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Games - 6/21/2009 5:18:30 PM   
Lew2121


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Status: offline 		What are good games to play with a sub where you can punish or reward her based on her answers or actions?
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RE: Games - 6/21/2009 5:41:12 PM   
DarkSteven


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If you want to spank her, spank her.

If she's actually doing everything right, you've got a gem.  Creating fake reasons to punish her will just piss her off.

Quit playing games and tell her how to please you.


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RE: Games - 6/21/2009 5:58:03 PM   
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RE: Games - 6/21/2009 8:08:04 PM   
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Status: offline 		Oh...I'm not in agreement with the two above. I've found such games to be quite fun (obviously they're creative alternatives to interaciton, and not due to lack of other "punishment" or "reward" activities).

As a general area to start -- adapting card games has been an easy route for me (variations of blackjack or poker usually). We've also used dice, guessing numbers/letters, or other simple wagering type games. What you're going to want her to do will depend a lot on your and her preferences obviously. If you're creative, you should be able to think of different entertaining things, though. They can start from as simple as something like: Roll a die, numbers 1-3 your ass gets spanked and 4-6 your breasts. And well...can get as complicated as you can imagine (some of ours have several pages of rules hehe).

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RE: Games - 6/21/2009 8:46:20 PM   
ApathyRomance


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Status: offline 		I prefer things to be more skill based.  (Though I can see why some might prefer the excitement of a luck based game!)

Strip Magic and strip Chess can be adapted pretty easily to involve more than just stripping.

Since pretty much any game has choices that result in positive or negative results, though, I imagine any game could be modified to one's taste.

Since you're asking about games, I assume you like games.  (And if she does too, it probably won't piss her off!)

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RE: Games - 6/21/2009 8:49:47 PM   
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ORIGINAL: DarkSteven

Why?

If you want to spank her, spank her.

If she's actually doing everything right, you've got a gem.  Creating fake reasons to punish her will just piss her off.

Quit playing games and tell her how to please you.



QFT.

However, expanding upon GeekFreak's notion, I understand the desire to pass time with activities which carry a D/s element. Another way of saying this is "How do I inject D/s elements into the activities which entertain me?"

Because I can only play so many rounds of Randy Trivial Pursuit and Dirty Dice. Tell me your hobbies and perhaps we can pervertify them.



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RE: Games - 6/21/2009 9:48:17 PM   
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ORIGINAL: DarkSteven

Quit playing games and tell her how to please you.

Um...that's the point of this entire post. To brainstorm ideas that would please him so he can inform his sub.

D/s relationships and fun are not mutually exclusive and the attempt to include a game which has a reward/p(f)unishment facet is not something that will suddenly arrest the healthy flow of the union because of inapplicable psychological repercussions.

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RE: Games - 6/21/2009 10:49:30 PM   
SteelofUtah


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Status: offline 		This was a fun game.

Guess the Number.

The sub has to write down a number between 0 and 10 and then give it to the KEEPER.

Then the Top will start spanking and if the sub gets the number of spanks that the Top administers the sub gets a Spoiling where the Dom rubs her back or Feet and gets her chocolate. If she gets it wrong then the spanking continues until she gets it right.

The KEEPER and the Top were usually in Co-Hoots together or the Top would always spank 11 times guaranteeing the sub continued getting a spanking.

It most ALWAYS ended with the sub finally getting it right after like 15 or 20 wrongs and getting her pampering and living with a flaming hot ass.

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RE: Games - 6/22/2009 1:35:33 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Lew2121

What are good games to play with a sub where you can punish or reward her based on her answers or actions?


I'm not sure if you mean games as in Trivial Pursuits or Gin rummy or scenes in which case I'd say try Interrogation! Those can be an absolute hoot with pre-set answers (for example, a certain passcode that you both know but have to get her to admit.) It incorporates elements of espionage, subtrufuge, misdirection.. all kinds of fun stuff. You can go all out with maps, costumes.. the works or keep it simple.. the sky really is the limit!

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RE: Games - 6/22/2009 7:08:53 AM   
WoodenPaddle


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ORIGINAL: DarkSteven

Why?

If you want to spank her, spank her.

If she's actually doing everything right, you've got a gem.  Creating fake reasons to punish her will just piss her off.

Quit playing games and tell her how to please you.



Of course. However, I don't think that's the point in this case. The question is how to make it more fun/exciting or how to incorporate it into other activities.

That being said, there's many games to be played. Since I like games I've got a whole range of games available. Some of them designed myself, others adapted from other games...*chuckles*...from my earliest days I've been adapting games to improve on the rules and 4 out of 5 times familymembers and/or friends asked me to write them down because it made the game better (and no, in those days it wasn not yet adapting to BDSM...in case anyone was wondering....sheeesh)
First question is the number and kind of players: for 2 switches either party could/should be able to win...*grins*...but for a D/s it should be lopsided unless the sub can earn certain rewards that way.
One or two or more subs, mood, time available and whether you're working to a certain set ending or whether you'r letting chance/skill decide the outcome.
There's an almost endless range of games to be played, dice, cards, boardgames, wordgames or other games, games of skill or combinations of several elements.
Perhaps I'll post several kinds of games when I'll have enough time to do so, or you can ask for some examples.

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RE: Games - 6/22/2009 7:23:23 AM   
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RE: Games - 6/22/2009 9:13:00 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Aileen1968

Wii boxing. Heh.


*smiles*

I'd like to add that Aileen's comment heavily sums up my feelings regarding 24/7 relationships. We're people first.

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