RE: She said, I said, The Profile Game.

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antipode -> RE: She said, I said, The Profile Game. (6/25/2009 10:34:01 PM)
quote: Faux Pax's faux pas

sweetsub1957 -> RE: She said, I said, The Profile Game. (6/25/2009 10:50:36 PM)
~Fast Reply~ If I were still looking, what I would do is write something like "Hello <Name>, I hope you're doing well today. Your picture and your profile heading caught my interest, but I sure would love to know more about You to see if we're at all compatible or not. I'd enjoy hearing about some of your vanilla interests, what's important to you, and so on." And then I'd tell some about myself too, even though I do say a chunk in my profile. Of course if the person did talk about their interests in their profile, I would write directly about those, esp vanilla interests. Otherwise they'll think all you are is a wanker, and who wants that? That's what I'd do anyway. Good luck. [;)]

wandersalone -> RE: She said, I said, The Profile Game. (6/26/2009 5:09:52 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: fantasy69maker Actually even more than that it was to get you to post some of your interesting and perplexing profile encounters................. Maybe I should have been more clear about that in the Op. My feeling is that people posted exactly what you had asked in your OP quote: ORIGINAL: fantasy69maker Socially Im as dainty as a longhorn bull. So help me out here with some of my Faux Pax's Ill throw some of my interactions up here and you submissives are welcome to show me the better way. Other Doms and submissives are more than welcome to jump in. I read this as you asking for input from others about how to respond to the particular message you had sent/received. Maybe if you had posted this in P & RS others may have understood what you were asking for and joined in

fantasy69maker -> RE: She said, I said, The Profile Game. (7/22/2009 8:00:45 PM)
Another interesting profile, its short and ends in the third paragraph with this;"That being said - in all fairness, I am not looking for anything beyond conversing right now.." So I wrote a responce offering conversation and got the following reply.;".No - I'm not looking for anything right now - thank you." Whats up with that? Why would you respond that way to the one thing you specifically say you are seeking?

Lockit -> RE: She said, I said, The Profile Game. (7/22/2009 8:10:58 PM)
It was said before... your nick name. It's been said all over the place... men bombard women. And if it hasn't been said... maybe she has read some of your post.

petmonkey -> RE: She said, I said, The Profile Game. (7/23/2009 12:32:02 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: fantasy69maker To a profile with a cute picture and the heading of "..." I responded Cute PIC! You look interesting. Would you care to talk about your interests some? . . .There where no interests listed or anything written about herself. . . Her Reply; " I dont respond to oneliners." . . ???????????????? ok what should I have said? i would have liked two more sentences added: "I like to [insert non-kink activity here]. Have you ever done/do you enjoy doing this?" compliment, asked about her, told about yourself, asked a question that places the two of you in the same setting. a reasonable opener for the amount of information given.

Mistressbinature -> RE: She said, I said, The Profile Game. (7/23/2009 3:34:20 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: fantasy69maker Socially Im as dainty as a longhorn bull. So help me out here with some of my Faux Pax's Ill throw some of my interactions up here and you submissives are welcome to show me the better way. Other Doms and submissives are more than welcome to jump in. Tell her a little non bdsm stuff about yourself, maybe something that makes you special

NihilusZero -> RE: She said, I said, The Profile Game. (7/23/2009 7:51:42 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: windchymes I would have written back and said, "You just did." 20 points! [:D]

NihilusZero -> RE: She said, I said, The Profile Game. (7/23/2009 7:56:12 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: fantasy69maker Another interesting profile, its short and ends in the third paragraph with this;"That being said - in all fairness, I am not looking for anything beyond conversing right now.." So I wrote a responce offering conversation and got the following reply.;".No - I'm not looking for anything right now - thank you." Whats up with that? Why would you respond that way to the one thing you specifically say you are seeking? You'll have to understand that most people, when they write these things, don't really mean them universally. What they really mean is that it applies to everyone except (or applies only to) the magical Dommy-Dom with the body of Fabio, the smirk of Johnny Depp and the accent of Antonio Banderas who will write to them (based off little information) a magical collection of words that will sweep them off their feet for how personally "true" the words are (you know...like those horoscope thingies). Okay, well....so maybe that visual doesn't apply to everyone's wants, but the point is they're just waiting to be approached by the right person with the right words at the right time and aren't really interested (usually) in genuine friendly talking. They're only 'playing' the site the way everyone else plays the lottery.

NihilusZero -> RE: She said, I said, The Profile Game. (7/23/2009 7:58:52 AM)
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Delphinus -> RE: She said, I said, The Profile Game. (7/23/2009 7:22:59 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: NihilusZero quote: ORIGINAL: windchymes I would have written back and said, "You just did." 20 points! [:D] See, now that would have gotten me writing back to you.

Delphinus -> RE: She said, I said, The Profile Game. (7/23/2009 7:24:06 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Apocalypso Your username isn't helping your case either. I second that.

oldtimer74 -> RE: She said, I said, The Profile Game. (7/23/2009 8:04:12 PM)
At least she responded. It appears that most that call themselves subs are ignorant and do not have the common courtesy to respond to your initial message.

heartcream -> RE: She said, I said, The Profile Game. (7/23/2009 8:56:44 PM)
Yeah not loving the nick at all, at all. ( At least it is not your genitalia in your picture, I am not digging that aspect of some of the profile pictures now. I find those entirely icky.)

Lockit -> RE: She said, I said, The Profile Game. (7/23/2009 9:45:12 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: oldtimer74 At least she responded. It appears that most that call themselves subs are ignorant and do not have the common courtesy to respond to your initial message. Nice job there oldtimer. Come to the submissive's board and talk about how most are ignorant that they don't respond to emails from strangers basically and show no courtesty. Who said they had to? Who said it was the right thing to do? Based on the evidence... which is based on being a woman around a site like this and years of my own experience as well as knowing what other women are going through... you are a fine examle of why many do not respond, besides the other reasons, which are valid. They respond with a no thank you and then get called names and are told they are rude, have no curtesy and a bunch of other bs. One email leads to another and a no thank you can turn into having to block them because they will not stop emailing, bashing, begging and so forth. An email to anyone is not a command performance. I would think that an old timer might know how difficult it can be for a woman in these here parts. Silly me for expecting that someone be curtious enough to examine things and consider why someone may act a certain way. Silly, silly me...

WyldHrt -> RE: She said, I said, The Profile Game. (7/23/2009 9:57:11 PM)
adores Lockit [:)]

hardbodysub -> RE: She said, I said, The Profile Game. (7/23/2009 10:27:57 PM)
A one-line profile deserves a one-line email. Although, as they say, a picture is worth a thousand words, so maybe you should have said a little more.

Apocalypso -> RE: She said, I said, The Profile Game. (7/23/2009 10:34:18 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: oldtimer74 At least she responded. It appears that most that call themselves subs are ignorant and do not have the common courtesy to respond to your initial message. Write better messages.

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