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Sometimes it makes No sense, not really a question, mor... - 6/18/2009 4:04:03 AM

housesub4you

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Hmmm....so here is the message I received from a Domme I served last year.

fuck you (real name deleted) housesub4you

I have no idea what prompted this. I sent her an email on Saturday saying Hi and asking her a question. She answered (in a very polite manner) and that was that, (the question was not BDSM related)

Then yesterday I receive the FY message.... go figure

Oh well, life goes on. just don't get people some times

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RE: Sometimes it makes No sense, not really a question,... - 6/18/2009 4:40:13 AM

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I'm baffled as to why she'd do that, HS4Y. Femdoms are generally such easy-going, even-tempered people and almost never have a bad word to say about male subs.

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RE: Sometimes it makes No sense, not really a question,... - 6/18/2009 5:17:01 AM

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What were the terms of the breakup?

I broke up with a sub last year and she swings from I-want-you-back to you're-an-evil-SOB.

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RE: Sometimes it makes No sense, not really a question,... - 6/18/2009 5:25:00 AM

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It's that whole Mars/Venus thing.
I could enlighten you, but then I'd have to k*ll you.

ok, I'll tell you a little:

No matter what the terms of the breakup were, she was excited to hear from you. This was evidenced by the nice, prompt reply you got the first time. Now here comes the part where you were bad.
-You were supposed to be able to read her mind and know that she wanted you to call her or contact her again. It would have been ridiculous for her to tell you, "I'd like to talk to you again, or see you again," because you were supposed to just know that, silly.
-So, knowing that she wanted you to call/ contact her again (because you read her thoughts), and you NOT calling/contacting her again prompted the f*** you.

Get it?

Yeah, I didn't think so.

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RE: Sometimes it makes No sense, not really a question,... - 6/18/2009 5:42:17 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: PeonForHer

I'm baffled as to why she'd do that, HS4Y. Femdoms are generally such easy-going, even-tempered people and almost never have a bad word to say about male subs.

OK, now I want to meet you in person and watch you say that with a straight face.

To the OP.....wow, I have no clue why. Maybe she sent it to the wrong person or maybe she forgot to take her meds. Either way I would say your probibly better off without her.

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RE: Sometimes it makes No sense, not really a question,... - 6/18/2009 5:56:09 AM

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Its just her way of letting you know she's a jerk, and you should avoid her. Nice of her to tip you off, huh? Now you won't waste any more of your precious time on her.

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RE: Sometimes it makes No sense, not really a question,... - 6/18/2009 6:04:33 AM

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...you silly wabbit, you didn't beg for Her collar and send Her your credit card number!

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RE: Sometimes it makes No sense, not really a question,... - 6/18/2009 6:17:00 AM

Venatrix

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quote:

ORIGINAL: thishereboi

quote:

ORIGINAL: PeonForHer

I'm baffled as to why she'd do that, HS4Y. Femdoms are generally such easy-going, even-tempered people and almost never have a bad word to say about male subs.

OK, now I want to meet you in person and watch you say that with a straight face.

Actually, *I* want to meet him in person and watch him say that with a straight face.

It was my thought, as well, that she sent the e-mail to the wrong person. I've done that before (not a FY message), with interesting results.

And DarkSteven, I think the sub in question wants to get back together *because* you're an evil SOB.

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RE: Sometimes it makes No sense, not really a question,... - 6/18/2009 6:17:41 AM

OttersSwim

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Always assume innocence first.

I think you might want to first explore two other possible reasons for this strange email from her.

1. A virus on her computer
2. Someone else in her life using her computer

Not to say that she did not indeed send this message with the intent that it contained, but check those possibilities out first. Perhaps a brief email of inquiry in response to her?

