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What would you do? - 6/30/2009 12:06:18 PM   
Boy2feminise


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Status: offline 		Ive had a message from someone who has expressed an interest, not for themselves but for a Domme friend of theirs, and has also mentioned taking photographs, people taking photos of me in compromising situations makes me nervous.
I am kind of wary but interested, but its not exactly a Domme building up a relationship of trust with me.
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RE: What would you do? - 6/30/2009 12:07:56 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Boy2feminise

Ive had a message from someone who has expressed an interest, not for themselves but for a Domme friend of theirs, and has also mentioned taking photographs, people taking photos of me in compromising situations makes me nervous.


had to be your avatar pic that is getting to 'em.


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RE: What would you do? - 6/30/2009 12:11:16 PM   
Boy2feminise


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Status: offline 		I cannot help it if people fall instantly in love with me, we all have a cross to bear :-)
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RE: What would you do? - 6/30/2009 1:04:10 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Boy2feminise

Ive had a message from someone who has expressed an interest, not for themselves but for a Domme friend of theirs, and has also mentioned taking photographs, people taking photos of me in compromising situations makes me nervous.
I am kind of wary but interested, but its not exactly a Domme building up a relationship of trust with me.



And yet you have no problems showing your ass on a public website....interesting.

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RE: What would you do? - 6/30/2009 1:09:32 PM   
Boy2feminise


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Status: offline 		There is a slight diference I think but there you go.
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RE: What would you do? - 6/30/2009 1:11:48 PM   
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RE: What would you do? - 6/30/2009 1:12:45 PM   
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Status: offline 		If you keep this up, no one will want to talk to you.  You were actually having a conversation and taking advice for a while on another thread.  Now it seems as though you are incapable of being serious.

You are more likely to attract a partner if you can have a conversation without sounding like a dip.


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RE: What would you do? - 6/30/2009 1:14:34 PM   
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If you are cool with it and are aware of the risks, then go for it.  But I kind of agree, it's not exactly trust building.  Depends what you want from a relationship really.
 
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RE: What would you do? - 6/30/2009 1:22:35 PM   
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I shall beat myself.
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ORIGINAL: RedMagic1

If you keep this up, no one will want to talk to you.  You were actually having a conversation and taking advice for a while on another thread.  Now it seems as though you are incapable of being serious.

You are more likely to attract a partner if you can have a conversation without sounding like a dip.



Red...please don't talk him out of it!


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RE: What would you do? - 6/30/2009 1:22:53 PM   
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Status: offline 		I just thought it was someone looking to start an argument.Never get involved in arguments on forums is my policy.

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RE: What would you do? - 6/30/2009 3:21:36 PM   
alphamaleslil1


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Status: offline 		Blank stare. Followed by some blinking.

Now I will slowly exit this thread and never look back.

Who am I kidding, I love train wrecks.


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RE: What would you do? - 6/30/2009 6:52:48 PM   
Zechriel


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Status: offline 		Good evening!
Before meeting Daddy, pics were a "Hell NO". Not only cause of my body-after having UM's-but also for having those pics online or getting into the wrong hands. Yes, I am an overly paranoid person. But with Daddy, having known him for 14 months now of being together, I do let him take pics...but he can sure tell you that I do not like it and my first words are always, "NO!" and he goes."What was that? What did I hear??" Then I gotta pout and hide in his chest mumbling till he says, "That's what I THOUGHT." All this applies to vanilla pics as well-I hate pictures.

It goes to trusting the person and how you feel about it. I know many on here have no problem displaying themselves but you are young and hopefully will not bite you in the butt (pardon the pun) when you are older. If it is pics where you are not identifiable, like a body part close up, then maybe you will be okay with it. Like saying later-"That does not look like MY.....elbow" lol  But if you can tell that it is you, then I would wait until someone more trusting and deserving comes along. Then snap away. Good luck!
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not a chance - 6/30/2009 7:48:41 PM   
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Status: offline 		no trust,  no way.

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RE: not a chance - 6/30/2009 9:27:59 PM   
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Status: offline 		It may surprise you to learn this...but many male subs are desperate. And, as such, they are the most easily scammed on this site. Not all of them, but many of them. For example, someone could ask a male sub for some dirty photos. Hell, this person needn't even be a (insert choice of sex) Dominant, they could just pretend to have a really cute, totally interested friend who was dominant.

If it smells fishy, don't eat it. Even if you are really desperate.

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RE: What would you do? - 7/1/2009 3:48:49 AM   
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Status: offline 		Ok I have mixed emotions about this one--first of all honey if you are going to serve a Domina some time in your life, for gawds sakes, clean that bathroom--you sure can't serve Me if your own home is a wreck!
 
Now-- I do not, nor will I ever, serve as a reference, introduce someone to My Domina friends or act as a concierge---if one is a Dominant, come out of the closet and do your own bidding--otherwise, I smell something funny.
 
 

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RE: What would you do? - 7/1/2009 5:35:11 AM   
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Status: offline 		I would be aware of a lot of fishy stuff going on on some websites like this, just be careful and don't take anyone's word for anything unless you see it firsthand.

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RE: What would you do? - 7/1/2009 5:45:01 AM   
MasterKarly


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Status: offline 		Now if the OP were to talk to me I think I could get him looking like a convincing girl
I am sure I could teach him a thing or two about pain taking him to other places, I dunno there is something about him I bet he looks sweet in retraints.

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RE: What would you do? - 7/1/2009 9:09:46 AM   
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ORIGINAL: MasterKarly

Now if the OP were to talk to me I think I could get him looking like a convincing girl
I am sure I could teach him a thing or two about pain taking him to other places, I dunno there is something about him I bet he looks sweet in retraints.


If you two got together to do some S&M, I'd buy it!

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RE: What would you do? - 7/1/2009 10:00:51 AM   
Boy2feminise


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Status: offline 		Erm........O.K talk to me MasterKarly I am game.

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RE: What would you do? - 7/1/2009 10:02:49 AM   
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Status: offline 		Hey feminise don't worry mate I think you seem like a decent funny young man I think because this is a purely visual medium a lot of people get the wrong end of the stick.

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