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how 2 satify Master - 6/23/2009 6:25:29 PM   
analretentive


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How can a new slave make her Master feel like He is the best? I so want to make my Master happy and i want Him to desire me. I know its not about what I want, but rather what He wants. Do Masters tell slaves what they need and desire? I would like to be the best He has ever had and mostly to be loved by Him. To be loved by Him would make this slave very happy! Someone tell me how, please?
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RE: how 2 satify Master - 6/23/2009 6:29:03 PM   
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RE: how 2 satify Master - 6/23/2009 6:36:44 PM   
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Status: offline 		Yep, just ask.  I have found it's better to ask, than to assume.  Unless someone is just being a dick, they will most likely tell you what you need to know.





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RE: how 2 satify Master - 6/23/2009 8:12:26 PM   
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Status: offline 		I probably shouldn't say this, but if you're this insecure and have such poor communication now, I wonder if finding another woman is the right thing for your relationship at this point.  That's the main point of your profile.


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RE: how 2 satify Master - 6/23/2009 8:25:23 PM   
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How can a new slave make her Master feel like He is the best? I so want to make my Master happy and i want Him to desire me. I know its not about what I want, but rather what He wants. Do Masters tell slaves what they need and desire? I would like to be the best He has ever had and mostly to be loved by Him. To be loved by Him would make this slave very happy! Someone tell me how, please?


*nods @ DarkSteven's comment*
Just let things be and not try to "make" something or someone feel a particular way so they desire/want you. (speaking in general) Just be yourself and let the flow or a relationship take place and everything...will work on its own.

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RE: how 2 satify Master - 6/24/2009 9:04:07 AM   
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Status: offline 		None of us can tell you that. You have to ask him. Every Master is different its not a one size fits all.

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RE: how 2 satify Master - 6/24/2009 9:23:19 AM   
atomicpink


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Status: offline 		  You will learn what your Master likes as you try new things.  Be creative and imaginative.  When you do not please your Master, your Master should correct your mistakes and punish you.   My Master loves to bind me, which is both a pleasure for him and can be a pleasure or punishment for me. 

Whatever happens, your Master should communicate as your relationship evolves to greater levels.

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RE: how 2 satify Master - 6/24/2009 9:32:57 AM   
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Status: offline 		How can a new slave make her Master feel like He is the best? For me? obedience kind of says it all.

I so want to make my Master happy and i want Him to desire me. See above. Men desire women who are physically attractive to them, emotionally attractive to them, intellectually attractive to them, and give them the sex they want. All of which is conveniently covered under the term "obedience".

I know its not about what I want, but rather what He wants. Who told you that?

Do Masters tell slaves what they need and desire? My psychic slave is on back-order. So until the upgrade arrives, I have to rely on speech to ensure she understands me.

I would like to be the best He has ever had and mostly to be loved by Him. To be loved by Him would make this slave very happy! Wonderful *smiles*

Someone tell me how, please? see also, obedience

Look, I hate to harp on the obedience thing but it really ought to be exactly that simple. It is his job to tell you how how to please him. It is your job to obey. If he's doing your job and your doing yours then all should be well in the world. One of the things my wife loves best about her servitude is that she isn't guessing anymore as to how to make me happy. In her words, it's like pulling the lever on the slot machine and hitting a jackpot every time.

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RE: how 2 satify Master - 6/24/2009 9:56:20 AM   
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Do Masters tell slaves what they need and desire? My psychic slave is on back-order. So until the upgrade arrives, I have to rely on speech to ensure she understands me.


dammit, Jeff....

I'm gonna need a new monitor and keyboard......

warm regards to you and Carol :)


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RE: how 2 satify Master - 6/24/2009 10:10:16 AM   
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RE: how 2 satify Master - 6/24/2009 10:10:25 AM   
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Status: offline 		First (HUG) - see original post.

Second. IF a Master does not tell the slave what they need then how are they going to be trained in the first place. After the training certain things are a given, and other times the Master needs to indicate a deviated desire from the norm. It is all about communication.

