab at answering it.

Some people do, some don't.

Yes, someone else feels the same way. It's a big planet, after all.

No, that's called abuse. Run away.

Talk to them, not a forum of strangers.

Chicken nuggets dunked in hot sauce.

There's a search box at the top of the page. Use it.

Be patient. Don't rush into something just because you want to feel loved/needed/whatever right away. Good things take time.


I'm fairly certain one of those seven answers is applicable in every situation. Choose the one that most closely matches this situation, and you're welcome.


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RE: finding what we need - 6/15/2009 8:37:55 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: analretentive


Master? Why is it so difficult to find people with our intersts in collarme? Where can I post who we seek for my continued learning experiences? WTF?


I am confuzzled...and when I am confuzzled...it's not a good thing

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RE: finding what we need - 6/15/2009 12:34:10 PM   
DagnyT


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Status: offline 		Umm, as far as I know this isn't "Ask A Master" like you are speaking to one specific person (like Dear Abby).

As to where to post to learn, I recommend you read current threads and use the search function to research older threads: both have both proven/are proving valuable for me.

And what's with the "WTF", btw?

Dagny



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RE: finding what we need - 6/15/2009 12:37:31 PM   
onlyfreelycaged


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ORIGINAL: DagnyT

Umm, as far as I know this isn't "Ask A Master" like you are speaking to one specific person (like Dear Abby).

As to where to post to learn, I recommend you read current threads and use the search function to research older threads: both have both proven/are proving valuable for me.

And what's with the "WTF", btw?

Dagny




wtf = what the f*%&

in this case its saying that the post doesn't ask an understandable question and confuses people.

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RE: finding what we need - 6/15/2009 1:08:15 PM   
NormalOutside


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ORIGINAL: onlyfreelycaged


quote:

ORIGINAL: DagnyT

Umm, as far as I know this isn't "Ask A Master" like you are speaking to one specific person (like Dear Abby).

As to where to post to learn, I recommend you read current threads and use the search function to research older threads: both have both proven/are proving valuable for me.

And what's with the "WTF", btw?

Dagny




wtf = what the f*%&

in this case its saying that the post doesn't ask an understandable question and confuses people.


Looks like you're confused too. The WTF was in the original post, not in a reply. Dagny was asking the OP why he/she said "WTF" randomly at the end of the post.

I too am confused by the OP. The title doesn't match the post, there's no clear question, and the writing style is quite disorienting.


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RE: finding what we need - 6/15/2009 4:30:51 PM   
lizi


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Status: offline 		After looking at the OP's profile this posting makes more sense. The OP appears to be the slave half of a couple and wants additional training from other D types.

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RE: finding what we need - 6/15/2009 4:39:21 PM   
DarkSteven


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ORIGINAL: lizi

After looking at the OP's profile this posting makes more sense. The OP appears to be the slave half of a couple and wants additional training from other D types.



I agree with you.

In that case,, I'd say it's tough to find a D type willing to train a slave/master couple with whom s/he is not involved.  As a general thing, and in Gorham, Maine, it gets a lot tougher.


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RE: finding what we need - 6/15/2009 4:44:05 PM   
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RE: finding what we need - 6/15/2009 5:03:27 PM   
NihilusZero


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ORIGINAL: lizi

After looking at the OP's profile this posting makes more sense. The OP appears to be the slave half of a couple and wants additional training from other D types.


I forthwith offer my training services as a linguistic pedant.


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RE: finding what we need - 6/15/2009 5:18:20 PM   
SteelofUtah


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ORIGINAL: NihilusZero

quote:

ORIGINAL: lizi

After looking at the OP's profile this posting makes more sense. The OP appears to be the slave half of a couple and wants additional training from other D types.


I forthwith offer my training services as a linguistic pedant.



10 Points for useing the word pedant.

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RE: finding what we need - 6/15/2009 6:54:14 PM   
GYPZYQUEEN


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Status: offline 		You do not POST  on CM to find the people  that you need in your realtionship..

YOU post to discuss things..learn etc

You find what you need through  your PROFILES..and messaging other ppl whose profiles you like..
or going to events..parties..munchs or even posting on CRAIGS LIST..

you need more in your profile to make it clear what YOU SEEK.
I takes  TIME..

and if it is more training for the slave...often other DOMS do not want to do that
They want their own slave

also you say it is hard to find ppl who have your interests..well...
what are they??


