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MasterJones -> Play ideas for my new submissive female masochist? (2/16/2006 10:54:01 PM)
I have just collared a new submissive female masochist, and I don't have much experience in inflicting pain for pleasure. Can some of you help me decide what type of play would be best for starting off with her? MJ

xxblushesxx -> RE: Play ideas for my new submissive female masochist? (2/17/2006 5:54:03 AM)
You will first have to decide what you need. You are the dominant, correct? What type of masochist is she? Does she love pain? Or does she love your reaction to her enduring the pain? Physical, or emotional pain? Someone that posts here a lot (I think) used to have a tag line that went something like; "Beat me, hurt me" said the masochist "No" replied the sadist...

MrDiscipline44 -> RE: Play ideas for my new submissive female masochist? (2/17/2006 6:54:37 AM)
If she is a masocist as you say, tie her up and beat her ass silly. She'll love you for it. Honestly, this question can not be answered without knowing the sub in question. What she likes and doesn't like. Her hard limits and soft limits and so on. Without knowing the girl, the answers will run the gambit.

truesub4u -> RE: Play ideas for my new submissive female masochist? (2/17/2006 6:57:19 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: xxblushesxx "Beat me, hurt me" said the masochist "No" replied the sadist... Damn... now that is a true sadist... LOL

yourMissTress -> RE: Play ideas for my new submissive female masochist? (2/17/2006 7:00:57 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MasterJones I have just collared a new submissive female masochist, and I don't have much experience in inflicting pain for pleasure. Can some of you help me decide what type of play would be best for starting off with her? MJ After having just read your profile, I am completely confused as to why you would ask this question... Your profile states that you are an expert at spanking, whips and wax play. It also says that you are into hair pulling and tolerate canes and crops...sounds like a good start at sadism to me... Your profile also states that you have trained 6 other subs and your wife. Out of 7 submissives this is the first one that likes pain? WOW.

JohnWarren -> RE: Play ideas for my new submissive female masochist? (2/17/2006 7:03:18 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MasterJones I have just collared a new submissive female masochist, and I don't have much experience in inflicting pain for pleasure. Can some of you help me decide what type of play would be best for starting off with her? MJ Have you tried asking her? Really, it's pretty ineffective to ask our input in a matter that is so very personal and specific to the individual

MasterJones -> RE: Play ideas for my new submissive female masochist? (2/17/2006 7:09:43 AM)
You are correct, I am the dominant. I am meeting with her to discuss these issues within a couple of weeks. But I believe that she loves physical pain inflicted upon her by an individual that she idolizes or loves, that would be me. She has told me she needs pain to orgasm, so what do you suggest for just starting off? MJ

MasterJones -> RE: Play ideas for my new submissive female masochist? (2/17/2006 7:11:41 AM)
I understand, but thank you for providing me some opening ideas for our first session. I will be gathering more information and posting it as I get more time with her and discussion with her. MJ

MasterJones -> RE: Play ideas for my new submissive female masochist? (2/17/2006 7:13:44 AM)
Yes your correct, but my domination was so different with others and my wife, I inflicted pain on them because I enjoyed it and used it for correction of their inappropriate behavior, yes I am a sadist. But in this case, this submissive needs pain to orgasm, and I am not used to this type of sadism, can you help? MJ

MasterJones -> RE: Play ideas for my new submissive female masochist? (2/17/2006 7:15:59 AM)
I will be finding out more from her as to her likes and dislikes soon, but I wanted to find out information from the experts first prior to my meetings with her. MJ

mistoferin -> RE: Play ideas for my new submissive female masochist? (2/17/2006 7:16:57 AM)
quote: You are correct, I am the dominant. I am meeting with her to discuss these issues within a couple of weeks. But I believe that she loves physical pain inflicted upon her by an individual that she idolizes or loves, that would be me. She has told me she needs pain to orgasm, so what do you suggest for just starting off? I don't think you are going to find the answer to this here on a message board. This is something that needs to be discussed between the two of you. You could start by asking her what types of pain she responds to...stingy?...thuddy? Ask her what types of pain producing activities she has responded well to in the past. Start slow and work your way up. You will never get the correct answer here because one person may say that I need pain to orgasm and mean they want their nipple pinched or their ass slapped with an open hand.....and the next person's version of adequate pain may be an ass blackening beating and a 100 needles in their breasts. You need to find out what she is referring to when she says pain.

