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What is a Daddy Dom? - 6/15/2009 12:35:53 PM   
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What is a Daddy Dom?

A Daddy Dom is the most tender of all Dominants. He loves His adult (18+) little one with an undying passion. He always has his submissive's best interest in mind, even when it conflicts with his personal desires. That doesn't mean that he gives into her every whim. There can be a huge difference in her desires and her real needs. He has to be able to make that sacrifice for her if needed. And yes, at times he does punish her. This usually hurts him just as much if not more than her, but he will always do what's best for her. He helps her set and reach her goals in life, not just in the lifestyle. He will help her improve herself to be the best she can be, not for HIM but for her ! He's not just looking to make her a better submissive, but a better person in general. He becomes many things in her life, a mentor, a teacher, a protector, a guide, AND a lover! He offers her what she needs most of all, unconditional love and acceptance.

He is consistent in his actions so that she knows what to expect from him, she knows she can depend on him! He wants nothing more than to pull her close and protect her from the cruel world. But knowing all along that he can't ! So it is up to him to prepare her for whatever life may bring her way, and be there to comfort her when things go wrong. Knowing she will run to him when she becomes overwhelmed or frighten by the harshness of life. The Daddy Dom listens to all her fears and concerns, knowing no matter how silly or childish they may sound to him, to her they are real and he will help her confront them. He slays her dragons so to speak and he is her "Knight in Shining Armor".

The Daddy Dom hears all her dreams, desires and all the dirty little secrets, and smiles because she is bold enough and loves him enough to open herself up so totally to him. He kisses her face and holds her close letting her know she is loved no matter what. she is His little one, and he loves her unconditionally. There is nothing more satisfying to him than to see her succeed, to watch as she grows as a person. He revels in her daily accomplishments almost as much as she does herself.
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RE: What is a Daddy Dom? - 6/15/2009 12:38:01 PM   
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That's nice and fine and all, but what a daddy dom is , will be different to every one else. And You don't have to be a daddy dom to do all those things.

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RE: What is a Daddy Dom? - 6/15/2009 12:39:01 PM   
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That sounds like such a wonderful place to be...

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RE: What is a Daddy Dom? - 6/15/2009 12:52:33 PM   
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I have to agree with you Topping. I wold say all those things pretty much describe the emotional flavor I create but I don't associate with the age dynamic at all. And, to the best of my knowledge, I'm somewhere between a service-dom and... I dunno... "He who must be obeyed!"

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RE: What is a Daddy Dom? - 6/15/2009 1:03:15 PM   
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This is ask a Master... where's your question? (other than in the title, but it seems you answered yourself)

I basically agree with your poem/short story/whatever it is, but as was said already, that varies for everyone. :)


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RE: What is a Daddy Dom? - 6/15/2009 1:32:07 PM   
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quote:

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This is ask a Master... where's your question? (other than in the title, but it seems you answered yourself)

Wow, that's a bit harsh. You don't see the value in using a forum like this to posit an idea and see what sort of response it gets? I do that regularly and learn a lot from it after I pick out all the darts and buckshot *laughs*.


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RE: What is a Daddy Dom? - 6/15/2009 2:55:28 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: NormalOutside

This is ask a Master... where's your question? (other than in the title, but it seems you answered yourself)

I basically agree with your poem/short story/whatever it is, but as was said already, that varies for everyone. :)



I am not Dom or Master but I think the forum is for both Dom and Master.

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RE: What is a Daddy Dom? - 6/15/2009 3:41:07 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: serenatee
I am not Dom or Master but I think the forum is for both Dom and Master.



I think the lack of question was the complaint, not the arbitrary choice of words...

That said, I'm reasonably certain I read that exact same thing in another post on these boards years ago. As long as it's understood "In my opinion" is attached to either the beginning or end of the statement, then good on ya.


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RE: What is a Daddy Dom? - 6/15/2009 6:18:23 PM   
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quote:

That said, I'm reasonably certain I read that exact same thing in another post on these boards years ago.

Actually, it was 3 months ago:
http://www.collarchat.com/m_2507627/mpage_1/key_/tm.htm#2507635
Same post, same poster.


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RE: What is a Daddy Dom? - 6/15/2009 6:23:04 PM   
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is the original post not from LORD MORPHEOUS ??
Toronto based BDSM educator??

IF SO acknowledgments need be made?/

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RE: What is a Daddy Dom? - 6/15/2009 7:44:10 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: WyldHrt
Actually, it was 3 months ago:


I've been off all day... but that might be my first multi-year miss. :)


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RE: What is a Daddy Dom? - 6/15/2009 7:57:04 PM   
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quote:

I've been off all day... but that might be my first multi-year miss. :)

*smooch* Lucky for you that there are subly types around to help with such things

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RE: What is a Daddy Dom? - 6/15/2009 10:19:49 PM   
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quote:


A Daddy Dom is the most tender of all Dominants. He loves His adult (18+) little one with an undying passion. He always has his submissive's best interest in mind, even when it conflicts with his personal desires. That doesn't mean that he gives into her every whim. There can be a huge difference in her desires and her real needs. He has to be able to make that sacrifice for her if needed. And yes, at times he does punish her. This usually hurts him just as much if not more than her, but he will always do what's best for her. He helps her set and reach her goals in life, not just in the lifestyle. He will help her improve herself to be the best she can be, not for HIM but for her ! He's not just looking to make her a better submissive, but a better person in general. He becomes many things in her life, a mentor, a teacher, a protector, a guide, AND a lover! He offers her what she needs most of all, unconditional love and acceptance.

