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Sub feelings - 7/4/2009 2:34:24 PM

SubOfPrincess

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Hello all, i am a Sub and we curently transformed our relationship with my girlfriend to BDSM relationship where i am the submissive slave,pet and she is my Mistress- Princess. I feel deep in my hearth that i am a borned slave and that i am finally fullfilling my life destiny. I would like to ask you couple of questions.
Now i always miss her when i am not with her. A lot more like i used to before. I always daydream about Her torturing,humilliating and punishing me. Is it normal or i am really addicted to this ? I just feel now when i am her Sub that i am really complete and fullfilled but my strong desires are owerhelming me. I really crave BDSM practics all the time. I know i should serve her and that it is not about me satisfying my desires. I am frustrated even more maybe also because i am now not allowed to cum just when she allows me. Can you also give us some good advices for a start of a 24/7 BDSM relationship ? Thanks for your feedbacks Sub and Princess

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RE: Sub feelings - 7/4/2009 2:52:12 PM

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Terence McKenna once said that what we call "romantic love" has many of the characteristics of addiction. Inability to concentrate on anything else, elevated heart rate, loss of appetite or weight, and so forth.

Addiction is negative because it is destructive. It destroys your body, your friendships, your mind and soul. Do you believe your relationship with your princess is building you up, or destroying you? Answer my question, and you will have an answer to your own.

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RE: Sub feelings - 7/4/2009 3:20:16 PM

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thank you very much for your post Redmagic1. It was just the first reply but really helpfull . It helped me to realize that i am experiecing romantic love and my answer is that she is building me up and i feel satisfied and fullfilled so everything is great. just need to control myself not to explode from that strong desire:)) realy thank you for your feedback.

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RE: Sub feelings - 7/4/2009 4:05:05 PM

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Very FR
No it ain't normal.
Non of this is normal.
This is a site for the unnormal.
Phew feel so much better for that

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RE: Sub feelings - 7/4/2009 5:31:57 PM

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You are experiencing the honeymoon phase of your new relationship, where its all about the two of you, and block out the world. And its a lovely phase.

Just remember that it will wear off sooner or later and you will be settling into the (slightly) more realistic love phase. If the two of you are living together, there is a good chance it will wear off in about 6 months or so. And that isn't a bad thing. For one thing, your friends will realise that you haven't actually lost your mind!
Think back to the head-over-heels phase of a new relationship - that is what you are experiencing.

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RE: Sub feelings - 7/5/2009 2:55:40 PM

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ORIGINAL: RedMagic1

Terence McKenna once said that what we call "romantic love" has many of the characteristics of addiction. Inability to concentrate on anything else, elevated heart rate, loss of appetite or weight, and so forth.

Addiction is negative because it is destructive. It destroys your body, your friendships, your mind and soul. Do you believe your relationship with your princess is building you up, or destroying you? Answer my question, and you will have an answer to your own.

Wow.

Incredible response.

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RE: Sub feelings - 7/5/2009 4:28:13 PM

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I am addicted to my Master aswell...because He makes me feel so damn good... but He won't always...there are other things to do like the dishes and book keeping and stuff...
make a rota and rules and little rituals that'll keep you busy until she'll wanna play with ya...serve her as well as you can to offset your needy-ness
enjoy

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