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CallaFirestormBW -> RE: The Dominant Female and the Strap-on (7/12/2009 9:44:21 AM)

Well, I would like to thank everyone who has responded, and the thread has certainly given me some thought-seeds.

After a great deal of consideration, I think that I definitely understand the mindset better, but it's also become more apparent to me that I'm not in the pro-strap-on pool. I think that, for me, it comes down to a feeling that I get from a strap-on, in particular, that, in order to dominate, or be sexual, or whatever, that leaves me with the 'flavor' in my mind of having to have turned myself into an 'imitation man'... which seems, somehow, to discount the capacity and adequacy of who I am and the skills I have with the body I already possess.

The thing is, it isn't rational, because I still occasionally enjoy vibrators and insertables... but it's specifically the issue of the harness and strapping on the false 'penis' that really confused me (not so much now) and which I've come to understand just isn't one of my 'things'. To me, somehow, in a very visceral and irrational way, it feels like a lie. Now that I understand how and why many dominant women enjoy them, I feel more certain in saying that this isn't going to be an area where I am going to be interested in exploring. I think I'll stick to my needles.

Dame Calla



LadyPact -> RE: The Dominant Female and the Strap-on (7/12/2009 11:11:51 AM)

Thanks for coming back to express that, Calla.  It's another way to see that we all enjoy our own little things.  Some of them we'll have in common and some of them we won't.

Enjoy your day.



stripmymanhood -> RE: The Dominant Female and the Strap-on (7/12/2009 2:42:56 PM)

haven't you been reading PeonForHer?...it's called our ass

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ORIGINAL: PeonForHer

FR

Shame there's no such thing as a strap-on vagina for men.   That might be worth a try.




PeonForHer -> RE: The Dominant Female and the Strap-on (7/12/2009 3:26:51 PM)

DemonKia and others have kindly rendered me cognisant of that fact, SMM.



DemonKia -> RE: The Dominant Female and the Strap-on (7/12/2009 3:38:31 PM)

LOL

Okay, since then I've been having this fleeting fancy of dressing you, Peon, in a 'fat chick suit' (ya know, like they use in theater & movies, to make your body look like a fat chicks), all tricked out in matronly drag, & then parading you about in public . . .. With me in boy-drag (a sportin' suit), & with the suitable faux genitalia for each of us strapped on underneath . . . . . & for some inexplicable reason I keep seeing a merkin on your fake fixings . . . . lol & [8D]



[sm=alien.gif] [sm=mrpuffy.gif]



LadyPact -> RE: The Dominant Female and the Strap-on (7/12/2009 3:45:48 PM)

Aw, Kia, come on?  Don't you think he'd look good bent over just as he is?



DemonKia -> RE: The Dominant Female and the Strap-on (7/12/2009 4:00:37 PM)

LOL.

LP, while what you say is true, I just kept gettin' the urge to share this image. Especially in light of that whole 'public display' thread . . . . .

[:D]



LadyPact -> RE: The Dominant Female and the Strap-on (7/12/2009 4:18:08 PM)

Can't we do both?



LotusSong -> RE: The Dominant Female and the Strap-on (7/12/2009 4:28:29 PM)


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ORIGINAL: CatdeMedici

I do not find the need for a false male appendage to validate the fact that I am in charge--for I am a Woman in charge, holding no scepter, nor no need of one, not a woman with a glass dildo--but a woman in charge on Her own.


[sm=agree.gif] When someone is moved to kiss your feet without being "ordered".. that's power to me.

I feel that men think women need to be masculinized to be dominant.. I say..if you want a dick- submit to a male Dom. Unless we have a vibe built in and hitting the right spot, we don't feel a thing.



PeonForHer -> RE: The Dominant Female and the Strap-on (7/12/2009 4:44:16 PM)

I feel that men think women need to be masculinized to be dominant
 
Which men?  Why do you think that?  This thread's been mostly about women's like or dislike of strap-ons.  (Mostly the former, from what I've seen.)