He is consistent in his actions so that she knows what to expect from him, she knows she can depend on him! He wants nothing more than to pull her close and protect her from the cruel world. But knowing all along that he can't ! So it is up to him to prepare her for whatever life may bring her way, and be there to comfort her when things go wrong. Knowing she will run to him when she becomes overwhelmed or frighten by the harshness of life. The Daddy Dom listens to all her fears and concerns, knowing no matter how silly or childish they may sound to him, to her they are real and he will help her confront them. He slays her dragons so to speak and he is her "Knight in Shining Armor".


The Daddy Dom hears all her dreams, desires and all the dirty little secrets, and smiles because she is bold enough and loves him enough to open herself up so totally to him. He kisses her face and holds her close letting her know she is loved no matter what. she is His little one, and he loves her unconditionally. There is nothing more satisfying to him than to see her succeed, to watch as she grows as a person. He revels in her daily accomplishments almost as much as she does herself.


Plagiarized... ..Unless you have written and published this website you plagiarized this from there...http://strctdaddy.com/Discipline_In /A_Daddy_Dom.html

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RE: What is a Daddy Dom? - 6/16/2009 5:25:58 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: leadership527

I have to agree with you Topping. I wold say all those things pretty much describe the emotional flavor I create but I don't associate with the age dynamic at all. And, to the best of my knowledge, I'm somewhere between a service-dom and... I dunno... "He who must be obeyed!"

quote:

have to agree with you Topping. I wold say all those things pretty much describe the emotional flavor I create but I don't associate with the age dynamic at all. And, to the best of my knowledge, I'm somewhere between a service-dom and... I dunno... "He who must be obeyed!"


Not all Daddy Doms are into age play...I know that first hand. It's more of a protector thing than an age thing for some. Just like everone else it is different for everyone. It's more seeing the child inside than acting like a child. (hope that one makes sense! LOL) Actually it is like any dom but usually without sadistic tendencies, which is NOT to say there aren't any sadistic Daddies out there...

< Message edited by greeneyedreamer -- 6/16/2009 5:27:05 AM >


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RE: What is a Daddy Dom? - 6/16/2009 5:40:22 AM   
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the term Daddy is also use in  Prison or  a  group  of people who carry out His orders without question the Daddy is only answerable to high  office .



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RE: What is a Daddy Dom? - 6/16/2009 6:21:02 AM   
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Plagiarized... ..Unless you have written and published this website you plagiarized this from there...http://strctdaddy.com/Discipline_In /A_Daddy_Dom.html
quote:

ORIGINAL: WyldHrt

quote:


http://www.collarchat.com/m_2507627/mpage_1/key_/tm.htm#2507635
Same post, same poster.


plagiarized twice


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RE: What is a Daddy Dom? - 6/17/2009 11:47:54 AM   
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I have this posted on my profile for quite some time. I have always had a credited source. Please check my profile.

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RE: What is a Daddy Dom? - 6/17/2009 11:57:30 AM   
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I've seen this all over the internet over and over again and only rarely do the posters cite the author.

That's my problem with it.

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RE: What is a Daddy Dom? - 6/17/2009 1:05:58 PM   
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Here is how it is posted on my profile

What is a Daddy Dom?

A Daddy Dom is the most tender of all Dominants. He loves His adult (18+) little one with an undying passion. He always has his submissive's best interest in mind, even when it conflicts with his personal desires. That doesn't mean that he gives into her every whim. There can be a huge difference in her desires and her real needs. He has to be able to make that sacrifice for her if needed. And yes, at times he does punish her. This usually hurts him just as much if not more than her, but he will always do what's best for her. He helps her set and reach her goals in life, not just in the lifestyle. He will help her improve herself to be the best she can be, not for HIM but for her ! He's not just looking to make her a better submissive, but a better person in general. He becomes many things in her life, a mentor, a teacher, a protector, a guide, AND a lover! He offers her what she needs most of all, unconditional love and acceptance. He is consistent in his actions so that she knows what to expect from him, she knows she can depend on him! He wants nothing more than to pull her close and protect her from the cruel world. But knowing all along that he can't ! So it is up to him to prepare her for whatever life may bring her way, and be there to comfort her when things go wrong. Knowing she will run to him when she becomes overwhelmed or frighten by the harshness of life. The Daddy Dom listens to all her fears and concerns, knowing no matter how silly or childish they may sound to him, to her they are real and he will help her confront them. He slays her dragons so to speak and he is her "Knight in Shining Armor". The Daddy Dom hears all her dreams, desires and all the dirty little secrets, and smiles because she is bold enough and loves him enough to open herself up so totally to him. He kisses her face and holds her close letting her know she is loved no matter what. she is His little one, and he loves her unconditionally. There is nothing more satisfying to him than to see her succeed, to watch as she grows as a person. He revels in her daily accomplishments almost as much as she does herself.

Source for "What is a Daddy Dom?" http://strctdaddy.com/Discipline_Inc/A_Daddy_Dom.html

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RE: What is a Daddy Dom? - 6/17/2009 1:58:16 PM   
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I have always had a credited source


Not in your posting, which is what the comment was about. And I will check a profile if I find something somebody posts interesting, not because I need to check sources.

So, with "NormalOutside", I say "what's your question?". I believe there are several forums better suited for making policy statements. Even if you did not have a question, and wanted to start a conversation, you might have given us an idea of why you were posting this. Now it looks like you are one of those who only communicates by quoting.

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