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chasity - 6/28/2009 10:45:14 AM

topleaseyou555

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how long, how does it make you feel, frustrated, more devoted.................just intersested in how other fellas feel about it........thanks

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RE: chasity - 6/28/2009 6:24:49 PM

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I LOVE it. I love to give a Female comtrol over what and when I do, so it takes the pressure off me. I use to have MADAM, who would tell me when I could take off my Harness, and play.

Then I had some female friends on collarme, who would help me out the same way, and a female friend at wirk now, who will hold the key for me, once in a blue moon.

I love to be locked anywhere from a few days to a week. It all depends on how much FUN the female gets out of it, how long I don't PLAY.

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RE: chasity - 6/28/2009 6:39:46 PM

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I love it and I hate it. I sure do wish that there were no pain involved in wearing chastity devices. Even the most comfortable ones grab and pinch a bit.

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RE: chasity - 6/30/2009 6:06:02 PM

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Yes slavejal, but like they say, "If you want to play, you gotta pay".

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RE: chasity - 7/1/2009 5:32:34 AM

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Denial can be a fun game for a short while and makes my eventual orgasm stronger. But I get the impression that you are talking about long term chastity, the kind that lasts weeks or longer. I don't like it. At some point I pretty well lose interest in sex.

While I've never worn a device, the thought really turns me off. It seems a defense against my own integrity. If my lady tells me not to play with myself or play but not orgasm, I follow her instructions. She doesn't need a device for me to obey; if she needed one to keep me from cheating, there would be real problems with the D/s aspect of our relationship.

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RE: chasity - 7/1/2009 7:38:41 AM

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I've once tried to not cum for two weeks, but without the help of any devices. It did work, but I really did lose interest in sex and in many other things that previously I found erotic. Though I must say that I quickly get migrains and just drained when I don't cum for more than a day. I have no idea why that is. Though on the other hand cum or orgasm control is a big turn on when being kept on edge as well, but not cuming for a longer time doesn't do it for me.

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