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Whipping/Flogging/Tickling Questions from a Sub's POV - 2/13/2006 9:03:12 AM

Phantom1017

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I am soon going to be having a "rehearsal" for a home-invasion scenario with my first ever play partner. Thing is, this girl, whom I call "Cindi" (not her real name) is apparently into at least some degree of pain. She's told me she wants to be very tightly tied, and to have painful things done to her that "take her mind off the pain of the ropes". In this list of "things", she includes strappado, pretzel-tie, spanking, and a whipping.

At the rehearsal we are going to start determining (my suggestion to her) just how forceful I should strike with the paddle and the two items she wants me to use in the whipping, going from extremely light to more and more force until we find the amount of force she wants. Okay. That's easy enough for the spanking, but what about the whipping?

In the scene, the first item I'm supposesd to use is a standard extension cord, placing both ends in my hand and beating her with the center of the cord. Then I'm to switch from that to a leather belt (probably about 1 to 1 1/2 inches wide), hold the buckle in my hand and whip her with the other end. The blows will strike on her back, and we're going to use the same cautious approach we use to find the appropriate force with the paddle in the last paragraph.

Now for my first question.:

I need some input from those of you who are subs/slaves as to any suggestions on protecting her from any real damage or any pain additional to that which she's wanting. As described, have I covered all the angles for safety here? This question is VERY important to me!

Second – and last – question.:

I plan to surprise Cindi while she's tied and gagged by pulling out a plummed writing pen that has a large plummy feather on the end, and tickling her with it. First, what are good spots to tickle her, and second, how long should I tickle her? Any suggestions?

Thanks for your input.

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RE: Whipping/Flogging/Tickling Questions from a Sub's POV - 2/13/2006 9:12:30 AM

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ORIGINAL: Phantom1017
I need some input from those of you who are subs/slaves as to any suggestions on protecting her from any real damage or any pain additional to that which she's wanting. As described, have I covered all the angles for safety here? This question is VERY important to me!

Same as any intense scene- you have to be hyper aware of where she is, and her reactions. It's better to go slow and build up. By using mind fuck techniques, you can get her mind ramped up far more with a few moderate hits rather than just worryinga bout evety individual harsh hit.

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I plan to surprise Cindi while she's tied and gagged by pulling out a plummed writing pen that has a large plummy feather on the end, and tickling her with it. First, what are good spots to tickle her, and second, how long should I tickle her? Any suggestions?

Every body is different, you have to find her tickle spots and reactions. Some people react to hard things and some react to soft. Some people love the neck, some people can't stand it.

Suggestions are simply to be rough and aware- and keep doing it until she pees or you're satisfied.

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RE: Whipping/Flogging/Tickling Questions from a Sub's POV - 2/13/2006 11:15:55 AM

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quote:

I need some input from those of you who are subs/slaves as to any suggestions on protecting her from any real damage or any pain additional to that which she's wanting. As described, have I covered all the angles for safety here? This question is VERY important to me!

You may want to skip the gag the first few times and give her a safe word. Or if the gag is important then give her some other way of signalling you when she's reached her limit. This old thread may help:

ball gag and safeword

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First, what are good spots to tickle her, and second, how long should I tickle her? Any

Oh I love feathers, especially when blindfolded. Some sensitive areas for me are the inside of the thighs, inside of the elbows, back of the knees, face, and neck. For me that isn't tickling though, it's just very erotic. Tickling for torture for me is the ribs (not with a feather) and bottom of the feet (a feather may work here, haven't tried that).

Sounds like a fun scene, enjoy.

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RE: Whipping/Flogging/Tickling Questions from a Sub's POV - 2/13/2006 12:35:11 PM

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i would add, stay away from the kidneys and the neck.

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RE: Whipping/Flogging/Tickling Questions from a Sub's POV - 2/13/2006 12:47:47 PM

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Keep away from using gags until both of you are comfortable with the play...Part of the energy given off can come from what is said and how they react....

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