DemonKia -> RE: The Dominant Female and the Strap-on (7/12/2009 5:01:09 PM)

*smirkles*

Sure, LP. The scenario I described is feeling more foreplay-ish, warm up, that kinda thing . .. .. .

& there's plenty of room in the fancy to make use of the faux-gina & the built-in boy-cunt later, lol . .. . . In private . . . . . .

quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyPact

Can't we do both?




PeonForHer -> RE: The Dominant Female and the Strap-on (7/12/2009 5:15:45 PM)

I just kept gettin' the urge to share this image.

Kia, what are you trying to do to us?  One of your images is about a thousand times more potent than the average tab of LSD. 



DemonKia -> RE: The Dominant Female and the Strap-on (7/12/2009 6:20:37 PM)

Awwwww, Peon, you say the nicest things . . . . . . . [:D]

& to think, I've never yet posted any of my actual fictions here, just some random musings . . ...

lol

You'd just look so adorable done up in a Mrs Doubtfire kinda get-up, dancing around & singing in an old-lady voice . . . . .

[8D]



PeonForHer -> RE: The Dominant Female and the Strap-on (7/12/2009 6:34:15 PM)

You'd just look so adorable done up in a Mrs Doubtfire kinda get-up, dancing around & singing in an old-lady voice . . . . .
 
Gah!  Even I would get nightmares from that, never mind anyone else seeing me!  Mind, though I say it myself, I'm pretty good at doing the Evil Emperor in Star Wars - I've got the malevolent lisp thing off perfectly.  I'm sure the back of the evil black cloak could have a hole cut in it for easy entry of the strap-on variety. 

Gawd.  Now there's something you don't see every day.  A femdom taking the Evil Emperor with a strap-on.  'Yyyyyessss, Jedi. I feel the power of the Dark Side!"







DemonKia -> RE: The Dominant Female and the Strap-on (7/12/2009 7:56:15 PM)

Only if I can pretend to be Qui-Gon Jinn, lol . . . . .

But none of that takes that original image outta my head . . . . . [:D]



DavanKael -> RE: The Dominant Female and the Strap-on (7/12/2009 8:47:27 PM)

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ORIGINAL: LadyPact
Aw, Kia, come on?  Don't you think he'd look good bent over just as he is?


Even though I wasn't the person queried, I wish to respond to that question with a rousing: 'Oh, hell yeah!' 
  Davan
(Who now needs a little time to herself as she ponders the afore-mentioned image while adding some claw-marks down that back)



LotusSong -> RE: The Dominant Female and the Strap-on (7/13/2009 8:30:22 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: PeonForHer

I feel that men think women need to be masculinized to be dominant
 
Which men?  Why do you think that? 


It's what they can relate to.



coopcooper -> RE: The Dominant Female and the Strap-on (7/15/2009 3:18:14 AM)

To be honest, I've never played around with strap-ons.

But for me, as I enjoy play with butt plugs, it is just the next step. Of course if/when that happens I may not like it, but I would like to think it would be like butt plug play but with a partner in control.

I guess the other aspect that I enjoy the thought of, is pleasuring a partner or Mistress, without being allowed to have any sexual penetration(I guess a little humiliation in that possibly).

Both of these thing are very appealing to me, so to answer your question...that is the appeal.
for me at least.



AngelicaGoddess -> RE: The Dominant Female and the Strap-on (7/15/2009 4:21:57 AM)

I can't speak for everybody else, but in my case it's the role reversal, the fact that I can make him "my bitch", I penetrate him while having my hands free and he's the one who "takes it".

Possibly more than anything it's the power exchange that takes place, and it's nice to taunt him that my strapon won't go limp.

Not that I'm against hand held dildos, but it's just different, plus I like the fact that I can change sizes [8D]



Politesub53 -> RE: The Dominant Female and the Strap-on (7/15/2009 3:28:27 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: LotusSong

I feel that men think women need to be masculinized to be dominant..


Heavens no, the more feminine the better the power exchange. Those ladies that speak of only wanting to dominate masculine men know exactly what I mean.



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