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RE: Sometimes it makes No sense, not really a question,... - 6/18/2009 6:18:31 AM

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If I were a betting woman, I would say you do have some idea, and simply want to make this lady look like a loose cannon...
She may very well be, but I would say most of the time folks lash out at one another, it doesn't come out of thin air.
What used to prompt me to want to swear, was dealing with ambivalent submissives, but have found it much more peaceful, to not deal with 'em.
Just my $.02. M

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RE: Sometimes it makes No sense, not really a question,... - 6/18/2009 6:25:47 AM

curiousINct

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quote:

ORIGINAL: OttersSwim

Always assume innocence first.

2. Someone else in her life using her computer

That was the first thing I thought while reading this too.

OP: Did you ask her why?

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RE: Sometimes it makes No sense, not really a question,... - 6/18/2009 9:15:03 AM

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quote:

Femdoms are generally such easy-going, even-tempered people and almost never have a bad word to say about male subs.

Yeah same can be said for male/female subs as well as male/female Doms. I think I covered everyone.

~Lashra the ONLY easy going, even tempered people who never has a bad thing to say about male subs.

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RE: Sometimes it makes No sense, not really a question,... - 6/18/2009 9:57:04 AM

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That's it, Lashra! All of us in the BDSM world are happy, bubbly people who love each other mightily. Frankly, I think we should all become relationship guidance counsellors to those unhappy souls who are still trapped in the vanilla world.

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RE: Sometimes it makes No sense, not really a question,... - 6/18/2009 10:17:56 AM

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I'd agree with the 'wrong person' scenario, but it seems she used his real name. Indicating to me that she knew precisely who she was sending it to.

as for why?

Not a clue.

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RE: Sometimes it makes No sense, not really a question,... - 6/18/2009 10:24:58 AM

dreamerdreaming

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quote:

ORIGINAL: OttersSwim

Always assume innocence first.

2. Someone else in her life using her computer

Not to say that she did not indeed send this message with the intent that it contained, but check those possibilities out first. Perhaps a brief email of inquiry in response to her?

Agreed. This is a possibility. It wouldn't hurt to ask her for a little clarification. But then if it wasn't her in the first place, it might be a third party responding to the inquiry anyway.

I'd leave it.

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RE: Sometimes it makes No sense, not really a question,... - 6/18/2009 10:30:47 AM

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Actually, *I* want to meet him in person and watch him say that with a straight face.

Admit it, V. You just want to meet me in person to see how hard a slap my face can take.

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RE: Sometimes it makes No sense, not really a question,... - 6/18/2009 10:36:04 AM

Lashra

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quote:

All of us in the BDSM world are happy, bubbly people who love each other mightily. Frankly, I think we should all become relationship guidance counsellors to those unhappy souls who are still trapped in the vanilla world.

Nah we are just people, each unique and very different from the next. That is why I try not to generalize, because it is just so wrong. Some of us would make great counselors, others would not. Besides most vanillas are happy as they are and would not want to change, in fact many believe that we are (gasp) perverted...

~Lashra

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RE: Sometimes it makes No sense, not really a question,... - 6/18/2009 10:46:06 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: PeonForHer

That's it, Lashra! All of us in the BDSM world are happy, bubbly people who love each other mightily. Frankly, I think we should all become relationship guidance counsellors to those unhappy souls who are still trapped in the vanilla world.

Peon, I am developing a crush on you. I hope that's all right with you and whomever.

KTHXBAI.

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RE: Sometimes it makes No sense, not really a question,... - 6/18/2009 11:02:07 AM

Venatrix

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quote:

ORIGINAL: PeonForHer

Actually, *I* want to meet him in person and watch him say that with a straight face.

Admit it, V. You just want to meet me in person to see how hard a slap my face can take.

I think we're at the stage now where strangulation is more likely than face slapping.

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RE: Sometimes it makes No sense, not really a question,... - 6/18/2009 11:03:53 AM

Venatrix

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Oh, Greedy, good point. I forgot that she mentioned the OP by name. As others have suggested, a few details may have been left out of the story.

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