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bonding ceremony attire - 6/30/2009 6:10:11 AM

mistresinbondage

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Hello, I am getting ready to do a bonding ceremonywith my slave adn am wondering if anyone could help me with what I shoud wear. White of course is out of the question, and Im not the smallest type of body either more like a large going on m because of weight lost. What is the appropiate clothing for a ceremony like this? I have about 2 months to get everythign together as we will be having the ceremony at the club and then will be doing a private wedding with my kids and friends who have no clue I am into the lifestyle so there I can go vanilla.
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RE: bonding ceremony attire - 6/30/2009 7:59:26 AM

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Hi and congrats!!

This will sound trite, but wear what feels right to YOU. Only you can decide what is appropriate for YOUR ceremony. Maybe a corset and long skirt?

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RE: bonding ceremony attire - 6/30/2009 11:15:54 AM

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Congrats on the bonding ceremony, the wedding, and the weight loss.

I second what Greedy said...whatever you are comfortable in!!

ETA...here is a thought. How about a formal suit and a corset. You can wear the corset and skirt to the bonding ceremony, and the skirt, jacket and blouse to the wedding.

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RE: bonding ceremony attire - 6/30/2009 2:14:40 PM

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I make jewelery and collar attachments for ceremony..
check artisians on here..
and CONGRATS....yayyyyyyyyyyyyy

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RE: bonding ceremony attire - 6/30/2009 2:21:58 PM

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First of all, I would not look at white as having such a narrow meaning. There are a lot of ways to be pure. Pure of intent, love, and hope.

Second, as others have said, it is YOUR ceremony. By all means, dress as is acceptable to you and do not worry about the rest.

Third, consider what kind of atmosphere you plan to create. Your attire is going to be the center of focus, so it is crucial to the mood and level of formality of the event. I know this is less than helpful, but it is important for your attire to match both your personality and the "personality" of the occassion.

Congratulations!

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RE: bonding ceremony attire - 6/30/2009 5:37:37 PM

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I'm not an expert on such ceremonies, but I do believe that a lot of the details are left up to the choice of the participants. Also, I know that symbolism plays a major part. For these reasons, I would advise something significant to the relationship you are forming. Unfortunately, I can't be more specific than that. Everyone has given sound advice. Oh, and congratulations.

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RE: bonding ceremony attire - 6/30/2009 6:56:06 PM

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Oh, by the way, what type of bonding ceremony are you planning besides the collaring?

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