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RE: BS in BDSM!!!! - 6/26/2009 5:28:56 PM

GotSteel

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Welcome to the internet

Seriously though I've used the video chatroom a couple of times and found people to be friendly. I also found my sub the second or third time I logged on, so we've had very different experiences with the site.

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RE: BS in BDSM!!!! - 6/26/2009 7:13:57 PM

LdyWintershade

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Wow! Didn't expect all the resentment......I didn't mean to hit a nerve, people. In any case, I still appreciate the responses, both positive and negative.

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RE: BS in BDSM!!!! - 6/26/2009 7:42:15 PM

MarsBonfire

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For what it's worth:

Finding quality people via online is like trying to swim with a brick in each hand. You can do it, but you'll be exhausted by the time you get to where you want to go.

Instead, join a local group. Cruise around f2f in real time. You'll find that you can filter through the BS ones far more quickly. You may still not find a quality playmate or two, but at least your time won't be wasted. Besides, if they have the guts to actually show up to a party where people actually play, you'll know they are already one step ahead of the couch potato wankers and gender frauds that compose so much of online.

PS. Sorry to hear about the Goreans... but hardly surprising.

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RE: BS in BDSM!!!! - 6/26/2009 8:03:04 PM

Racquelle

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In my regular postal mailbox I receive:

lots of ads that I just throw straight in the trash
bills I don't want but have to deal with
invitations - sometimes for things I want to do, sometimes not
notices of things I need to know
outright scams that I can smell a mile away

and every great once in a while - a check or a greeting card or a letter that I am very happy to have

It's been like this for years. That's how mail boxes are. To let in what I want, I also let in what I don't want, but I don't let it trip me up. I just toss it and move on.

At swing parties there is a term for the rarest, most sought after creature - the GBB - otherwise known as the Gorgeous Bi Babe. You are then also adding sub to that, and you have now identified an uberrarity. The more conditions that must be met, the less likely you are to locate someone who meets them. That is not to say your conditions are bad, or that this is hopeless - just that you have created a difficult goal. But yes, it's frustrating to have our goals twarted. I wish you the best.

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RE: BS in BDSM!!!! - 6/26/2009 9:33:01 PM

GotSteel

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quote:

ORIGINAL: LdyWintershade

Wow! Didn't expect all the resentment......I didn't mean to hit a nerve, people. In any case, I still appreciate the responses, both positive and negative.

Yeah.....there seems to be a formula for this topic that involves piling criticism onto the OP about how their failure is there fault in a manner that at least in text looks hostile. I don't want to engage in that, but maybe a helpful criticism (hopefully helpful). There just isn't anything in your profile text about yourselves or what your looking for in a slave other than sexual orientation so it reads to me like your looking for a woman solely to use as sex toy. If that's not the case, maybe you could flesh things out a little to give a different impression.

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