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SylvereApLeanan -> RE: How to find a Mistress for me (female) (7/4/2009 8:48:49 AM)
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Update it again. Your profile says nothing about you other than you don't really know what you want beyond a XX chromosome. If I got an email from someone with as barren a profile as yours (and I have) I'd hit Delete and never bother to reply.
Who are you as a person? What hobbies do you enjoy? What sort of music do you like? What sort of relationship do you seek -- 24/7 TPE, casual weekend play, online only? Are you service oriented or are you only interested in kinky sex? Do you expect monogamy or are you open to a polyamorous relationship? Are you married and looking for a Dominant on the side? Do you have offspring who live with you? I always read profiles from people who contact me to find out this type of information. If I see something that makes me think we won't be compatible, then I'll send a "thanks, but no thanks" message.
Since you don't have a photo in your profile, I hope you're sending one with your intro message. I don't respond to messages without face photos. If someone isn't "out" enough to post a photo or at least send one with the initial contact, that person isn't going to be compatible with me. Plus, a photo will tell me whether or not I'm likely to be attracted to a potential sub. For me, physical attraction is important. I don't need to see nudes, but a good smile and pretty eyes are a big bonus. I'm sure other Dominants will be interested in what you look like too, especially if they have a photo on their profiles.
Last, but not least, limit your search to lesbian or bisexual Dominants. With the bisexual women, you'll need to read profiles to see whether they're looking for men, women, or both. The lesbians will, of course, only be interested in women. However, you'll need to check to see if they're willing to consider a bisexual sub. Some lesbians won't have anything to go with a bi woman.
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