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Role Play and BDSM....Calling for input from experience... - 2/16/2006 9:27:29 AM

ProtagonistLily

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Hi everyone,

Hope your Valentine's Day was filled with delightfully kinky moments.

This is a 'reach out' post of sorts. I'm currently working on a presentation for a workshop on Role Play in BDSM. I've got ooddles of information and a fair amount of direct experience with it. However, I'm appealing to you for a couple of things.

I would like folks who are real time, who have actively explored Role Play scenerios to talk a little bit about the kinds of things they have done. My reason for this is, that many of us probably have certain things that we like to do, or gravitate toward from a RP perspective. I want to make sure I'm not forgetting stuff in the examples that though may not be something that I engage in, are things that others engage in.

I think gender roles play a lot in this as well. I'm always thinking in terms of myself as a female submissive. What kinds of things to male submissives do? What do the Femme Dommes and Male Doms do?

I thank you in advance for your participation. It is my hope that this thread stays on topic and does not digress into a theoretical discussion nor becomes finger-pointing session over who's Role Play is 'legitimate'. Let's just have some fun, share our experiences, and help out a friend.

Also, any Kinky RP links anyone has to offer would be greatly appreciated.

Thanks,
Kassie

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RE: Role Play and BDSM....Calling for input from experi... - 2/16/2006 9:38:11 AM

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I usually think of cabana boy/chauffer/boytoy for a bored house wife/diva.

One great rp fantasy I heard was a guy going into a record store and seeing this hot goth chick there over a period of a few months. Eventually they talk and she basically takes him back and seduces him, with a lot of humiliation involved.

The cool thing about RP for me is that it lets you embody this one little ideal slice of a role for awhile without all the other ruckus and gray area messiness.

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RE: Role Play and BDSM....Calling for input from experi... - 2/17/2006 1:31:22 AM

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I've dated several teachers, for some reason, and they adapt easily to rôle playing. Variously, we've done the gentelmen bandit, the biker thing, cowboy, master of the French maid, boss and secretary, and a number of others. I've mentioned on here about using power tools for fun and profit.

I'm flexible, non-judgmental, and easy to talk to, so I've been privileged to have been allowed into secret inner worlds. One girl wanted to be splattered with mud, a'la Belle du Jour.

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RE: Role Play and BDSM....Calling for input from experi... - 2/17/2006 4:03:16 AM

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I love roleplaying and have done it for years. I've been into the scene since I was 19 years old so its been awhile.

I am very particular about my roleplays, I take alot of time planning and purchasing costumes/props for them. My current BF had never roleplayed before and has found that he absolutely loves it.

What we have done is we both sat down and made up a list of both or our fantasies, because even though I am the Domme, his fantasies interest me as well. After we made up our list we compared them to see which ones we had in common. I have that list and when I'm ready to roleplay I pick from it and get the items together and plan the scene out in my head. Now I don't tell him what we are playing, I just tell him what he will need to bring/purchase for it. I like the element of surprise, which was something we had to work on as he is quite nosy.

To date we've done School Teacher/student, in this he was a student who was caught exposing his gentials to several female teachers/students and he was sent to the administrator's office for discipline

I once picked him up at the train station in a policewoman's uniform and handcuffed him, walked him to my car and made him sit in the back as I drove us to a motel for his *interrogation*, we played out Daddy/Daughter with a twist, after she was found hiding a dildo in her room she was disciplined and forced to please Daddy, but after she was done she got loose from the restraints and Daddy ended up in them getting his ass spanked and forced to serve his little girl

I love the creativity of roleplay as its always something knew and you never totally know what will happen. Sometimes they are rather funny, sometimes they can be very intense it just depends upon the fantasy its based upon. It allows the couple to be someone else for awhile and to actually live their fantasy in a safe, consensual way.

~Alexa

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RE: Role Play and BDSM....Calling for input from experi... - 2/25/2006 11:41:05 AM

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i can't say i'm experienced enough but i was thinking.. mad scientist doing experiment on his female coleague (with glasses). first she was unaware till everthing happens all of a sudden without warning, the professor gone mad because the formula he invented and locks the girl in the lab. then he tested it on the girl and turning the shy girl into a horny sex maniac. sort of a jekyll and hyde thing. ... what was i'm thinking? too silly isn't ...i guess this is what happens when i can't sleep....

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RE: Role Play and BDSM....Calling for input from experi... - 2/25/2006 3:13:48 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: LuckyAlbatross

I usually think of cabana boy/chauffer/boytoy for a bored house wife/diva.

One great rp fantasy I heard was a guy going into a record store and seeing this hot goth chick there over a period of a few months. Eventually they talk and she basically takes him back and seduces him, with a lot of humiliation involved.

The cool thing about RP for me is that it lets you embody this one little ideal slice of a role for awhile without all the other ruckus and gray area messiness.

YA, what she said!

As a male slaves perspective or experience. I do what I'm asked to do. But the rp scenes we've done together were,

~Rape reversed, which is when I try to attack mi'Lady after pretending to break in to our house, then she gets the better of me and does all sorts of nasty mean things to me. I like that one.
~Soldier being interogated by a female nazi ss officer(ya I know it's a stretch,but it so much fun). This one makes great use of the crop and steel cuffs.
~The hot nun is a good one. Having gone to roman catholic school, this is one of my faves. Hmmmmm, pointer stick/cane, the rosery used to tie my hands together. How blasfimous. I love it.

Does that help at all?

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RE: Role Play and BDSM....Calling for input from experi... - 2/25/2006 3:18:52 PM

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Kinda responding to the topic..with no advice..just a comment

Damn i have a really hard time with roleplay kinda scenario's, no clue why.

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RE: Role Play and BDSM....Calling for input from experi... - 2/25/2006 5:18:18 PM

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I love mixing roleplay in the D/s dynamic. With 2 (or more) imaginative minds the possibilities are endless.

So far I've done Teacher and student (this seems to be very popular with the male submissives), Employer/Employee, Agent/model, Nurse/Patient, and an awesome interrogation scene in a roleplay room at the local dungeon with another Fem Switch helping me Top and a male submissive.

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RE: Role Play and BDSM....Calling for input from experi... - 2/25/2006 5:33:23 PM

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I love roleplay. I mean, I luurrrve roleplay. I like to cover my face in lipstick and eyeshadow and whore it up for the night. I like to put on conservative clothes and glasses and go to the library and read while Sir is reading across the table from me, he looks up every once in awhile to give me a menacing look and makes me uncomfortable. I like to go to the high school on weekends and pretending to be a school girl walking home while Sir drives slowly behind me in his car. I like to sit by Sir in a dark movie theatre and pretend we are strangers and tense up when he puts his hand on my bare leg.

Costumes, scripts even, the more dramatic the better!

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