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Does a guy deserve to be fired for high jinks outside w... - 6/15/2009 8:05:49 AM   
lobodomslavery


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its a beautiful sunny day in Dublin. Temperature High 60s , hope its nice where You are too.
Anyway i have this situation. a friend of mine was in a nightclub a couple of weeks back. he took a picture of a Woman who he thought was a Domme as She was dressed up to the nines in leather, leather boots etc.  She was posing raunchily with a whip in Her hand. it turns out this Domme is not a Domme at all but a politician. To cut a long story short, this budding politician, remembers this guy, in fact She went out with him for three years. You would think therefore She would laugh this off. The picture got published in the newspaper the next day. A bit of embarrassment for the girl etc etc. You would think the Woman would laugh this off. But no, She goes straight to His boss and reports the matter to the boss who fires him. i would like to know is this fair. is it really out of line to get up to high jinks outside employment and do you really deserve to lose Your job over it. ok, he caused the Woman embarrassment but is it really a disciplinary offence. Or does the guy deserve everything He got? Was he out of line to take a photo of Her and paste it on Facebook, the story subsequently gathered legs and appeared in the paper. The Woman was elected so it did not damage Her. So it seems to me that the guy was unfairly treated. Is this Female authority gone mad, or is it proper order- ie the guy should not have taken the picture in the first place
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RE: Does a guy deserve to be fired for high jinks outsi... - 6/15/2009 11:23:55 AM   
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RE: Does a guy deserve to be fired for high jinks outsi... - 6/15/2009 11:29:31 AM   
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i would like to know is this fair. 


she was not aware he was taking her pic and did not sign a release for the pics to be published.

If i were her, your friend would be hearing from my attorney in the very near future


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RE: Does a guy deserve to be fired for high jinks outsi... - 6/15/2009 11:30:27 AM   
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eta:  yanno... like calling a doctor and saying.. "I have this friend that just discovered a pus filled bump on his penis......"


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RE: Does a guy deserve to be fired for high jinks outsi... - 6/15/2009 11:33:45 AM   
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I have  friend that wants to do this---> when ever she reads Kevins posts.


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RE: Does a guy deserve to be fired for high jinks outsi... - 6/15/2009 11:33:50 AM   
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RE: Does a guy deserve to be fired for high jinks outsi... - 6/15/2009 11:34:20 AM   
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Status: offline 		It's highly possible he was fired not because of what he does on his own time but over the fact that he took someone's else's picture and decided to publish the photos. Maybe she did over react and complain to her boss because of that , the fact remains, it seems to be a case of poor judgement on his part and him suffering the repercussions of said actions.

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RE: Does a guy deserve to be fired for high jinks outsi... - 6/15/2009 11:35:42 AM   
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ORIGINAL: loulou74

Oh Greedy, you of little faith lol. Whatever gave you that impression???


Call me a cynic ;)


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RE: Does a guy deserve to be fired for high jinks outsi... - 6/15/2009 11:39:38 AM   
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Status: offline 		Surely this was published in a public newspaper somewhere with an online story.

I request proof of its validity...

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RE: Does a guy deserve to be fired for high jinks outsi... - 6/15/2009 11:41:50 AM   
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I request proof of its validity...
Kevin?


Yo Kev?


Helllllllloooooooo?


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RE: Does a guy deserve to be fired for high jinks outsi... - 6/15/2009 11:50:09 AM   
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I'm still waiting to hear exactly how this relates to the story he posted a couple of weeks ago about the female politician who came to his door wearing black leather boots. Because it would just be too bizarre a coincidence for it not to be related in any way.


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RE: Does a guy deserve to be fired for high jinks outsi... - 6/15/2009 11:52:16 AM   
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ORIGINAL: GreedyTop

:: head desk ::




I'm still waiting to hear exactly how this relates to the story he posted a couple of weeks ago about the female politician who came to his door wearing black leather boots. Because it would just be too bizarre a coincidence for it not to be related in any way.

And is there a relation between that story and the female in black leather boots who fired his hard working ass for no damn good reason?


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RE: Does a guy deserve to be fired for high jinks outsi... - 6/15/2009 11:53:26 AM   
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ORIGINAL: ThatDamnedPanda

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ORIGINAL: GreedyTop

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I'm still waiting to hear exactly how this relates to the story he posted a couple of weeks ago about the female politician who came to his door wearing black leather boots. Because it would just be too bizarre a coincidence for it not to be related in any way.



I'm about ta' call troll on him...

Some folk need to back away from the keyboard and live a bit more in the real world

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RE: Does a guy deserve to be fired for high jinks outsi... - 6/15/2009 11:58:09 AM   
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Status: offline 		There has to be some sort of medication involved in all of this. I'm not saying it was prescribed medication, but..........

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RE: Does a guy deserve to be fired for high jinks outsi... - 6/15/2009 12:01:45 PM   
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ORIGINAL: GreedyTop

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Oh Greedy, you of little faith lol. Whatever gave you that impression???


Call me a cynic ;)



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Oh.. .and for the record, if I did not give expressed permission for a picture of me to be published, whether online or in print, you can bet your sweet temporarily unmarked body (ass included), that I will haul you into court, and take out my uhhh... revenge... in many very unpleasant ways.  And no, I will not be dressed as a dominatrix while doing so.  Probably a few of my very large, very hairy, and sometimes(ok, usually) smelly male friends, will take care of said chore for me.

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RE: Does a guy deserve to be fired for high jinks outsi... - 6/15/2009 12:12:40 PM   
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RE: Does a guy deserve to be fired for high jinks outsi... - 6/15/2009 12:14:08 PM   
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Is this Female authority gone mad, or is it proper order- ie the guy should not have taken the picture in the first place


This has nothing to do with Female Authority, but it does have everything to do with publishing a picture without gaining the subjects permission first. Perhaps she reported him because she felt he was outting her. You know how some of people in this lifestyle do not want to be outted as it can adversely affect their lives, jobs and families.

As a side note, just an observation from your posts, you identify as a male slave, yet you seem to have a real problem with Dominant Females or is it actually that this is the way you gain the attention of Dominant Females? Some people get so desperate for attention that they begin to not care if it is positive or negative attention. Just a thought.

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RE: Does a guy deserve to be fired for high jinks outsi... - 6/15/2009 12:19:19 PM   
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RE: Does a guy deserve to be fired for high jinks outsi... - 6/15/2009 12:30:26 PM   
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Status: offline 		Well considering you tried to laugh your last post off by saying it was to see how many domina's you could get riled up..I say that we all totally ignore what you have to say in the future Kevin. When you don't get the desired results from this thread, will you then, say that it was posted as a joke? I am woman (Dominant or otherwise) who is now using my right to choose and I choose to ignore your stupid threads. I would suggest that we do not feed this peticular troll.

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RE: Does a guy deserve to be fired for high jinks outsi... - 6/15/2009 12:43:05 PM   
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