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LadyElizabeth -> how long? (2/15/2006 9:32:51 AM)
How many D/s dynamics have you been in? , what was the longest one?, are you in a D/s's relationship now, and for how long?

truesub4u -> RE: how long? (2/15/2006 9:42:23 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyElizabeth How many D/s dynamics have you been in? , what was the longest one?, are you in a D/s's relationship now, and for how long? I've been in 2 actual live in D/s relationships.... First Master... for about 7 years.. till his death... Second.. 6 years.. before he decided he wanted to go back vanilla... (because of kids) Third..... still working at it... (smiles... I'll let you know how it goes in a few years... )

michaelGA -> RE: how long? (2/15/2006 9:44:13 AM)
i have not been in any as yet...still waiting for the right Mistress to come along and find me

LuckyAlbatross -> RE: how long? (2/15/2006 9:46:04 AM)
I'm poly so number loses it's relevancy to a certain extent. I have been owned in three relationships, one by a dominant couple. The longest thus far was almost 4 years. I am involved with three partners and while we often play with kinky stuff and are all active in wiitwd, none of us have an ongoing Ds dynamic within our relationships.

mistoferin -> RE: how long? (2/15/2006 9:48:06 AM)
Two that were 11 years each (guess 11 is not my lucky number). One that was three years. One that was 1 year. Those were the significant ones anyway.

UtahGoddess -> RE: how long? (2/15/2006 10:37:13 AM)
My first relationship of any duration (BDSM wise) was 2 years. My second 7 years. My 3rd lasted 6 years. My current relationship is 2 years old and growing strong. :) Ms Sandi

MistressOfGa -> RE: how long? (2/15/2006 10:55:37 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyElizabeth How many D/s dynamics have you been in? , what was the longest one?, are you in a D/s's relationship now, and for how long? Another good question LadyElizabeth, you are indeed on a roll! <s> I had my first sub when I was in my early 20's it lasted 9 months. My second was for 7 years My third was fairly short, only 4 months. He decided he wasnt ready for such a strong woman lol (I may have been too much for him, oops) My fourth was for only a month, he asked for release. Pup is my fifth. We are going strong and I love having him :) There were many in between, but they were never collared by me.

IronBear -> RE: how long? (2/15/2006 11:00:40 AM)
I'm poly but have been in one M/s (Gorean) relationship for two years. I'm not in a M/s relationship at the present and don't expect to fill the empty collar... Age is against me for starters and slaves are scarce here and those slaves who want a Gorean relationship are even scarcer... (See my blog and Read the first poem which comes up "He Sits Fingering An Empty Collar" ).

Evanesce -> RE: how long? (2/15/2006 12:12:23 PM)
quote: How many D/s dynamics have you been in? , what was the longest one?, are you in a D/s's relationship now, and for how long? Officially (meaning those that were actually declared as such), I've had four. Unofficially, there were D/s dynamics in every relationship I've ever had, only we didn't label them as such. The longest "official" one is the one I'm in right now and, as of May 13 (being the anniversary of the day we met in person), it will be six years.

IrishMist -> RE: how long? (2/15/2006 12:27:53 PM)
quote: How many D/s dynamics have you been in? , what was the longest one?, 2, the longest was my first one...

Elegant -> RE: how long? (2/15/2006 12:28:06 PM)
I was in a M/s relationship for about a year doing that online thingy with a few visits. It wouldn't have worked, wasn't real for me...so we parted ways. I met Master Archer almost 8 years ago in person through a mutual friend. This September we celebrate 8 years of his ownership.

BeingChewsie -> RE: how long? (2/15/2006 12:33:57 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyElizabeth How many D/s dynamics have you been in? , what was the longest one?, are you in a D/s's relationship now, and for how long? I have been in two, not counting the bottoming I did early on. One was a voluntary submission relationship. I stayed a year. My current is an enslavement relationship, we just hit year 6.

RavenMuse -> RE: how long? (2/15/2006 12:49:02 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyElizabeth How many D/s dynamics have you been in? , what was the longest one?, are you in a D/s's relationship now, and for how long? I've been poly since my mid teens and almost all my relationships have had some D/s dynamic (I attract women with sub or 'bottom' tendencys) most of them with at least some BDSM element also. Primary relationships 4 years, 5 years and a 9.5 year (close to 6 years of it as married) all with some D/s but mainly in the bedroom. Not currently in any relationship since the marriage came to an end late last year.

LadyCompassion -> RE: how long? (2/15/2006 1:25:53 PM)
quote: How many D/s dynamics have you been in? , what was the longest one?, are you in a D/s's relationship now, and for how long? This is my first. We've been together for three years, but I have only known of his desires and engaged in this type of relationship for a year and a half.

proudsub -> RE: how long? (2/15/2006 2:17:59 PM)
quote: How many D/s dynamics have you been in? 4 if you count online. quote: what was the longest one?, 2 1/2 yrs. quote: are you in a D/s's relationship now, and for how long? Yes with Hubby for 2 1/2 yrs. in the context you mean here, but 37 years if you count all of our marriage in which I have been submissive, but didn't realize it had a name.

HouseofBear -> RE: how long? (2/15/2006 2:24:35 PM)
As I am poly, again it gives me several numbers, lol. However, Master Bear and I have been together about 8 wonderful years. Lady Ursa

bear372217355 -> RE: how long? (2/15/2006 3:00:43 PM)
Only one of any substance,13 years, 11 1/2 as a Dom the last 1 1/2 as a slave.

Littlepita -> RE: how long? (2/15/2006 4:11:50 PM)
This is my first one and hopefully my last. [:)]

Sirandlittle1 -> RE: how long? (2/15/2006 4:12:57 PM)
One, that is now D/s 24/7 and is 16 months. the rest was a learning curve, and more kink than power exchange. little1

DragonNphoenix -> RE: how long? (2/15/2006 7:24:32 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyElizabeth How many D/s dynamics have you been in? , what was the longest one?, are you in a D/s's relationship now, and for how long? I have been in 2 D/s relationships. The first one for about 3 years until he wanted a single relationship with the other slave. I have been with my Dragon for over a year. We were married on Dec 3, 2005... so I think that this is the last one I will be in. 1st Girl Phoenix

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