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RE: WTF is Wrong with subs? (A RANT) - 6/29/2009 1:52:49 PM   
MistressRage


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Status: offline 		Obviously I don't know all fo what was said but based on what you've posted My thoughts are as follows;

BBW doesn't necessarily mean fat ass. Anything over a size 12 is considered BBW and depending on your proportions and height a person might not be fat at all.

I wouldn't be offended. Some guys love big titty blondes. Some love milky skinned Irish Ladies. Others love Amazon tall women. As a woman, I break for dark haired guys with muscles and rock hard abs. Does it mean that I only want a dude for his muscles? Nope- but it sure will get My attention long enough to strike up a conversation to see if he's got anything beyond that or if we share any interests.

Do you know what he looks like? (If he's slim disregard this paragraph) The guy might be a BHM(big handsome man) and perhaps he feels more comfy with someone who is also plus sized. I know of several plus sized slave boys who will only serve BBW's because they say that the slim Dominas don't understand the sub's inability to get into certain positions and other issues that only BHM subs deal with.

Maybe he is just super turned on by BBW's and curvy women. Is a fetish for BBWs any better or worse than a fetish for feet? If all he mentioned was your love for spanking rather than your weight would it be different? I think it's great that there are men who specifically like BBW's. However, if you have absolutely nothing else in common and the only thing he talks about is your weight then I can understand the frustration.



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RE: WTF is Wrong with subs? (A RANT) - 6/29/2009 2:38:16 PM   
LadyHibiscus


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Status: offline 		Anything over a size 12 is a BBW??  REALLY?

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RE: WTF is Wrong with subs? (A RANT) - 6/29/2009 3:57:23 PM   
Politesub53


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ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus

Anything over a size 12 is a BBW??  REALLY?


I thought it was anything over a size 8.


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RE: WTF is Wrong with subs? (A RANT) - 6/29/2009 4:34:02 PM   
tornaway


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 But try and remember - when you allow yourself  to get
 
into a funk over someone else , for whatever reason ,
 
THEY control YOU !

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RE: WTF is Wrong with subs? (A RANT) - 6/29/2009 10:03:14 PM   
FullfigRIMAAM1


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ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus
Anything over a size 12 is a BBW??  REALLY?
My understanding, and that of most stores that do not carry plus size clothing, is anything over size 16, is plus size.     M

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RE: WTF is Wrong with subs? (A RANT) - 6/30/2009 1:03:34 AM   
DemonKia


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Status: offline 		Ladies, this is really one of those perspective issues. Dress-makers & retailers define it one way, & those looking for lust (or whatever) define it some other way . . . .

I've heard of guys who think anything above a 4 is overweight. Stupid, yes, but there it is . . . .

Plus, FullfigRIMAAM1, I noticed that sometime over the last 20 years sizes all got bigger; I've gotten larger than I was in my late teens, but I now fit into sizes smaller than I fit back then. Taking into account the variety of how any given manufacturer measures any given size, too . . . . .

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ORIGINAL: FullfigRIMAAM1

quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus
Anything over a size 12 is a BBW??  REALLY?
My understanding, and that of most stores that do not carry plus size clothing, is anything over size 16, is plus size.     M

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RE: WTF is Wrong with subs? (A RANT) - 6/30/2009 3:54:47 AM   
PeonForHer


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Status: offline 		I've heard of guys who think anything above a 4 is overweight. Stupid, yes, but there it is . . . .
 
Never mind Size 4.  A woman who is anything over 2 dimensions is too big for me. 

What baffles me is a) why women's hips are getting smaller in relation to the rest of them and b) why men's feet are getting larger. 



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RE: WTF is Wrong with subs? (A RANT) - 6/30/2009 4:00:35 AM   
DemonKia


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Status: offline 		LOL, you're just confirming any prejudices that might be lingering out there about potential shallowness of your tastes? Ya know, cuz it takes that 3rd dimension to have depth . . . . . . *smirk*

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ORIGINAL: PeonForHer

A woman who is anything over 2 dimensions is too big for me. 



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RE: WTF is Wrong with subs? (A RANT) - 6/30/2009 12:11:17 PM   
Kyoki


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Status: offline 		Dommes seem to get a lot of e-mails from sub boys that all say the same thing in general. (Thank you, interwebz) A dime a dozen in most cases. Sad to say, most guys are on here for the sexual contact!

Hell, even I look for it occasionally. I do like sex, after all. So shoot me. Right now though, I'm seeking to learn. I don't want to be like one of those idiots as I get older. I'm 20, and new to the lifestyle. I'm looking forward to learning anything I can about it.

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sad truth - 6/30/2009 9:39:33 PM   
vasha


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ORIGINAL: LovingMistress45

It is not about size, it about the any "____" domme will do. Fill the blank in with whatever be it skin color, size or anyother characteristic. 


answer: desperation.  while either sex may act on it inappropiately far to much, men dont hide it as well.  \

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