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califsue -> Lacation Fetish (6/20/2009 6:35:09 PM)

Question just because I am curious...and yes I did a search and while I found some information
on Lacation it didn't exactly answer my question.
 
As an s-type have you ever done this and did you enjoy, was their pain associated with it, and was it something you wanted to try, or something you did for your M/D type?
 
As an M/D type is this something you want from an s-type? What is the attraction if this is a fetish you enjoy?
 
It isn't something I have given much thought to and I wouldn't classify it as a limit for me but not sure it is something I am interested in either so I am interested in answers from all.
 
Thank you
 



OsideGirl -> RE: Lacation Fetish (6/20/2009 7:08:20 PM)

Perhaps if you searched for "lactation"?



AngelGeena -> RE: Lacation Fetish (6/20/2009 7:12:37 PM)

I haven't done it, but have researched it. It is basically no different than when your milk comes in after childbirth (I don't know if you've ever experienced that before) From what I understand, it takes quite a bit of suction type stimulation to get milk to come in without the pregnancy hormones. If you haven't had kids, it can be very uncomfortable/painful when it comes in and then if it isn't released enough and can stay that way until it dries back up. My penny's worth.



antipode -> RE: Lacation Fetish (6/20/2009 8:02:13 PM)

How do you do a search on something you can't spell?



greenearth21 -> RE: Lacation Fetish (6/20/2009 8:07:40 PM)

ouch!!! antipode



Prinsexx -> RE: Lacation Fetish (6/21/2009 6:14:12 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: antipode

How do you do a search on something you can't spell?

you goggle it first



Prinsexx -> RE: Lacation Fetish (6/21/2009 6:31:26 AM)

i love lactating.
if i drink lots of water in an erotic situation, even now, (many years after childbirth), the water will feel as if it is going straight to my breasts. This was a process that happened all the time during breasts feeding. I've breasts fed three. Breast feeding publicly, in Europe, (Spain and Italy say) is far more acceptable than in England... (uptight in public, perverse at the core..forgive sweeping cultural generalizations).

It's totally erotic to me to bring a dominant to the breasts when asked to do so. Nipples need to be placed on the top of the tongue and pulled when suckled to the back of the throat. It's amazing how long nipples can become when breast feeding. Nah to weights.. they've nothing on the feeling. Amazing and a beautiful aspect of power exchange.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Erotic_lactation
  http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Erotic_lactation
  http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Erotic_lactation 
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Erotic_lactation      



califsue -> RE: Lacation Fetish (6/21/2009 11:02:09 AM)

So sue me in my semi well state that in the title and my post for my mistake on the spelling OsideGirl.
 
I did search the archives of CM and google it.



califsue -> RE: Lacation Fetish (6/21/2009 11:03:24 AM)

AngelGeena...Thank you for your reply. And..NO I never had the joy or pain of experiencing childbirth only a miscarriage.



califsue -> RE: Lacation Fetish (6/21/2009 11:04:27 AM)

antipode..thanks for the smart ass reply...

I am still recovering from the flu so my apologies that i f************ up the spelling to all who were so kind to point it out to me.



califsue -> RE: Lactation Fetish (6/21/2009 11:05:38 AM)

Prinsexx..Thank you for your honest reply. I appreciate the answer even though I was stupid
and made a mistake on the spelling.



OsideGirl -> RE: Lacation Fetish (6/21/2009 11:44:29 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: califsue

So sue me in my semi well state that in the title and my post for my mistake on the spelling OsideGirl.
 
I did search the archives of CM and google it.
Gee, so be really defensive when I think maybe, just maybe, you don't know how to spell it and that's why you can't find it. You misspelled it not once, but twice, so it's a reasonable conclusion. I was actually trying to be helpful.

But, if ya wanna be a crank about it feel free.



NAFOD -> RE: Lacation Fetish (6/21/2009 12:55:00 PM)

This was one of the few kinky things my mostly vanilla ex wife enjoyed.

She was on a drug that caused lactation as a side effect, and we altered her diet to more or less encourage milk production. She LOVED it, I enjoyed it, and it was a win-for-all. She actually used it to help lose weight too shockingly, apparently making milk burns a LOT of calories.