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RE: how 2 satify Master - 6/24/2009 10:11:36 AM   
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ORIGINAL: analretentive



How can a new slave make her Master feel like He is the best? I so want to make my Master happy and i want Him to desire me. I know its not about what I want, but rather what He wants. Do Masters tell slaves what they need and desire? I would like to be the best He has ever had and mostly to be loved by Him. To be loved by Him would make this slave very happy! Someone tell me how, please?


Only Master's from other planets don't tell their slaves what they want. Unless, of course you're a good crystal ball reader or a psychic. Asking Him is one way of learning. Observing Him is another and then checking with Him to be sure Your observation is correct. Being obedient is another way to demonstrate to Him that you very much want to please Him.


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RE: how 2 satify Master - 6/24/2009 10:46:26 PM   
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RE: how 2 satify Master - 6/25/2009 10:07:39 PM   
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Status: offline 		Asking your Master is what works best... I did and now my Daddy and I have the best relationship I could ask for. I was new like you too, didn't know what to expect...but with a little training and obedience I learned what my Daddy liked best and was able to be what He wanted in a dog. I do everything and anything I can to make my Daddy pleased with me, so every little thing counts, try and go above and beyond with what He asks of you. *Hugs* good luck :)

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RE: how 2 satify Master - 6/27/2009 6:49:08 PM   
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I have to say along with everyone else that asking him works wonders. As does paying very close attention to his habits. I learned-by watching him in his home that I take off my shoes (snow), I use the remote to turn on/off the tv, where groceries are kept and how to put away his clothes. Hopefully, he will also correct you like Daddy had to have me ring the doorbell (bad hearing) before walking in the house, NOT to open the windows, how to wash dishes, etc.

Don't forget that you will most likely not be his most perfect slave/sub at first. It takes time to learn. We have been together for 14 months and I am still learning-like he wants to be left alone to be sick...I like to moan and groan and retch with someone near me. That he likes certain dishes but without so much spices. See if he had told me that in the beginning, I would have taken it badly or been offended but now that time has passed and we are more comfortable with each other, he can GENTLY criticize me ad it does not launch me into tears. Good luck!
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RE: how 2 satify Master - 6/28/2009 6:23:30 AM   
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ORIGINAL: sleazybutterfly

Yep, just ask.  I have found it's better to ask, than to assume.  Unless someone is just being a dick, they will most likely tell you what you need to know.



not necessarily true.

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RE: how 2 satify Master - 6/28/2009 10:44:36 AM   
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Status: offline 		But it's certainly better than asking strangers.  What my Sir expects of me and what will make him happy very likely bears little resemblance to what will make hers happy.  Perhaps hers wants to micromanage her daily activities; mine would rather poke his eyeball out with a ballpoint pen first.  Perhaps hers wants her to go without panties on a regular basis; mine prefers I wear panties.  Perhaps hers wants her kneeling at his feet; mine knows that prior injuries prevent me from kneeling.

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RE: how 2 satify Master - 6/29/2009 6:33:30 PM   
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ORIGINAL: maia09

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How can a new slave make her Master feel like He is the best? I so want to make my Master happy and i want Him to desire me. I know its not about what I want, but rather what He wants. Do Masters tell slaves what they need and desire? I would like to be the best He has ever had and mostly to be loved by Him. To be loved by Him would make this slave very happy! Someone tell me how, please?


Only Master's from other planets don't tell their slaves what they want. Unless, of course you're a good crystal ball reader or a psychic. Asking Him is one way of learning. Observing Him is another and then checking with Him to be sure Your observation is correct. Being obedient is another way to demonstrate to Him that you very much want to please Him.



Actually I am a very good psychic, but I still believe in asking and really listening. Assuming is never going to work in any type of relationship. Listening well, without trying to think of clever things to say, while they are speaking to you, is a major benifit to understanding who they are.

(((hugs))) to you OP.

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RE: how 2 satify Master - 6/29/2009 7:42:05 PM   
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Status: offline 		This is one where the most obvious answer is the right one. You have to open your mouth and (shame on you dirty minded ppl) ask. Formerlly vodkasipper

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