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online real or not - 6/27/2009 10:43:50 AM   
slavejim11


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Status: offline 		hello i was just wondering if anyone knows if it's normal for a online mistress to want me to join a website for her for a task, ive done a few little tasks already that seemed normal but now she insists i join this one site and im not sure if it is just a scam or something ur opinion would greatly be appreciated
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RE: online real or not - 6/27/2009 10:57:37 AM   
Blaakmaan


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Status: offline 		Hello, slave jim.

I have no idea how usual (as opposed to "normal") it is for your Mistress to insist that you join this site.

I would ask you, does it matter?

If you're new to this lifestyle, there is a lot of information to be had by reading the posts here (some of it good, some not-so-good, so take what you read with a grain of salt).

But, the more important point is, your Mistress told you to do it.

If you have any questions about why she told you to do it, you really should be asking her, not us.

I wonder though, since your Mistress (whether she's online or not is immaterial) told you to do it, and you're her slave, is it for you to ask why or, as Nike likes to put it, "Just do it"?

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RE: online real or not - 6/27/2009 11:09:31 AM   
DarkSteven


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Status: offline 		Dunno.  If it's not a for-pay website, probably not.

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RE: online real or not - 6/27/2009 11:16:45 AM   
MsLadySue


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Status: offline 		I would think it depends on the website. Does it have anything to do with BDSM or is it just naughty pictures. Do you have to pay to join? If so, perhaps you should think twice before doing so. In the end it's entirely up to you whether you follow the Lady's instructions. 

Edited for spelling.

< Message edited by MsLadySue -- 6/27/2009 11:17:38 AM >

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RE: online real or not - 6/27/2009 12:59:37 PM   
LaTigresse


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quote:

ORIGINAL: slavejim11

hello i was just wondering if anyone knows if it's normal for a online mistress to want me to join a website for her for a task, ive done a few little tasks already that seemed normal but now she insists i join this one site and im not sure if it is just a scam or something ur opinion would greatly be appreciated
slave jim



Do you have disposable income? What do you expect to gain from this interaction? What would you really lose if you did not join? These are questions you need to ask yourself.

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RE: online real or not - 6/27/2009 1:03:13 PM   
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RE: online real or not - 6/27/2009 2:02:57 PM   
LadyHexx


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Status: offline 		If it is a pay website, or anything involving a credit card, I would be wary.

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RE: online real or not - 6/27/2009 2:09:55 PM   
Arpig


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Status: offline 		My first thought is it is likely some sort of scam, but to be honest as scams go it is pretty tame. Not knowing anything about the site I can't really say. Is it a professional networking site? Is it a camwhore site? A yes to either of these makes a major difference in whether it is a scam or not.


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RE: online real or not - 6/27/2009 2:16:23 PM   
flogger


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Status: offline 		Go with your gut feelings.

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RE: online real or not - 6/27/2009 4:37:41 PM   
slavejim11


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Status: offline 		she is asking me to join a website that requires a credit card but it is to get pics from the site so im not sure if i should or not
slave jim

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RE: online real or not - 6/27/2009 5:02:37 PM   
Politesub53


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Status: offline 		Jim, you dont say how long you have known this Lady. Just because she is a Mistress and you are submissive, it doesnt mean you are automatically obliged to do everything she wishes of you. Ask yourself a few questions. Are you her only submissive ? Does she stand to make money from the website ? Do you accept to pay if thats what she wants ? No one can push you into doing something you want to do. Personally speaking I would take great care to make sure i knew someone before giving them my credit card details. That said, there are Mistress`s on here that have pay sites that I would trust completely. This really is something only you can decide.

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RE: online real or not - 6/27/2009 5:08:46 PM   
DiurnalVampire


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Status: offline 		Usually, someone demanding you join a site means that she has a personal stake in the site and will make money off your membership. It is a thinly veiled demand for money, since it is red flagged immediately if she gives you her paypal this is second best. Why would you join a site to get her photos? Doesnt she have her own? Where is your proof that the photos of her you get from a site are actually her if that is the only place you see her?

Id step away. Thats just me. Anyone who needs you to join a wank site to see their photos are either making a buck from the site or selling you a line of shit about who they are. If I showed someone a photo of Pam Anderson that doesnt mean I am her, it just means I tink youd be more likely aroused looking at her than at me. Dont let your desire to be a submissive to someone cloud your better judgement.

DV

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RE: online real or not - 6/27/2009 5:34:34 PM   
Mistress4Gurls


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Status: offline 		ok - so you have been on CM for one day, you already have a mistress and she wants you to pay to get her pics. I see by your profile you are only 18 but please use the brain you were given 18 years ago and think about what you are asking. I suggest if you need to ask you already know the answer.

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RE: online real or not - 6/27/2009 5:35:26 PM   
PeonForHer


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quote:

ORIGINAL: slavejim11

she is asking me to join a website that requires a credit card but it is to get pics from the site so im not sure if i should or not
slave jim



My gut is bellowing "No".  Unless you're perfectly happy going down the pro-Domme route. 

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RE: online real or not - 6/27/2009 5:39:12 PM   
Blaakmaan


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Status: offline 		Well, that's slightly different.

Can't say that I understand it.

I'd think long and hard about that...

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RE: online real or not - 6/27/2009 5:45:08 PM   
AAkasha


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Are you her "slave" yet?
Has she claimed you as her own property?


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RE: online real or not - 6/27/2009 5:45:14 PM   
DarkSteven


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quote:

ORIGINAL: slavejim11

she is asking me to join a website that requires a credit card but it is to get pics from the site so im not sure if i should or not
slave jim



jim, a genuine Domme would want you to focus on her.  you've got a shill for the site.

Drop her and move on.


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The small-breasted ones want larger breasts. The large-breasted ones want smaller ones. The straight-haired ones curl their hair, and the curly-haired ones straighten theirs...

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RE: online real or not - 6/27/2009 9:34:02 PM   
slavejim11


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Status: offline 		yes she has claimed me as hers already

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RE: online real or not - 6/27/2009 9:38:39 PM   
slavejim11


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Status: offline 		but thanks everyone for the info helped alot

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RE: online real or not - 6/27/2009 9:39:57 PM   
HoldofPower


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Status: offline 		I Personally feel quite strongly against Cam Whores using this site as their personal playgrounds. They cause waists of time for many involved with their money grubby. Unless you are Living with someone or have made a Pre arranged fee for interaction MONEY should have no hold in this domain

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