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Slaves all shapes and sizes - 6/16/2009 6:24:10 PM

ButtlerPaulie70

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Slave/Subs come in all shapes and sizes, was just wondering what shape and size some of the Mistreses on hear like their slave/sub to be and do they like them to be naughty or nice.

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RE: Slaves all shapes and sizes - 6/16/2009 6:58:36 PM

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Size... honest, ethical and intelligent.

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RE: Slaves all shapes and sizes - 6/16/2009 7:26:34 PM

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The word is "here" btw.

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RE: Slaves all shapes and sizes - 6/16/2009 7:32:35 PM

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I'm afraid I'm terribly middle of the road: not too thin, not too thick. Though I do require my subs to have massive . . . brains.

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RE: Slaves all shapes and sizes - 6/16/2009 7:34:50 PM

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They need masses of personal integrity as well.

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RE: Slaves all shapes and sizes - 6/16/2009 7:35:30 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Venatrix

I'm afraid I'm terribly middle of the road: not too thin, not too thick. Though I do require my subs to have massive . . . brains.

Bam.

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RE: Slaves all shapes and sizes - 6/16/2009 7:43:18 PM

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large medulla oblagata...firing if possible

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RE: Slaves all shapes and sizes - 6/16/2009 7:53:35 PM

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Intellect is nothing to Me compared to the ability to make Me laugh. Sue Me.

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RE: Slaves all shapes and sizes - 6/16/2009 8:01:11 PM

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Intelligence and a sense of humour are closely linked! Though I confess that many of the things that make me snort my Pepsi are pretty lowbrow!

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RE: Slaves all shapes and sizes - 6/16/2009 10:21:20 PM

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In shape enough to do what I want done. But must make me laugh and be able to keep up with me intellectually.

I read vertebrate paleontology journals for fun, and am studying medieval French in my spare time, and enjoy a rousing discussion on transubstantiation.

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RE: Slaves all shapes and sizes - 6/16/2009 10:39:58 PM

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Wow. That sounds so interesting. i'm serious.

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RE: Slaves all shapes and sizes - 6/17/2009 3:45:58 AM

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A person's size doesn't matter to Me. What I was trying to say in My earlier reply is that the outer shape isn't nearly as important as how I connect with that person.

As for naughty or nice, I'm going to reply to that question in the best way that I can on a message board. I have to say nice because I do want My boy to be well behaved. Not that we can't have fun together, but there always has to be that undercurrent that I'm in charge.

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RE: Slaves all shapes and sizes - 6/17/2009 3:53:58 AM

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Well I have to step to the front and say size does matter, we have horses, we ride, we work them, we spend a lot of time at the farm in the Carolina heat, I'm looking for a partner not a grease spot---someone who is overweight and out of shape just won't cut it--been there, done that, returned the t-shirt.

By all means, personality and the ability to laugh is key as well, but I have to be a stickler on the weight issue---and this " well Mistress if you control Me, I can lose the weight" doesn't fly--honey of you haven't done it by the time your our age, nothing will make you change.

As for naughty or nice--there is also no room for moodiness, brattiness, smart assness.

So he has to be height weight proportionate and personality proportionate too.

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RE: Slaves all shapes and sizes - 6/17/2009 4:46:02 AM

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Cat, now I really wish we had met during My travels. I think you are thinking to the extreme, where I'm looking more at shades of gray.

While I don't consider Myself h/w proportionate, what you describe here isn't something that I could not fully participate. There are lots of us out here who could fully do a day with the horses, but might not be the perfect size. I can afford that same latitude to someone else.

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RE: Slaves all shapes and sizes - 6/17/2009 4:59:20 AM

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I would agree with you LadyP, what I have experienced is indeed more the extreme and it seems that those are the ones most eager to "share My abode" as they say---and I do mean extreme, tipping the scales at 350 when they lied by 100 lbs. In the 6 months he was here, he ate Me out of house and home, spent more time horizontal than vertical and broke the end of My new couch--so am I a tad jaded, yeah.

As for You and I, we will sometime in our lives, cross paths--I'm determined!

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RE: Slaves all shapes and sizes - 6/17/2009 5:02:42 AM

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I'm not too bothered about a mans physical shape, though extremes at all ends of the scale don't do much for me. I don't really have a 'type' and on a purely physical level, I am attracted to a diverse range of body shapes. Though, one of the last things about a man that turns me on is his body shape.

My sub is of a slender build, whilst I am of a fairly rotund and curvy build. I've never been with a man as slender as he is, but we fit together quite nicely indeed

. I did have a slight prejudice towards his size when I first met him, due to concerns about snapping him during play. But those worries were unfounded – he is quite the the little ox and can take the substantial physical pain and endurance I inflict. By contrast, I have played with big, muscle-laden meaty guys who couldn't take an ounce of what I put my little ox through.

As for preferring a sub to be 'naughty or nice' lol. You'll have to define what you actually mean. But as a general response to what I suspect you are inferring; no, I don't do “naughty”. If my sub was of the 'bratty' variety, he wouldn't of ever been my sub. I get enough disobedience from my cat, if I wanted more, I'd get another feline.

If you mean “naughty” in the funishment sense, it can be fun sometimes. But only as I instruct, lead and engineer it. The fastest way to sink my lady-boat would be for a man to start taking it upon himself to lead the proceedings with manipulations of 'naughty' behaviour.

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RE: Slaves all shapes and sizes - 6/17/2009 5:03:34 AM

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I really do hope so, Cat. I think it could be quite fun for us.

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RE: Slaves all shapes and sizes - 6/17/2009 6:05:47 AM

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Thankyou A/all for your interesting comments so far, I take care of myself and yeah just wondered what Mistresses were looking for and it is varied depending on each person and E/everyone does want something differant so this has been an interesting topic

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RE: Slaves all shapes and sizes - 6/17/2009 6:31:59 AM

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Though i'm clearly not a mistress paulie i'll add my ha'penny's worth anyway. I think most people can be attracted to a wide range of body forms but that there are certain types that are more desirable. In men a V shaped torso has been one of the few constants of male beauty throughout our history. I imagine that women will be attracted to you to an extent whatever shape you are but obviously there are some that appeal to a broader range of aesthetic tastes. Personally I like men to be very sculpted as I think that's when they look their best but then that's just me.

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RE: Slaves all shapes and sizes - 6/17/2009 8:47:33 AM

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I'll chime in a little bit here.

Being healthy is something that's very important to me - I eat organic, I don't eat processed foods, I think the gov't's food pyramid is a crock (all those carbs are NOT good for you). I exercise daily - that's my "me" time. I've run marathons, and will again. I've always been active, but my whole diet changed a couple years ago when I had a very serious health scare ~ how I eat now is a reflection of what I need to do to be well, so it's just not going to change.

Physically, I fit into the "petite" category - part good genetics, part being health conscious -  and that seems to draw out a lot of men seeking that fantasy idea but without a lot of thought towards if they'd actually fit into living like this (because they certainly haven't as yet).   My preference is for someone who is physically fit and concerned about his health - a couple lbs over an ideal weight isn't a big deal but a beer gut or the inability to activities like hiking or running or an addiction to junk food is.

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