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being struck - 2/15/2006 12:29:09 PM   
tendergirl


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Status: offline 		Hi everyone,

i am finding that i need a bit more intensity inside scenes with my Dom and i particularly enjoy being struck by his open hand but would like for Him to be even rougher, (closed hand beating, throwing me down hard, etc) whilst bound. Do any other subbies enjoy effectively being slightly (lol) assaulted, especially when helplessly bound?
i am a little embarrassed at this one.

How do you Doms feel if/when you really become physically aggressive with a fem/sub?

love from tendergirl (who is beginning to think she is really kinky now)
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RE: being struck - 2/15/2006 12:35:00 PM   
Elegant


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Status: offline 		I love deep impact play...hitting and kicking and punching. It's a primal thing for me and for Master but psychologically hard for many people to accept.

Deep impact play can also be much more dangerous than many other S/m techniques, especially so if the Top does not know how and where to strike and the emotional ways it can affect both the top and the bottom. Often Master's primal beast comes out in full force during a deep impact play session.

Master is teaching a class this weekend on this (HIT ME WITH YOUR BEST SHOT - DEEP IMPACT PLAY). Should be fun!

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RE: being struck - 2/15/2006 12:35:20 PM   
LuckyAlbatross


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quote:

ORIGINAL: tendergirl
Do any other subbies enjoy effectively being slightly (lol) assaulted, especially when helplessly bound?
i am a little embarrassed at this one.

The answer to any question that starts "Does anyone else....?" is always yes.

Look up the whole concept of "force play" and "primal play."

Yup, lots of us love raging intensity and being smacked around.


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RE: being struck - 2/15/2006 1:13:58 PM   
MistressOfGa


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Elegant

I love deep impact play...hitting and kicking and punching. It's a primal thing for me and for Master but psychologically hard for many people to accept.

Deep impact play can also be much more dangerous than many other S/m techniques, especially so if the Top does not know how and where to strike and the emotional ways it can affect both the top and the bottom. Often Master's primal beast comes out in full force during a deep impact play session.

Master is teaching a class this weekend on this (HIT ME WITH YOUR BEST SHOT - DEEP IMPACT PLAY). Should be fun!


Elegant, is this an open class? Where is it going to be, how to register? Will you please email specifics to me.

Thanks! :)

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RE: being struck - 2/15/2006 4:18:03 PM   
IrishMist


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Status: offline 		Hmmm I love good hard impact play of any kind, but I will admit to a certain deep fascination with being beaten in such a way. It is just such a huge turn on in all ways...pain wise, it's humilating, its degrading...extremely primative and basic.

Mmmmmmmmmmmmmm yummmmmmy

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RE: being struck - 2/15/2006 7:02:56 PM   
DragonNphoenix


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Status: offline 		I love it rough. My limit in this is death, but I think that would be everyones limit. My Dragon has not gotten to the closed fist yet... but I am eagerly waiting...

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RE: being struck - 2/15/2006 8:35:17 PM   
LuckyAlbatross


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ORIGINAL: DragonNphoenix

I love it rough. My limit in this is death, but I think that would be everyones limit. My Dragon has not gotten to the closed fist yet... but I am eagerly waiting...

1st Girl Phoenix

Death is hardly a limit for me, as well as for many others. I'd die for people in this world, whether I was owned or not.

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RE: being struck - 2/15/2006 9:08:05 PM   
ownedgirlie


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Status: offline 		Yes i love being struck. A hard back hand across the face will send me reeling. A closed fisted punch has not been in our dynamic. i am not sure it ever will be.

As for rough, it is very "place-putting" for me, as i like to call it. i love to feel his power over me. And when he is verbal about it too? i am gone.

Death is not a hard limit for me. However, it is for him. As he has often said, "What would I want with a dead slave?". But he does test my trust with his daggar at times....but that's a whole different topic!

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RE: being struck - 2/15/2006 9:12:38 PM   
foxglove716


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Status: offline 		dont be embarassed, its very common for subs to want more and more...and more. If you want things a little rougher, try telling him something like "remember last night when you really gave it to me upside the head? That was grrreat! *drool*) (drooling optional :P) I know that wasnt your original question, but a few kind words never hurt!

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RE: being struck - 2/16/2006 1:51:18 PM   
slavejali


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Status: offline 		I love raw primal aggression as foreplay, during play and after play. Yummy! It makes those tender "moments" even more special.


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RE: being struck - 2/20/2006 4:01:10 AM   
cavallopazzo


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Status: offline 		Well, sweet tender nothing in this world is completely black or white. there are many ways to reach pleasure. One of this can be resist to pain and feeling stronger for that. Another one can be let the emotions go free without inibitions. "Open the doors of perception" and let perception to drive our actions.

more than the way you reach pleasure, the important is to reach it

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RE: being struck - 2/20/2006 4:39:42 AM   
slaveladyj


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Status: offline 		While I wouldn't mind being slapped around, I'm not sure about being punched, kicked and just plain having the crap kicked out of me. My hesitation may come from the years in a vanilla but very abusive relationship with the ex. For intense physical beatings like that, I would really have to learn to trust and understand that it isn't abuse for abuse sake.

