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WizardOfDelphi -> RE: New to (eastern) Washington State (8/27/2009 6:19:11 PM)
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Hi there.
It might be worth noting a bit about MrSternMaster's very recent past in Arizona. His move from Arizona is a result of finally getting kicked out by his ex-submissive here. He was unemployed for approximately a year because he couldn't find suitable employment and refused to take any "lesser" positions. During this time he basically preyed on his submissive's good nature and practically forced her to let him move in when he got evicted. Whcih resulted in her working 2 jobs to pay all the bills while he sat at home. I also understand that dispite the abundant free time he couldn't manage to find time to play with his ex or basically engage in any BDSM activities with her. She finally realized she was being used but, still being a very sweet and kind woman, it took a group of her friends threatening MrSternMaster in order to get him to finally leave.
My personal experience with him isn't much better. The above submissive was my submissive previously and we were in an open relationship. She was allowed to see other people as long as certain rules were followed. She met MrSternMaster on-line and he was very interested. They discussed the situation and he agreed to abide by the rules of our relationship. That is until he had his hooks into her and then he did everything in his power to break us up so he could have her to himself. Not exactly honorable or ethical behavior. She was, ideally, looking for something long-term and more committed than I was willing to offer at the time and she was torn because that's exactly what he was promising her. Seeing her dilemma I released her so she could try, though given his unethical behavior I had serious concerns which, unfortunately, turned out to be very warranted. As soon as she was his he effectively isolated her by forbidding her from talking to me or having any friends.
I can see why he can't imagine having any relationship that doesn't' involve this lifestyle. I mean, what a great place to find a nice woman to be your slave labor and have to do anything for her in return? What a deal.
I'm actually still quite good friends with the ex, she contacted me as soon as she was free and clear (and essentially no longer forbidden). She's such a good girl, trying to be obedient even while being taken advantage of.
Anyway, I suggest everyone up there be very cautious of this guy and his ability to act ethically or honestly.
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