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JohnWarren -> RE: Online relationship (2/14/2006 4:07:37 PM)
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Since you seem to be planning to move your relationships into the face to face world, I'd like to give you a bit of a warning.
While the emotions of an online thing may have some relationship to a face to face one, the physical aspect is very different. In this world, the hurt you do is more than embarrassment or humiliation; it can be broken bones and other physical injuries.
If you are going to do any kind of physical play, it is incumbent upon you to learn how to do it in a way that is as safe as possible and to be completely aware of the risks that you are running so you can decide they are worth taking.
There are many good nonfiction books out there, but I really really urge you to get involved with an educational/social group so you can learn directly from other dominants and from submissives what works and what doesn't.
Don't forget that is real flesh you will be dealing with now.
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