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RE: why is it so hard? - 6/19/2009 11:11:37 PM

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gawd.. there mere thought of deliberately kicking a guy in the balls makes my skin crawl.....

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RE: why is it so hard? - 6/19/2009 11:23:25 PM

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THANK GOD.

I kinda understand the kink what I don't get is how it is enjoyable for both parties. Sure the Sadomasochistical crowd but I would love to meet a guy who could explain that he doesn't feel what I feel when I clip the fucker or sit on them.

Can someone tell me how that can be enjoyable pain because I TRIED I cannot see anyway of making that enjoyable pain.

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RE: why is it so hard? - 6/19/2009 11:25:43 PM

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I would have thought it patently obvious that you will never find a domme by talking bollocks.

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RE: why is it so hard? - 6/20/2009 1:12:24 AM

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Why is it so hard to find sub who wants to please me and serve me..do what I desire?
I thought they would jump at it especially since I am demanding it

You are limiting yourself and the "pool" by focusing on a narrow
line..get to know a DOMME..see her style..the see how desire and style might match
Matching up by a few kinks does not usually work

you could always pay a pro for a specific thing you like

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i know more than one, quite intelligent otherwise, subbie (males as it happens) who have narrow band needs verging on fetish type desires.
They don't seem to have a clue about serving another's needs and are often bitterly disappointed in not being able to find a relationship which lasts for more than a few sessions.
One, an online acquaintance, often uses the services of a pro domme to get release. Year in and year out he pops up to chat and says he's 'dating' but then goes on to say she's a pro domme. i don't know how he manages to do the work he does if his head has been so obsessed by one kink. What a partner would get out of it i really don't know.

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RE: why is it so hard? - 6/20/2009 5:09:53 AM

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Whatever you call it, just make sure to use a clue-by-four . . .. .

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ORIGINAL: GYPZYQUEEN

I AGREE..with wynd chimes

What should we call it..??the head slap
head banging ???? no no that one is taken..lets see.

sense-less slapping?
junk punch the brain monkey?
grey matter mushing?
bangin' the brain bucket?
clues closet cuffing?
slap a tainttard?

yep................

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RE: why is it so hard? - 6/20/2009 6:01:03 AM

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RE: why is it so hard? - 6/20/2009 8:16:27 AM

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greg, I'll give you a serious answer. There IS one way to get what you want that nobody's mentioned.

Meet a woman and ask her out. When you're on the date, get to know her. Where she works, what her values are, what books she reads. Ask her out again, and do things with her that you both want to do. Make a pass at her. If you do get to take her to bed, tell her that you have a fetish of having her stroke your cock with her foot. Once she gets to accept that, ask her to push down a little more forcefully. Build up to your fetish. Get the idea?

Women are funny that way. They want a relationship. Once they're in one, they'll frequently be willing to do things for the other person. But the majority don't walk around with a bunch of fetish desires jangling around in their heads.

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RE: why is it so hard? - 6/20/2009 8:39:41 AM

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ORIGINAL: GreedyTop

gawd.. there mere thought of deliberately kicking a guy in the balls makes my skin crawl.....

Yeah, i think women are conditioned into thinking that...it is something very very NOT done even more so than that a man is NOT to hit a woman...

Ball busting (and also cunt busting for that matter) as far as i have read about is a very un popular activity for Dominants on account of the high risk of permanent damage....

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RE: why is it so hard? - 6/20/2009 10:50:40 AM

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I'm a thinking that the OP hasn't yet learned that because he actually wants a Domme to kick his balls he is unlikely to find one. Sooo a little reverse psychology is in order here. OP You could walk up to every Domme you can find and tell her forcibly that you will not allow her to kick you in the balls because she wouldn't have to guts to do so....

However should you ever find your way over here to Aussie, I know my Lady Neets will love to play with you and a variety of stinging floggers in the testicular proximately whilst I don my hob=nailed steel capped boots and after taking a few practice kicks at a rock in the garden I can settle down to some serious testicle kicking whilst my lady watched and makes interesting comments for you.

I haven't either kicked or kneed anyone in the balls for years. I've even forgotten the sound they make and the feel of then being squashed... So trot over my lad so I can reacquaint myself with the sounds and feel of testicles being kneed, kicked and stomped on.....

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RE: why is it so hard? - 6/20/2009 12:03:48 PM

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why is it so hard to find a Mistress who wants to play with me who wants to kick my balls? i love ball busting and would've thought most women would jump at the chance to kick a guy in the balls! especially if he's begging her to do so!!