GQ.

< Message edited by GYPZYQUEEN -- 6/15/2009 7:02:24 PM >

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RE: finding what we need - 6/15/2009 7:59:17 PM   
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ORIGINAL: SmokingGun82

Since I'm not sure the question, I'll take a stab at answering it.

Some people do, some don't.

Yes, someone else feels the same way. It's a big planet, after all.

No, that's called abuse. Run away.

Talk to them, not a forum of strangers.

Chicken nuggets dunked in hot sauce.

There's a search box at the top of the page. Use it.

Be patient. Don't rush into something just because you want to feel loved/needed/whatever right away. Good things take time.


I'm fairly certain one of those seven answers is applicable in every situation. Choose the one that most closely matches this situation, and you're welcome.



While I thought this very entertaining, I'm almost afraid to wonder what the highlighted above would be the correct answer for.  I hope it might be in reply to one of those 'what do you like to eat after a scene' kind of question, and not one that has anything to do with any play.  For that, it's better to use the whole chicken.


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RE: finding what we need - 6/16/2009 5:33:29 PM   
lizi


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ORIGINAL: NihilusZero

I forthwith offer my training services as a linguistic pedant.



Oooooo...linguine...I mean linguistics...slurp. Sorry, either one sets off my Pavlovian drool response. Or maybe it was the mention of chicken nuggets in hot sauce that did it...

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RE: finding what we need - 6/16/2009 5:36:08 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: SmokingGun82

Since I'm not sure the question, I'll take a stab at answering it.

Some people do, some don't.

Yes, someone else feels the same way. It's a big planet, after all.

No, that's called abuse. Run away.

Talk to them, not a forum of strangers.

Chicken nuggets dunked in hot sauce.

There's a search box at the top of the page. Use it.

Be patient. Don't rush into something just because you want to feel loved/needed/whatever right away. Good things take time.


I'm fairly certain one of those seven answers is applicable in every situation. Choose the one that most closely matches this situation, and you're welcome.



You forgot one

Well that is the price you pay for eating nothing but Taco Bell for a week

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RE: finding what we need - 6/16/2009 6:34:15 PM   
DesFIP


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Status: offline 		You don't seem to realize that this mythical other person you want to have sex with is a person. Why would she/he want to get involved with you? Especially if the M is going to be watching until he approves her. Why not try something new and novel, make friends first and be honest about wanting to experiment with another woman.

But to get it over with quickly without having to go to the bother of being a friend, hire an escort.

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RE: finding what we need - 6/16/2009 7:48:19 PM   
thishereboi


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ORIGINAL: IrishMist


quote:

ORIGINAL: analretentive


Master? Why is it so difficult to find people with our intersts in collarme? Where can I post who we seek for my continued learning experiences? WTF?


I am confuzzled...and when I am confuzzled...it's not a good thing


I was too, and then I read SmokingGun's post. Now it's all clear to me.

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RE: finding what we need - 6/16/2009 7:52:36 PM   
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ORIGINAL: LadyPact

quote:

ORIGINAL: SmokingGun82

Since I'm not sure the question, I'll take a stab at answering it.

Some people do, some don't.

Yes, someone else feels the same way. It's a big planet, after all.

No, that's called abuse. Run away.

Talk to them, not a forum of strangers.

Chicken nuggets dunked in hot sauce.

There's a search box at the top of the page. Use it.

Be patient. Don't rush into something just because you want to feel loved/needed/whatever right away. Good things take time.


I'm fairly certain one of those seven answers is applicable in every situation. Choose the one that most closely matches this situation, and you're welcome.



While I thought this very entertaining, I'm almost afraid to wonder what the highlighted above would be the correct answer for.  I hope it might be in reply to one of those 'what do you like to eat after a scene' kind of question, and not one that has anything to do with any play.  For that, it's better to use the whole chicken.



Q: Which burns your pussy more?
A: The chicken nuggets dunked in hot sauce.

As to what to eat after the scene......ummmmm Hot fudge cream puffs with Sanders hot fudge.

Yea, I'm tired. Time for bed

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RE: finding what we need - 6/17/2009 8:25:03 AM   
SmokingGun82


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quote:

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ORIGINAL: thishereboi

I am confuzzled...and when I am confuzzled...it's not a good thing

I was too, and then I read SmokingGun's post. Now it's all clear to me.


Clearing up confuzzlation is one of my many amazing talents.


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