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Amaros -> RE: On Male/Female Ratios (6/16/2009 9:32:27 PM)
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ORIGINAL: DesFIP
Women don't need to pay for it, women can get men lining up to have sex with them. Women are more choosy than men, so we are more willing to wait. But more men want to have sex no matter if they like the woman or not.
Technically, women have much higher reproductive costs, men's reproductive costs are theoretically close to zero, Zinc loss from ejaculation, and it matter little how many times a man ejaculates, his cost remain the same - it just takes once and a woman has a lifetime of responsibility.
Men in fact, appear to have evolved to ejaculate at least once every three days or so, after that, the sperm begins to degrade and reproductive potential is compromised - not entirely unlike menstruation for women, other than it's voluntary.
Not suprisingly, there are more irresponsible men than there are women - not to say that looking for freaky sex is irresponsible, just that as in all sexual role interactions, men require sex more frequently than women.
Insofar as strict numbers of people into kink, the ratios are surprisingly even, about the same number of women as men.
I'm guessing a there are a lot of guys just looking for a hookup, and to try out some freaky sex - in my experience, women in P/E are choosier and more in it for the long haul, i.e., as a lifestyle rather than as a lark or an experiment, and not surprisingly, many are already in relationships - that may account for the ratio differences.
That a woman is more likely to have had bad experiences than a man may also account for a certain amount of reticence.
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