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RE: being struck - 2/20/2006 5:41:48 AM   
MHOO314


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Status: offline 		This is a new area for Me personally, having grown up as a child who was victim to face slapping on a regular basis, it was off limits for Me---yet it is something that has been discussed with the boy--I obviously have grown past My initial dislike and feel I can move ahead-( and I want to add this )--problem is, I don't have any way to practice---and I understand a poorly placed slap can cause ear damage---

<not trying to steal the thread--but looking for suggestions to practice>

< Message edited by MHOO314 -- 2/20/2006 5:58:55 AM >

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RE: being struck - 2/20/2006 6:12:31 AM   
cavallopazzo


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Status: offline 		For SlaveladyJ:

Of course you're right I agree with you 100%!. I consider bondage, spanking and BDSM sexual GAMES, where both the partner are satisfied of the game, and of course there are limit. the limit is

1) personal good sense

2) respect of the agreement taken before start the game

3) sensibility. if you feel that something hurts too much you must stop it, even if it was in the agreement.

I don't understand violent BDSM, I can't see nothing sexy in broken bones etc. But I find very sexy a nice bottom spanked that became red

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RE: being struck - 2/20/2006 6:59:26 AM   
IrishMist


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quote:

I don't understand violent BDSM, I can't see nothing sexy in broken bones etc.


You can be violent without breaking bones, or causing blood

There were times where I was beaten to a pulp, and yet, no broken bones, no blood...just those lovely bruises and the pleasure that is associated with them :)

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RE: being struck - 2/20/2006 8:23:11 AM   
ownedgirlie


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quote:

ORIGINAL: MHOO314

This is a new area for Me personally, having grown up as a child who was victim to face slapping on a regular basis, it was off limits for Me---yet it is something that has been discussed with the boy--I obviously have grown past My initial dislike and feel I can move ahead-( and I want to add this )--problem is, I don't have any way to practice---and I understand a poorly placed slap can cause ear damage---

<not trying to steal the thread--but looking for suggestions to practice>


i understand the sentiment about growing up in that sort of environment. i did, too. Belt whippingss and face slapping were common practices. It is amazing now, to receive such from my Master. It has allowed me to face past demons head-on, and look at them, and overcome them. The big difference in it all is that Master is safe. my childhood home was not. Master isn't out to hurt me. The parents were. Master is trusted. Parents came from a place of violence. Master comes from a place of care. The parents could not be trusted. Master is fully trusted. When i remember whose hand is doing the work, it turns everything around. It has made me stronger to receive this treatment from him, because it moved me beyond the fears that were instilled in me as a child.

As for practicing...hmm...Find someone who really irritates you and...... (lol)

(edited to add a line that was somehow deleted)

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RE: being struck - 2/20/2006 8:36:57 AM   
MHOO314


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Status: offline 		Thank you so much for sharing--I admire you and Master---now if I can only find someone to practice with--- I figured out I could use My daughter's life size beanie bear---stand him up, mark the zone and practice away--of course people now know Im nuts---LOL

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RE: being struck - 2/20/2006 9:31:49 AM   
ownedgirlie


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Status: offline 		lol we're all nuts. You'd be surprised at the things i do to/by myself in preparation for him....

One time i heard a dom talking about what he was doing to his girl...with a ceiling eye hook, chains, a spreader bar, etc. she sounded tressed up like a picnic ham to me. i went home and tried to get into the position he was talking about. It reminded me of some excrutiating yoga moves. If anyone had seen me, standing in front of the mirror trying to assume that position, they surely would have wondered...LOL

i think there should be a yoga for bondage though, don't you? ~ grin ~

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RE: being struck - 2/20/2006 10:30:55 AM   
MHOO314


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ORIGINAL: ownedgirlie

lol we're all nuts. You'd be surprised at the things i do to/by myself in preparation for
i think there should be a yoga for bondage though, don't you? ~ grin ~



ROTFLMAO!! that is too funny!

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RE: being struck - 2/20/2006 10:48:57 AM   
kyraofMists


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ORIGINAL: Elegant

I love deep impact play...hitting and kicking and punching. It's a primal thing for me and for Master but psychologically hard for many people to accept.

Deep impact play can also be much more dangerous than many other S/m techniques, especially so if the Top does not know how and where to strike and the emotional ways it can affect both the top and the bottom. Often Master's primal beast comes out in full force during a deep impact play session.

Master is teaching a class this weekend on this (HIT ME WITH YOUR BEST SHOT - DEEP IMPACT PLAY). Should be fun!



I wish I was able to see that class. Deep impact play is a favorite of mine, but my Lord has to be prepared for some reciprocal impacts... I like to fight back.

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