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Jeptha -> RE: Help please (6/19/2009 10:52:07 AM)
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First of all, "masterbarny" is an awesome name!
It dons that mantle of responsibility, but remains somewhat unassuming at the same time.
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...She is really keen on this during the week when I am away and not so keen in person, which is kind of OK...
Hmmm. That's kind of odd. But, ok.
As others have mentioned, it probably is a good idea to tailor things to what you two are interested in and what might be meaningful to you both, rather than try to act out what others do.
There's nothing wrong with looking for ideas and inspiration elsewhere, tho....
I always liked to have my partner write me little fantasies. But that wouldn't work well if your partner hates to write and/or can't acknowledge her fantasy life. Also, it can take time to get comfortable enough to do that. Sharing your own fantasies is probably in order, building trust, and all that.
Anyway, that's something I've enjoyed in the past, but it's not for everyone.
If you wished, you could consider having her make out a bdsm checklist of some sort. That might give you some ideas to talk about further, or follow up on or develop, etc.
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