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RE: First time with BDSM? - 7/9/2009 12:28:51 PM

funnyegg

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ORIGINAL: LadyPact

Look. You have a choice here. You can allow your fear to run your life, or you can run your life in spite of fear. The definition of courage isn't a lack of fear. It's what you can do when you have fear, and take action in spite of it.

Most fears are fantasies, not realities. Thus knowledge, and so doing your homework, dispels fear. Well to some degree anyway.
Rationalising your fears can help to understand them and so control them.

Firefighters, soldiers, etc. face real fears of losing life, limb and/or comrades. Rather unlike the rest of us lesser mortals.

Cultivate a will to win, once your desires override your fears, then you'll move forward.

(in reply to LadyPact)