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whitecherry -> how to make a sub squrit? (7/8/2009 9:33:40 AM)
iam 20 yrs old and cant squirt my dom has had many try and do diff thing tieing me down forceing me to but i just can i tell them to stop i scream it hurts or it too much for me to handel please can a dom help me out here and tell me the best way to make me squirt .

RedMagic1 -> RE: how to make a sub squrit? (7/8/2009 9:44:39 AM)
Many women can't squirt. You might not be physically able to. I would suggest that you and your dom set a different objective.

ranja -> RE: how to make a sub squrit? (7/8/2009 9:54:13 AM)
It has to do with stimulating certain glands in the soft fleshy part between your inner and outer lips. If he makes you hurt it will never happen... he has to make you very very aroused and if you start feeling that you have to pee and you go with the feeling then you might squirt, it feels a bit like bearing down and peeing but it is different... if you get scared about that you might pee then the feeling will go away again... Some people do not believe that squirting is possible at all, for anyone ever...

onlyfreelycaged -> RE: how to make a sub squrit? (7/8/2009 9:59:13 AM)
I did that one time. It only happens if you relax, and enjoy what's happening.. o, you have to really enjoy it.

RedMagic1 -> RE: how to make a sub squrit? (7/8/2009 10:00:46 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: ranja Some people do not believe that squirting is possible at all, for anyone ever... I've seen it, made it happen, and tasted it. So it is possible for some women, but according to this article, less than 50% of women have ever done it. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Female_ejaculation

kuriouswitch -> RE: how to make a sub squrit? (7/8/2009 10:10:20 AM)
when you have to squirt, you have to A) really enjoy what's happening, giving your full passion and trust and B) just let yourself go. Squirting feels like you have to pee but when you press down it actually comes out a bit lower than your uretha. I finally learned a few months ago how to squirt, you do have to be able to hit the "g" spot, n myself it's in a few inches and up. maybe next time you try if you feel the need to urinate during sex try pressing down and see if you squirt, if you pee the bed just try again.

GYPZYQUEEN -> RE: how to make a sub squrit? (7/8/2009 10:10:42 AM)
OP:: I have had this happen and seen it BUT it is usually not the woman who CAN'T it is an inept partner trying to MAKE her...kind of like a preforming seal thing.. Once a woman feels the pressure is on her to squirt for viewing pleasure much of her arousal to do so is gone. Its like saying to a guy.." Get a hard on now" When a woman is very aroused the G-Spot can be stimulated in a cicular or come hither motion..like one to 3 fingers motioning someone to come here.. Also hard thrusting by penis..toy or fingers may do it.. I do know that the fuller the vagina the more likely it is to happen therefore fisting..(be careful) .....can also do it..and the vagina being full makes for a powerful force for the propulsion of the ejaculate. I have also found with women partners that if they are on their hands and knees and I stimulate from the back it is much better..squirt wise. May I suggest that your DOM study some websites and pics of women's anatomy...?? THis should NOT hurt...!! and you can learn about your body too...by research and exploring your self. GQ

RedMagic1 -> RE: how to make a sub squrit? (7/8/2009 10:23:42 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: GYPZYQUEEN I have also found with women partners that if they are on their hands and knees and I stimulate from the back it is much better..squirt wise. I thought this was very interesting. It's not something I've ever tried. Would you mind explaining this a bit more?

GYPZYQUEEN -> RE: how to make a sub squrit? (7/8/2009 10:58:03 AM)
certainly RED......anything for multiple orgasmns..[:D] When the woman is on her hands and knees...maybe close to the end of the bed..then sit beside her..legs on floor/// and put an arm around her upper hips . .with the other hand insert index and 1-2 other fingers in a beak shape..begint o thrust slowly then build up to deeper..she may try to pull away...but hold her with your arm( unless she says stop of course) One reason they pull away is they start to feel a NEW sensation..the pressure like having to urinate or a deeper feeling they CANNOT control Once they give into it( with encouragement) ..you will have a finger puppet for life. OK so we are at the point of 3 fingers and thrusting..now.. using those fingers..stimulate /locate the G-spot.. It will feel spongy ..or sandpapery..and will SWELL and get hard as she is aroused.. Using your fingers make a circular motion then thrust..then a come hither motion then thrusting.. When she is on her hands and knees it seeme to me to give her more freedom or perhaps organs are suspended?..not sure.. so on her back you motion toward the clit and on her knees the same thing but you are motioning Down ward..if that makes sense..?? All women agree...they need to be FULLY AROUSED to have G-spot O's or squirt Some women splash..some run...and rivulet..some have a river.. Some are hesitant becuz they think they have peed..some men think the woman has too. www.g-spot-media is a good site and has a crystal wand for G-spot location for women sexplorations... If a woman can locate her own G-spot and explore ..this of course helps too I would like to add as a Eroticism Class facilitator and councellor that G-spot orgasmns can bring about profound and EXPANDED reaction...many times tears and crying and wailing.. .it is a HUGE release** and the worst thing that a parnter can do is laugh as in like wtf?... or leave the woman without an anchor..just hold her.. tell her it is fine...tell her she did great... It is the same for prostate massage..but that is another thread... happy G...spottting.. GQ

RedMagic1 -> RE: how to make a sub squrit? (7/8/2009 11:45:37 AM)
Thank you, GQ. That was extremely helpful. Just so ya know, I might try that out on Friday. I won't post "results" -- that would be too private -- but your advice is coming at a great time.

