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Gag reflex???? - 7/5/2009 1:33:22 PM

razon

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Ok, I have an assignment, I need to figure out how to beat my gag reflex within a month. I have been away from my dom for three months and I return to him in a month, he gave me the task of beating my own gag reflex or at least learning how to eventually get rid of it. So, I am asking all of you - how do you relax enough to be able to deep throat or what positions are best? Anything that will help basically!

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RE: Gag reflex???? - 7/5/2009 2:22:20 PM

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There have been very informative threads on this...
I own a soft silicon dong, if i relax and tilt my head back i can slide it in untill i hit the back of my throat...then i have to aim it slightly sort of downwards and i can slowly push it deeper...i can not breath at this point anymore...then i gag the thing back out and when that happens i make a lot of slime in my mouth and throat and that helps when i do a second attempt and i find i can push it slightly deeper...i find that if i am sexually aroused i can shuf the dong in very deep indeed without too much gagging
hope that is of some use

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RE: Gag reflex???? - 7/5/2009 2:25:14 PM

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Practice, practice, practice.

Get a dildo, a long thin one, and practice using it.
Try to put it in your mouth and then swallow it like you would with food, of course meanwhile holding the end.
Once it's in your throat, try to hold it there, perfectly still, as long as possible.
The soon you panic or gag, take it out, breath and try again.
Don't try to force holding it down while you are gaging, it will only make it harder because your body will link swallowing a cock with 'bad things happening'.

Once you are comfortable doing this, try to take out and immediately put it back in. You will notice that you cannot breath while you have a cock down your throat, because your windpipe is blocked off. You'll thus have to learn to take short breaths through your nose as soon as the cock is out your throat again. You need to learn to find a rythme in doing this, or else you'll quickly run out of air when you are actually deep throating for real.
You can practice going longer times without air by doing exercises.
First, breath in and our deeply while relaxed for a minute and hold your breath for 10 seconds. Then breath for a minute again and hold your breath for 20 seconds. Breath again for a minute and add 10 seconds to holding your breath. Use steps of 5 seconds if you need to or if it starts to get too hard. Never breath for less then a minute in between, and add 30 seconds for every 30 seconds of holding your breath. (So between 10 and 30 seconds of holding it, you breath a minute, between 30 and 60 seconds of holding it, breath a minute and a half and so on) Make sure to take SLOW deep relaxed breaths in between, do not pant, even if you feel like it. Do this exercise several times a day, it will make you able to control your breather better and make you take longer before you run out of air. You should be able to fairly easily get up to a minute and a half of holding your breath. Do not EVER go over 2 minute without somebody else being in the room.

Also, the best position to practice is while laying down with your head held backwards and your neck stretched out. Either on your back or on your belly.
With your neck stretched, a cock will 'fit' better and will not hit the back of your throat, thus triggering your gag reflex less.
This is also the easiest position to start deepthroating with your Master and, depending on the length of his cock, the only way you might be able to swallow the whole thing till you can wrap your lips at the base, touching his belly.

If his cock is not too long, you'll be able to deep throat without stretching your neck and get it all in and thus be able to move your head up and down while deep throating, which of course you cannot do while laying down with your neck stretched.

Good luck,

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RE: Gag reflex???? - 7/5/2009 4:10:04 PM

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If you're someone who drinks alcohol (I apologize if you are not) I have found that taking a shot or two beforehand tends to help with my gag reflex. Alcohol is a natural muscle relaxant and I've found that it keeps the muscles at the back of my throat from clenching and making it easier to choke.

Also, you could try a couple sprays of Chloraseptic or other type of numbing throat spray. If your throat is numb, the gag reflex can often be fooled into thinking there's nothing there to gag on.

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RE: Gag reflex???? - 7/5/2009 4:29:54 PM

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http://www.collarchat.com/m_2001235/mpage_1/key_blow%252Cjob/tm.htm#2002518

try there, might help

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RE: Gag reflex???? - 7/5/2009 9:44:16 PM

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haha that is awesome - i am totally going to mention this to him! lol thanks!

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RE: Gag reflex???? - 7/5/2009 10:39:22 PM

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All this advice is really good, and I will add this: I did three times a day, one hour each time, practice sessions with a dildo. It took me a couple weeks to get 100% past the gag reflex.

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RE: Gag reflex???? - 7/6/2009 12:04:08 PM

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I can't speak for your dom, but from my point of view, "losing" your gag reflex would take all the fun out of the situation. I think what you are looking for is more along the lines of controlling or "enduring" your gag reflex.

You aren't, most likely, going to be able to just "open your throat and let it in", but you can learn to take advantage of the way your body works.

Firstly, the angle is important, you need to tilt your head back and align your mouth with your throat unless your guy has an extreme downward bend to his cock. Some women like to do this lying on their back with their head hanging off the bed or something, but often the trouble with this is that the testicles can then block the nostrils as well.

Secondly, think about the fact that when you eat, food and beverage goes down your throat without (usually!) choking you. When you are swallowing, your throat and trachea move in order to accommodate the passage of solids, and the nerves that provoke the gag reflex are subdued. If you swallow his cock, instead of receiving it passively, you take advantage of this biology. Slightly extend your tongue under him and draw your tongue and his cock in as you swallow.

Thirdly, know your limits. You can only hold your breath for a few minutes and that's with practice. In the heat of a scene 45 seconds is probably a stretch goal. Even if you learn to mitigate your gag reflex, you will no doubt meet a limit with that which may be even shorter. You can physically take any length of cock down your throat, but the hows and whens and preparation are going to be something you have to discover about yourself. Also please keep in mind that this is a form of breath play, and all the appropriate safety knowledge and precautions apply.

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