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ORIGINAL: Alphascendant Other than food, water, clothing, and shelter from the weather, a person has no other needs. Anything past those objects are purely psychological preferences. If a person let's themself be controlled by those preferences, they are not in control of their own self. For the submissives that are looking to satisfy a dominant's needs, that's rubbish. Unless you are providing that person with food, water, clothing and shelter from the weather, you are not satisfying any needs at all. You are only looking for somebody to partake in the enjoyment of your own convoluted preferences to quench your own desires. The dominant satisfies the submissive's preferences because of a desire to be with that person, a desire that is psychological. The more dominant and disciplined a person becomes, the less that person gives in to those desired preferences, eventually rendering the submissive useless. The balance between dominance and submission? If the dominant desires nothing, the submissive would have to desire everything in order to balance. In reality, that doesn't seem possible, as the person that desires everything generally has no use for the person that desires nothing, from whom there is nothing to gain. When a man gains control over his own preferences, the pussy loses all it's power. OK OP .... I'll bite ...(not that I *need* to you understand but because I want to) So you're living in your happy world where you dont need anything other than food, water, shelter and ... clothes? .... (interesting choice by the way ... I'm naked fairly often and I haven't died from it yet) What do you do next? ... I mean you're fed and clothed and sheltered ... and all pussy is powerless cos all you've got are your clothes and food and water (curious as to what you keep you water in to stop it running out of the shelter btw) and you have now no need of a submissive ... so you're also presumably alone in your shelter ... I mean you don't need your submissive because she's only there to satisfy her imagined needs (because obviously she wont have any real needs other than the food, clothes and shelter already there for you) ... though she may be handy to hold the water for when your not using it - so in a way you kinda might need her there otherwise you have to hold the water which would be silly really because you'll be busy being totally mastered of your own needs and self sufficient and all so it would be a drag to have to need something to keep your water in because then you would be needing something which would be giving into those pesky psychological whatevers. (oh but hang-on then she might be providing water ... so actually she might be needed ... shhhhhh lets pretend I didn't notice that) At that stage .... the moment of sublime self sufficiency .... wouldn't it be handy to have a submissive around to ... errr.... tell about your awesomeness?... you obvoiously needed to communicate this to us ...(because I guess you don't give in to nasty little things like wants and desires) ... so am wondering where self agrandisement falls within those basic twue human needs? See ... me ... I live in a world of want and desire ... and petty little psychological preferences like happiness, love, intimacy, care, mutual gratification .... so I need enlightening please help? .... is that allowed?
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