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masterfreak28 -> Sorry (6/16/2009 5:28:32 PM)

I Apologize For Posting In All Caps To All And Any Who Have Viewed My Post Asking For Help I am New To The Lifestyle And Would Like Some Help In Becoming A Better Master And Controlling My First Slave Is There Any Advice That You Can Share I am All Ears.




Aileen1968 -> RE: Sorry (6/16/2009 5:32:38 PM)

Stop Capitaliing All Of The First Letters Of Each Word.  [:)]




Asherdelampyr -> RE: Sorry (6/16/2009 5:34:16 PM)

Yes, quit looking for a slave
how much time have you spent learning how to be safe?
Have you gotten yourself any first aid/CPR training?

The most important skills to learn are not of pleasurable pain, but of what you need to be able to do if and when something goes wrong. So my first suggestion would be to check with the local High School/Community college and take some CPR classes
You have to remember that you hold the life of another person in your hands, the task falls to you to be responsible for both of you.

Other than that, seek out someone local that is willing to show you the ropes, if you will pardon the pun :D




masterfreak28 -> RE: Sorry (6/16/2009 5:37:31 PM)

ok i will thanks just trying to be right about how to post but if their is anyone that could share advice on how to become a better master.




Asherdelampyr -> RE: Sorry (6/16/2009 5:38:46 PM)

Type the same way that you speak, then read it out loud and see if it makes sense.

Also, try clicking on the Forumn Help link in my profile :P




DarkSteven -> RE: Sorry (6/16/2009 5:40:00 PM)

1. Okay, so you're not capitalizing every letter.  Now you're only capitalizing the first letter of every word.  Why?  Just capitalize the first letter of every sentence like everyone else.

2. You're getting some reactions to your casual use of the term Master.  Drop using that term.  Also, I recommend you not use the term Freak for reasons I already gave you.

3.  This is taken from your profile: "white women Spanish women and mixed women are welcome all women are welcome u must also be bi sexual. "

Note that this smashes together three sentences.  The first states that you're interested in women from certain ethnicities.  The second states that you'll take any woman.  The third states that you'll only take bi women.  It makes you look confused.

WHY must she be bi?  Do you have an existing woman?  Are you looking to build a poly household?

4. Your profile also states that you're looking for friends only, which makes me wonder why she must be bi.  Also, you want online - how does that mesh with bisexuality?

Frankly, your profile looks almost random.  Why would a woman submit - be a slave, no less - to someone who does not seem to know what he's doing?






masterfreak28 -> help (6/16/2009 5:40:09 PM)

Thanks Asherdelampy but my current jobs has me licensed in CPR and First Aid So i am ok on that end but i will search for a local Master that is willing to show me the ropes.




Asherdelampyr -> RE: help (6/16/2009 5:44:30 PM)

Yeah read your profile and I would have to agree
its not that it looks like your left hand doesnt know what the right is doing, it seems the right hand has a pretty foggy idea as well
That's ok though, it takes several attempts to try to sum up one's life and desires in a few paragraphs




CarrieO -> RE: help (6/16/2009 5:52:49 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: masterfreak28

Thanks Asherdelampy but my current jobs has me licensed in CPR and First Aid So i am ok on that end but i will search for a local Master that is willing to show me the ropes.


This link might help....

http://www.drkdesyre.com/meetppl/orgs/orgspenn.html#PA   

Try not to put the cart before the horse, focus on developing the skills of a Master before calling yourself one. 




Level -> RE: Sorry (6/16/2009 5:58:52 PM)

Get to know yourself. Read up on the subject of D/s. Find a local group, and meet folks, and if you're lucky, find someone that can help you develop.
 
Do that, and you'll be equipped to refine things, and advance in the areas that interest you.
 
Or, send ten box tops to "Mr Level's School of Mastery & Stuff", and await your valuable diploma.




Asherdelampyr -> RE: Sorry (6/16/2009 6:11:12 PM)

Hey, I sent my Box tops off and I didnt get a single diploma
I want a refund, do you have ANY IDEA how much it takes to each 10 boxes of Captain Crunch in a day?




Level -> RE: Sorry (6/16/2009 6:21:11 PM)

Asher, you missed the Captain Crunch cutoff date; we now only accept those box tops from Rice Krispies. *points at the fine print*




Asherdelampyr -> RE: Sorry (6/16/2009 6:22:01 PM)

Rice Crispies! But those taste like Cardboard, well, that would be an insult to Cardboard :(




DesFIP -> RE: Sorry (6/16/2009 6:30:39 PM)

Are you someone worth trusting and following?
Do you think things through instead of going off half cocked and making a small mistake into a giant one?
Are you prone to blowing up and yelling abusively at people instead of listening carefully and being able to talk things out?
Are you able to handle criticism without attacking the other party?
What kind of management training do you have, and how successful have you been at it?

You don't buy a slave, you inspire someone to be yours. And not by weird typing and focusing solely on sex.




DarkSteven -> RE: Sorry (6/16/2009 7:58:24 PM)

His profile's deleted or hidden now.






Asherdelampyr -> RE: Sorry (6/16/2009 8:08:38 PM)

Maybe he took it down to rework it at a later date?




LadyHibiscus -> RE: Sorry (6/16/2009 8:12:23 PM)

Well I eat Raisin Bran Crunch, what will that get me, Level?  I am hoping for one of those decoder cock rings...




antipode -> RE: help (6/16/2009 8:35:24 PM)

quote:

Thanks Asherdelampy but my current jobs has me licensed in CPR and First Aid So i am ok on that end but i will search for a local Master that is willing to show me the ropes.



I'd Change Da Name From MastErFReaK to TROLL17




Level -> RE: Sorry (6/16/2009 8:41:02 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus

Well I eat Raisin Bran Crunch, what will that get me, Level?  I am hoping for one of those decoder cock rings...


I think we're out of those...we shipped the last ones out, to the White House, right after that whole Lewinsky thing...[X(]





Lashra -> RE: Sorry (6/16/2009 9:04:55 PM)

quote:

share advice on how to become a better master.


Read some books, that is where I would suggest that you begin. You may want to start with:
Screw the Roses, Send Me the Thorns: The Romance and Sexual Sorcery of Sadomasochism (Paperback) by Philip Miller
The Loving Dominant (Paperback) by John Warren

Then do some research on some BDSM groups in your area. Find a group and go meet them. Once you meet some people you may find a Master in that group to mentor you. Most of all do not rush out and get a slave, you are unprepared for that at this stage. You need to learn the basics before taking someone else's life into your hands.

Good luck,
~Lashra





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