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Phantom1017 -> Limits Lists (2/15/2006 12:43:08 PM)

I'm not sure of the name of the item – I only know I have an incorrect name that probably describes what I'm looking for.

Where can I find an online checklist of activities that can be rated as hard limits, willing-to-try, and desired activities to do to one another in a BDSM relationship?




LuckyAlbatross -> RE: Limits Lists (2/15/2006 12:44:08 PM)

It's most commonly known as the "BDSM Checklist"

Checklist for Masters?

Contracts, again...




BitaTruble -> RE: Limits Lists (2/15/2006 12:45:58 PM)

Just google 'BDSM checklist' and you'll find several of them from which to choose.

Celeste




SirKenin -> RE: Limits Lists (2/15/2006 1:55:50 PM)

There is a really good one found through a link at http://www.castlerealm.com/ There is a guy who actually created a very thorough one for a book he wrote and he claims to own the sole copyrights.

http://www.bdsm-education.com/checklist.html

There is another one here:

http://ms.ha.md.us/~tammad/over21/bondage/sub-checklist.html




Petruchio -> RE: Limits Lists (2/15/2006 9:24:26 PM)

quote:

Just google 'BDSM checklist' and you'll find several of them from which to choose.


Or just check BitaTruble's limits… Oof-da, there aren't any!





BitaTruble -> RE: Limits Lists (2/15/2006 10:39:21 PM)

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Or just check BitaTruble's limits… Oof-da, there aren't any!


There are, too! There are .. um, two. ::chuckles:: But, I'm gonna qualify that and say it's because they're two of the limits Himself has as well.. and the diaper one.. that's debatable since I.. um.. n/m.. that would be way TMI. lol

Celeste




KnightofMists -> RE: Limits Lists (2/16/2006 2:57:34 AM)

Make your own... It's all good to look at the different checklists. but at the end you should beable to make your own. As a Top, I have mine one for a female bottom and one for a male bottom.

Currently I have six groupings. Sex play, Bondage play, Bondage Toys, Sado-Maso, Fetish, Role-Play

for each item I ask 7 basic questions

Done it - yes or no
Want it - yes or no
Rated Want - Scale 1 to 5
Fear Level - Scale 1 to 5
Humilation level - Scale 1 to 5
Limit Play - Yes or No
Experience - never done it, Rarely, Occassionally, and Frequently done it


the checklist itself is only a basis to for negotiation on what will occur in a play or not occur. I would also be concerned with Health issues and BDSM experiences.




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