Born2BMasochist -> RE: Lacation Fetish (6/21/2009 1:08:56 PM)

I enjoyed lactating during and after childbirth. I actually enjoyed squirting my milk across the room at my partner the most. Especially when he said something i didnt like. Well it could have been the hormones too.
Just had to add that in.
I too as a teenager was on a medicine as well thats side effect was lactation. This medication can also cause some men to lactate. But that is using a drug and I do not agree with the method.



CountrySong -> RE: Lacation Fetish (6/21/2009 1:50:50 PM)

I personally love lactation for several reasons though I've only done it once since my last partner was on a drug that secreated with the milk which I did not want in my system.
One - drawing my lifes fuel from someone really is a turn on almost vampire in nature!
Two - it causes the release of oxytosin which is the hormone the causes bonding so by the very act of milking her she becomes more bound to me.
Three - it does wonders for the nipples and breasts.
Four - it can be used as a form of control or punishment. Breast hurt if the milk supply is not released. And it is fun to have her beg for it.
Five - it is very attention grabbing to go to a play club and squirt milk. Or even just take someone for a walk with milk slowly soaking their tee shirt.
Six - I love to suck and since I'm not into dick breasts and clits are what I go for. Breast milk provides more of an excuse and a routine since the milk needs to be removed regularly or the milk will stop.
I've even writen several poems about lactation
Peace 



justme1980 -> RE: Lacation Fetish (6/21/2009 2:35:22 PM)

I had heard that inducing lactation may cause emotional issues such as mood swings and stuff like that



califsue -> RE: Lacation Fetish (6/21/2009 3:07:34 PM)

It didn't come across as being helpful and yes I felt like being a crank about it.

quote:

ORIGINAL: OsideGirl

quote:

ORIGINAL: califsue

So sue me in my semi well state that in the title and my post for my mistake on the spelling OsideGirl.
 
I did search the archives of CM and google it.
Gee, so be really defensive when I think maybe, just maybe, you don't know how to spell it and that's why you can't find it. You misspelled it not once, but twice, so it's a reasonable conclusion. I was actually trying to be helpful.

But, if ya wanna be a crank about it feel free.



Born2BMasochist -> RE: Lacation Fetish (6/21/2009 5:08:11 PM)

In response to justme , sorry i dont know how to quite cut and paste entries yet. Yes I can see how there can be a hormonal change in the one who chooses to lactate. I am in the medical field and it makes perfect sense. A women that is lactating is going through a hormonal change and thus can cause mood swings, etc.



bearly2001 -> RE: Lacation Fetish (6/22/2009 9:59:54 AM)

lactation is a fetish for me and i can't begin to explain why... i was a bottle baby and was not breast fed due to the inimitable Dr. Spock... perhaps it explains why i have had breast/bra/nipple/lactation fetish all my post pubescent life!

i am an online-only dom and yet i have helped 2 women lactate by helping them do daily pumping and diet supplements (herbal teas). i would be in touch with them several times per day by chat and cam to pump and manipulate the breasts. it is not an easy process and takes commitment and some time. but even women who have never breast fed or been pregnant can lactate. i have taken great pleasure in helping these ladies finally begin to express milk from their breasts. however, i really cannot say why it is erotic to me.. it just is.



lovingpet -> RE: Lacation Fetish (6/22/2009 10:37:33 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: justme1980

I had heard that inducing lactation may cause emotional issues such as mood swings and stuff like that


In the early going, it does produce hormonal shifts that result in moodiness and crying easily.  This eases over time.  In it's place are several opportunities daily to slow down, relax, and just be peaceful.  The payoff is eventual increase emotional stability and reduced stress.

I am working on this one currently for my partners.  In everything I do, there has to be the thought of this one task I have been given.  What I eat and drink, how much sleep I get, how I handle stress and more all affect my progress.  I have about 8 times a day when the whole world has to stop so I can focus on this and for whom I am doing it.

I agree with another poster about the vampiric and control aspects.  I also find it very primal.  It is how we bond and it is how we supply for hunger.  To have my body used in that way is an incredible deep submissive experience.

OP, feel free to cmail me if you would like to talk about it more.  I am enjoying this journey so far, but  make no mistake it is a  long one and one that takes a high level of commitment.  I can't wait for the results that will eventually occur.

lovingpet



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