Leonidas -> RE: how to make a sub squrit? (7/8/2009 11:46:15 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: whitecherry iam 20 yrs old and cant squirt my dom has had many try and do diff thing tieing me down forceing me to but i just can i tell them to stop i scream it hurts or it too much for me to handel please can a dom help me out here and tell me the best way to make me squirt . Might help if you explained what specifically he is doing that's hurting. If it's not just happening for you spontaneously (and that's not unusual), you need to approach it in stages. Along the way, you'll learn some cool things about yourself. Through repitition, training, whatever you want to call it, get yourself comfortable with your dom making you cum by stimulating your clit. Whether you're tied up, tied down, on your back, with your ass in the air, whatever seems to work, when you are responsive enough that he can get you to orgasm fairly quickly and reliably, move on to step two. Get yourself comfortable with your dom making you cum by touching your g-spot. For most women, it's inside your pussy roughly behind where your clit is. Same drill. Through repitition, training, getting comfortable with him being in control and touching you there, you are able to cum fairly quickly and reliably. You may find that it's easier if he's made you cum at least once by touching your clit first. Now, work on having a series of orgasms with your dom alternating between your clit and your g-spot. As you've probably noticed, your clit gets too sensitive after you cum, and it hurts if you continue touching it. By alternating back and forth, though, you'll learn to orgasm over and over. As you practice that, you might notice that your level of arousal starts going up, like stairsteps from orgasm to orgasm, and the orgasms themselves get more intense. When you reach a certain level of arousal, your pussy will start feeling tight and engorged, and when your dom touches your g-spot, you'll start getting that "need to pee" feeling that a few others have mentioned. No need to rush it, just continue the alternating stimulation and orgasms along the way. You'll reach a point where that "need to pee" feeling gets overwhelming, and the "squirt" will just happen, without any need to force it at all. It's like a really good roller-coaster ride with a suprise at the end, rather than trying to climb a mountain. Just be patient, and hopefully your Dom will be too. At 20 years old you probably are still a little hesitant about giving up sexual control to the extent that these things will happen easily for you. Time and repititon will fix that. Fortunately the repitition itself can be it's own reward in this case. Good luck.

overfiend -> RE: how to make a sub squrit? (7/8/2009 12:11:11 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: GYPZYQUEEN certainly RED......anything for multiple orgasmns..[:D] I'm very new here,but I wanna thank u that was very informative. Me and my wife are just starting to explore more options,than we already do. I am trying to inform myself more so I can better please her. We often have body mechanics issues,she's turned on but kittys not. I'd love to pic your head for ideas.

SteelofUtah -> RE: how to make a sub squrit? (7/8/2009 12:57:30 PM)
Garden Hose and a Cork. Steel

whitecherry -> RE: how to make a sub squrit? (7/8/2009 1:02:07 PM)
thanks to ever one it dose not hurt but like the pee feeling i freak out and make them stop

mnottertail -> RE: how to make a sub squrit? (7/8/2009 1:32:30 PM)
The same muscles are involved that contract to make you squirt. It is simple, you freak out. As long as you need to freak out, it ain't NEVER going to happen. Squirt isnt the problem, your muscles appear strong enough. Get your freak on; not out. Ron

littlewonder -> RE: how to make a sub squrit? (7/8/2009 2:50:13 PM)
When you get to that stage where it feels like you have to pee, just wait it out, relax, breathe. It will pass and you'll have an intense orgasm. That doesn't mean you will squirt though. Not all women do but you will have a most enjoyable climax! Edited to add after I read your other question on the forums: You might wanna hold off on these intense orgasms until you check with your dr. Being pregnant this may not be something you wanna do depending on how far along you are, health issues, etc....ALWAYS check with your dr.

dove967 -> RE: how to make a sub squrit? (7/8/2009 4:11:57 PM)
I personally didn't start squirting until I was in my late 30's. But, once I started, it's hard for me not to when I cum. It wasn't until I could completely surrender myself to my orgasms that it started. And I've noticed that if I am trying to NOT squirt then my orgasm is not as intense, hence, I'm holding back. Hope this helps. dove.

frazzle -> RE: how to make a sub squrit? (7/8/2009 5:14:37 PM)
So relax, go with the flow, so to speak. If worried lie on a towel over plastic sheet, makes the mess easier to clear up.

GYPZYQUEEN -> RE: how to make a sub squrit? (7/8/2009 6:07:31 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: RedMagic1 Thank you, GQ. That was extremely helpful. Just so ya know, I might try that out on Friday. I won't post "results" -- that would be too private -- but your advice is coming at a great time. [/quote} ok you don't have to post results but a message saying "fukkin' A! "or "Still pracitising" would be nice... awwww come on..cum on.. GQ

GYPZYQUEEN -> RE: how to make a sub squrit? (7/8/2009 6:08:46 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: overfiend We often have body mechanics issues,she's turned on but kittys not. I'd love to pic your head for ideas. quote: Sure !as a retired school marm I love to share info... GQ

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