MHOO314 -> RE: Play ideas for my new submissive female masochist? (2/17/2006 7:17:52 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: truesub4u quote: ORIGINAL: xxblushesxx "Beat me, hurt me" said the masochist "No" replied the sadist... Damn... now that is a true sadist... LOL Tie her to a tree, then beat the tree--sadism at its best.

yourMissTress -> RE: Play ideas for my new submissive female masochist? (2/17/2006 7:27:28 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MasterJones Yes your correct, but my domination was so different with others and my wife, I inflicted pain on them because I enjoyed it and used it for correction of their inappropriate behavior, yes I am a sadist. But in this case, this submissive needs pain to orgasm, and I am not used to this type of sadism, can you help? MJ There are many that can help you here. Does she need general pain to get her endorphins and dopamine flowing? Does she need specific types of pain? Is her orgasm dependent on clitoral or nipple torture?

Jasmyn -> RE: Play ideas for my new submissive female masochist? (2/17/2006 7:28:50 AM)
Discuss with her if the things that get her off are things like pinching her clit or nipples when she is about to orgasm, spanking her clit, pussy whipping, caning, pegs/pinching inside of thighs. etc. Or if her the pain that gets her off is something more SM in practice like flogging, caning, intense and aggressive type of stuff.

pupofMoGa -> RE: Play ideas for my new submissive female masochist? (2/17/2006 7:57:55 AM)
quote: Tie her to a tree, then beat the tree--sadism at its best. ROTF!! Only YOU MH...Only You..lol

MistressOfGa -> RE: Play ideas for my new submissive female masochist? (2/17/2006 8:01:14 AM)
Damn, now I have done it! Sorry about that. The thing about sharing a computer, is that when one forgets to log off, the other ends up posting under their name! Ack!

yourMissTress -> RE: Play ideas for my new submissive female masochist? (2/17/2006 8:35:19 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MHOO314 quote: ORIGINAL: truesub4u quote: ORIGINAL: xxblushesxx "Beat me, hurt me" said the masochist "No" replied the sadist... Damn... now that is a true sadist... LOL Tie her to a tree, then beat the tree--sadism at its best. I was at the home of a friend that makes floggers, trying out some new toys. Feeling the weights of different handles and swinging them in the air. A submissive friend (extreme masochist) who was also there was sitting on the couch sighing heavily. I asked her if she was ok, and she replied "it's just so sad to see you wasting such precious energy on air when I am sitting right here."

truesub4u -> RE: Play ideas for my new submissive female masochist? (2/17/2006 8:51:04 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MHOO314 quote: ORIGINAL: truesub4u quote: ORIGINAL: xxblushesxx "Beat me, hurt me" said the masochist "No" replied the sadist... Damn... now that is a true sadist... LOL Tie her to a tree, then beat the tree--sadism at its best. MHOO.... you sadist!... that's cruelity at it's best!.. down right abuse!.. LOL Fixes MHOO a martini... you deserve this... LOL

JohnWarren -> RE: Play ideas for my new submissive female masochist? (2/17/2006 9:37:54 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MasterJones I will be finding out more from her as to her likes and dislikes soon, but I wanted to find out information from the experts first prior to my meetings with her. MJ There aren't any "experts" in what she likes and doesn't like here.

slave4Darby3d -> RE: Play ideas for my new submissive female masochist? (2/18/2006 12:45:22 AM)
First and foremost - you have to talk, or at least have her fill out a questionnaire for a sub - that is heavy in the masochist type questions. Then, again, talk. There are different types of pain. I am a masochist. I love to have my ass beaten, hair pulled - anything rough and leaves marks. love it! But I know another masochist that would flip out totally if you laid a hand on her. Her pain of choice is verbal humiliation. Still another who is sub, but is masochist just for herself - likes to cut and bur herself. But don't do it for her...no sirree. You have to know what pain they are into. AND then see if that is something you can inflict. I lucked out - my Master loves to whip, and flog, spank and mark. And, I love to receive it. He lucked out because I am very facially expressive - so he gets to see it, and enjoy seeing me endure it and still adore, and even thank him, for it. We are both very much into the visual of the giving and receiving of pain... your results may vary...

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