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gregslave1981 -> why is it so hard? (6/19/2009 7:28:09 PM)
why is it so hard to find a Mistress who wants to play with me who wants to kick my balls? i love ball busting and would've thought most women would jump at the chance to kick a guy in the balls! especially if he's begging her to do so!!

SassySarijane -> RE: why is it so hard? (6/19/2009 7:43:31 PM)
Seek a Pro for that. Lifestyle femdoms don't go for do-me's which is what you sound like in your OP. They tend to want actual relationships or dynamics that serve their pleasure, wants and needs rather than acting as a life support system for someone else's kink.

GYPZYQUEEN -> RE: why is it so hard? (6/19/2009 7:43:43 PM)
Why is it so hard to find sub who wants to please me and serve me..do what I desire? I thought they would jump at it especially since I am demanding it[:o] You are limiting yourself and the "pool" by focusing on a narrow line..get to know a DOMME..see her style..the see how desire and style might match Matching up by a few kinks does not usually work you could always pay a pro for a specific thing you like GQ

beargonewild -> RE: why is it so hard? (6/19/2009 7:49:57 PM)
You are assuming that Mistresses enjoy ball busting and assuming is not a correct way to think. They are people just like the rest of us individuals thus they have a variety of interests.Not all dommes are into busting a guy's balls. As GYPZYQUEEN stated, get to know a Domme first, she knows what she is talking about.

DarkSteven -> RE: why is it so hard? (6/19/2009 7:52:53 PM)
Spill a drink on one.

RedMagic1 -> RE: why is it so hard? (6/19/2009 7:54:30 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: gregslave1981 why is it so hard to find a Mistress who wants to play with me who wants to kick my balls? Are you making it hard? Maybe women don't want to kick your balls for the same reason that they don't want to hold your hand: they don't like you. I bet if I posted that I wanted my balls kicked, I'd get a lot of sincere offers to "help me out" -- half from femdoms who like me, and the other half from men who think I'm a self-righteous ass. You have the cart before the horse. Do the she-likes-me thing first, and the she-strikes-me thing second.

ShaharThorne -> RE: why is it so hard? (6/19/2009 7:54:37 PM)
Not my thing, sweetie. I am into punishing boys with a flogger, paddle or cane, not making someone flaccid forever with a swift kick to the gonads.

beargonewild -> RE: why is it so hard? (6/19/2009 7:55:50 PM)
snorts gatorade all over keyboard Dammit...thanks Steven! I would but I prefer my balls not to be busted or mutilated thanks.

WarKirby -> RE: why is it so hard? (6/19/2009 7:57:36 PM)
quote: Are you making it hard? Maybe women don't want to kick your balls for the same reason that they don't want to hold your hand: they don't like you. I imagine if you didn't like someone, you'd be more eager to do something like that to them. The spilling a drink on a mistress sounds like an amusing idea. If the OP really tried to make an ass of himself, I'm sure he'd get a kick in the balls sooner or later. Probably in public too.

RedMagic1 -> RE: why is it so hard? (6/19/2009 8:01:46 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: WarKirby quote: Are you making it hard? Maybe women don't want to kick your balls for the same reason that they don't want to hold your hand: they don't like you. I imagine if you didn't like someone, you'd be more eager to do something like that to them. Sorry, man, because I know you mean well... but you're way wrong on this point. For a woman to participate in a consensual scene, she has to trust the guy at the very least, and if she's not a prodomme, she has to like the guy. Even if she is a pro, if she thinks he's grody, she might turn down the gig. It's just another form of impact play -- and impact play is an expression of affection (or at least mutual lust).

PeonForHer -> RE: why is it so hard? (6/19/2009 8:17:30 PM)
. . . . making someone flaccid forever with a swift kick to the gonads. I think it usually takes more than one kick to do that. I don't have the evidence to support this; moreover, I have no intention of gathering any. Funny about kicks to the goolies: it can be difficult to remember how painful it is. Thing to do to remind oneself is to visit a friend with young ums who are affectionate enough to leap on one's lap without warning. Always knee first. Five times in the last five years. Five bloody times. Bastards.

Lockit -> RE: why is it so hard? (6/19/2009 8:23:45 PM)
Why is it that men think that women want to play with strangers just because they are on a bdsm site? Why do they think we must be sluts to be here and all we want to do is play? Why would one assume a dominant woman hates men and wants to kick them in the nuts just because? You want to whine... I dare say a dominant or submissive woman around here has far more to whine about. Why can't I find a good submissive man who will think of me before his kink? Why do they send me cock shots? Why when I don't want to call men worms... do I start wanting to call them worms when so many present as a worm... and are always wantint to stroke their worm and show it to you on cam or meet you somewhere so you can beat on that worm? God, I could go on for hours but someone might think I am an unhappy complainer who hates men... Dude... a woman is more than a boot and if she were going to play... what would make her pick you over all the other guys with balls?

ShaharThorne -> RE: why is it so hard? (6/19/2009 8:29:05 PM)
I wear steel-toed workboots when I am taking care of the garden (yard), so there is the possibility of double impact.

pyroaquatic -> RE: why is it so hard? (6/19/2009 8:31:43 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: GYPZYQUEEN Why is it so hard to find sub who wants to please me and serve me..do what I desire? I thought they would jump at it especially since I am demanding it[:o] GQ I would GQ if I could afford the passport, the flight, and made sure my prior obligations here in florida are taken care of. quote: ORIGINAL: REDMAGIC1 Do the she-likes-me thing first, and the she-strikes-me thing second. I will remember this forever. Getting kicked in the balls hurts, yes. I will say it does not visibly phase me though. The key word is visibly.

windchymes -> RE: why is it so hard? (6/19/2009 8:33:53 PM)
I don't know why you think women walk around wanting to kick guys in the balls, but I'd really like to smack some of them upside the head [8\|]

AlexandraLynch -> RE: why is it so hard? (6/19/2009 8:35:17 PM)
quote: I am not going to say that I do not feel getting kicked in the balls does not hurt. I will say it does not visibly phase me though. The key word is visibly. Oh, well, that's no fun then. (sighs)

pyroaquatic -> RE: why is it so hard? (6/19/2009 8:37:29 PM)
I've been hit accidentally in the testicles so many times that A.) I can take it B.) I've learned to instinctively block it. Learning how to juggling balls has helped me protect mine. [:@]

GYPZYQUEEN -> RE: why is it so hard? (6/19/2009 8:38:26 PM)
I AGREE..with wynd chimes What should we call it..??the head slap[image]http://www.collarchat.com/micons/m26.gif[/image] head banging ???? no no that one is taken..lets see. sense-less slapping? junk punch the brain monkey? grey matter mushing? bangin' the brain bucket? clues closet cuffing? slap a tainttard? yep................[:'(] GQ

RLMK -> RE: why is it so hard? (6/19/2009 9:02:08 PM)
I would think striking someone in the testicles, w.o. risking permanent damage, would take some skill. Presuming there's a similarity between animals and people, errors in that area can result in bleeding to death pretty easily.

pyroaquatic -> RE: why is it so hard? (6/19/2009 9:25:35 PM)
I am most likely sterile from my accidents. But you never know and I will not risk it.

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