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RE: age - 6/29/2009 10:07:19 AM

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Spoken like a true dominant Akasha but not, neccesarily, true I think. Some young men's ''bad'' areas are the spice in the stew of their personality that makes them interesting.

I think a femdom needs to be a good judge of character. There are a lot of femdoms that LIKE younger guys. There is a huge difference between a 21 year old frat boy, beer guzzling, obnoxious and insecure "kid," and a 21-year old highly perceptive, emotionally mature, well-read and intelligent young, classy gentleman. And the second type you often find to be a bit of a "loner" because he doesn't fit in with those coming-of-age types who are all competing with one another as they do their soul searching. Yet, he is undeniably *inexperienced* in ways of the world, or ways of the woman. But smart enough to know he has much to learn. As a result, he's humble and an open book.

A man who is young, ambitious, intelligent, NOT pretentious, eager to learn -- with virtually no bad habits because he's just not that experienced - THIS is what makes a younger man so attractive.

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RE: age - 6/29/2009 10:16:34 AM

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You've got my agreement there Akasha though I think being inexperienced in the ways of women [and of the world at large] is sadly not only a young man's '''game''

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RE: age - 6/29/2009 10:18:44 AM

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true..but the younger the guy, the more *likely* he is to be inexperienced. I would think it's a matter of odds.

I like "training," what can I say...

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RE: age - 6/29/2009 10:22:25 AM

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Heel I suppose ;) Mind you I can see how despite not having bad habits aquired along the way that young men could be something of a chore for their expectations of what they want from a domme.

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RE: age - 6/29/2009 10:43:16 AM

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Heel I suppose ;) Mind you I can see how despite not having bad habits aquired along the way that young men could be something of a chore for their expectations of what they want from a domme.

Sometimes. But arguably, a man who has 10 more years of sexual appetite has had 10 more years to consume inappropriate/unrealistic femdom porn, nurture his own fantasies and reinforce the stereotypes, whereas a sub who is 10 years younger has less time to reinforce unrealistic ideas.

With youth and innocence (as long as they are emotionally mature and/or perceptive and humble) comes an acceptance that they don't know anything and are looking for expeience. If a man is much older and has no experience at all and has just been living on his own fantasies and consumed packaged femdom porn, he's probably got a wrong impression. Regardless - for ALL age groups, the vast availability of information thanks to the Internet should help everyone. If a man is willing to look and accept; despite the availability of THESE forums, for example, where people discuss and rehash ideas and concepts about the practicality of female dominance, many men will elect to just send spam emails to anyone with a femdom profile and write "I am uR slave, waiting for Ur commands Mistres" instead of investing that time reading and learning.

Regardless, with ANY age, I will take eagerness to learn over experience ANY day of the week if it comes in a package with class!

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