The truth is alot of Mistresses think its a little extreme and worry about lasting damage....

I'll kick you in the balls if you like... However, if you beg me to do it to you i probaly wont as i like to see people suffer.....

ETA:~ Ive just check out your profile and as luck would have it i know you..... the next time we're in the same space togther ill do your ball busting coz im nice like that init...

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RE: why is it so hard? - 6/20/2009 12:10:36 PM

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Meet a woman and ask her out. When you're on the date, get to know her. Where she works, what her values are, what books she reads. Ask her out again, and do things with her that you both want to do. Make a pass at her. If you do get to take her to bed, tell her that you have a fetish of having her stroke your cock with her foot. Once she gets to accept that, ask her to push down a little more forcefully. Build up to your fetish. Get the idea?

Can i just say i think that is a ridiculous idea.... im someone that has no wish to enter into a vanilla relationship. So meeting and entering into one in the hope that i can eventually convince them to do some of the stuff i enjoy would not only take forever and a day to accomplish, but would also be deceitful to them knowing full well im a raving perve and trying to do the whole vanilla thing while inside im screaming to be violated....

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RE: why is it so hard? - 6/20/2009 12:28:32 PM

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why is it so hard to find a Mistress who wants to play with me who wants to kick my balls?

Maybe she would prefer you to show an interest in her. Maybe she feels that as a dominant she gets to do what she wants, not just what you want.

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i love ball busting and

Do you care at all what she loves?

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especially if he's begging

Perhaps it comes across as whining rather than begging. <hums DO-ME, DOOO-MEEE, dooooooo!>

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RE: why is it so hard? - 6/20/2009 12:34:15 PM

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Hmm... honestly, I have no dislike of ball kicking... but how long of a scene would that be?

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RE: why is it so hard? - 6/20/2009 1:08:37 PM

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I know that personally I always finding it so inticing when a sub begs me to do a specific kink for him with no interests in what I want or serving me. Do you take the tried and true method of cmailing every Domme on here with "want to kick my balls?" I am sure eventually it works, otherwise I wouldn't get so many requests.

Yeah, I am being snarky but I am in a mood today and I am frankly tired of male subs/slaves that are only interested in what they want and they want it now.

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RE: why is it so hard? - 6/20/2009 1:16:29 PM

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personally I always finding it so inticing when a sub begs me to do a specific kink for him with no interests in what I want or serving me.

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RE: why is it so hard? - 6/20/2009 4:10:12 PM

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I haven't either kicked or kneed anyone in the balls for years. I've even forgotten the sound they make and the feel of then being squashed... So trot over my lad so I can reacquaint myself with the sounds and feel of testicles being kneed, kicked and stomped on.....

IronBear.....you are one eeeevil man LOL.

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RE: why is it so hard? - 6/20/2009 4:20:52 PM

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why is it so hard to find a Mistress who wants to play with me who wants to kick my balls? i love ball busting and would've thought most women would jump at the chance to kick a guy in the balls! especially if he's begging her to do so!!

I think maybe I could help you out. If you could just arrange to be at the same place and time as I am.

You see, I just got married a few weeks ago, now my husband has been deployed, and I'm packing up our things, alone, to move into a bigger place. So I'm kind of on edge right now. So if you came up to me, whining, bitching and moaning about how "all Dommes" are....I'm pretty sure I'd be more than happy to kick you in the nuts.....free of charge!

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RE: why is it so hard? - 6/20/2009 4:22:19 PM

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ORIGINAL: GYPZYQUEEN

I AGREE..with wynd chimes

What should we call it..??the head slap
head banging ???? no no that one is taken..lets see.

sense-less slapping?
junk punch the brain monkey?
grey matter mushing?
bangin' the brain bucket?
clues closet cuffing?
slap a tainttard?

yep................

GQ

My vote's with "Tainttard"!

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RE: why is it so hard? - 6/20/2009 4:26:23 PM

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I just got married a few weeks ago, now my husband has been deployed,

Congratulations! ... and all the best to him, and to both of you.

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RE: why is it so hard? - 6/20/2009 4:31:45 PM

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I just got married a few weeks ago, now my husband has been deployed,

Congratulations! ... and all the best to him, and to both of you.

Thanks Red! I'm still getting used to everything, people call me and I have no idea who they are talking to....LOL

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