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RE: Public symbols - 2/18/2006 2:57:27 PM   
Elegant


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Perhaps a horseshoe nail ring. They are subtle and not in mass production.

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I'm not sure that a horseshoe nail is really an appropriate symbol, or in any way theme-related, but it's creative.



Horseshoe nail rings are not a unique idea...already done and already in mass production.

http://www.equicraft.com/rings1.html
http://www.backinthesaddle.com/itemdy00.asp?c=j&T1=B85665&GEN1=Rings,+Watches+and+Pins&SKW=ring&PageNo=1
http://www.equestriancollections.com/eq/editBag.do?departmentId=-4&productId=7655



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RE: Public symbols - 2/18/2006 3:08:32 PM   
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I have the BDSM, Master and slave symbols in the rear window of My car. I have no idea if anyone has recognized it yet, but I have yet to meet anyone because of it.

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RE: Public symbols - 2/18/2006 3:13:38 PM   
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I can relate to the original poster's idea. I'm a fan of Insane Clown Posse and I have a large sticker in my backwindow of their logo...I've met so many people because of it and even gave a cop who pulled me over once on of my dubbed CDs and managed to get out of a ticket...hahah. Lot's of hoots and hollars on the interstate etc...It's just nice to know there are other fans out there.

I can only imagine the results of having a large BDSM symbol in my window. That might get too much attention especially from the police who we all know are into control and leather. :)

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RE: Public symbols - 2/18/2006 5:15:59 PM   
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There are symbols already and I'm surprised no one has answered about them. There is the BDSM triskele (which is NOT legally copyrighted, as research has shown) and the leather pride flag. There is also now a Master/slave Dom/sub pride flag.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Triskele#BDSM

http://www.columbia.edu/cu/cv/aboutflag.html

http://www.masterslaveflag.com/html/faq_s.html

Fire



Me too. But then again, I'm one to research the things I'm involved in. That's not a cut on anyone who didn't know there were several symbols already, just a statement that I prefer to find out all I can. Still, it surprised me.

I've been leaning heavily toward the Master/slave flag because of the controversey (for lack of a better term) surrounding the Triskle.


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RE: Public symbols - 2/18/2006 6:27:27 PM   
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I've been leaning heavily toward the Master/slave flag because of the controversey (for lack of a better term) surrounding the Triskle.


From the day this flag was 'unveiled' (just last summer) there has been controversy and dissent mainly based on the creators defined meanings of the symbols used.

In one system of psychological signs the three horizontal lines symbol is used to mean 'passive intellect', which is synonymous with submissive.

This statement has been shunned by many people who do not equate 'passive intellect' with 'submissive. The fact that the flag groups D/s and M/s under one general idealogy is also cause of concern for some.

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RE: Public symbols - 2/18/2006 6:39:53 PM   
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Dress goth. Not all goths are kinky, but most are comfortable talking about kink. So feel free to ask.

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RE: Public symbols - 2/18/2006 8:41:14 PM   
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As a Lesbian I have flagged for years.Now,when I slip my 'keys' through My belt loop they go on the left for Dominant.
Everything worn left hankies keys etc indicates Dominant/Top/giving & worn right side is submissive/passive/receiving.

I don't even think of it anymore it is just automatic.Often they are tucked into the adjacent pocket,but with a quick flip they are out & making a statment for those who understand.I also have most of my piercings done on the left ...not because I feel pressure to ...it just feels funny on the other side - lol.

LthrdWolf ...there are some really nice finger rings etc available now too.Even some with just the letter 'M' or 's' ...& variations of that too.

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RE: Public symbols - 2/20/2006 3:21:06 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Aimtoplease101

Have you ever thought that meeting people with similar interests in the bdsm lifestyle would be a lot easier if there was some discrete symbol that dommes and subs could wear in public? Like a blue bracelet, or a red toe ring, or a black tie. Something that was not so unusual as to draw attention from the uninitiated, but sufficiently unique/ rare to serve as an identifying sign to those who know what to look for?

ATP




Just a quick reply, I dont know where you are from so I hope this doesnt sound sarcastic or what-ever, anyway, what about wearing an "O" ring-they are popular in the U.K and discrete-they are just ordinary rings with a very small circle attacted to the front of it.

Dommes/Doms wear them on their left hand, subs on their right.

Any good?


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RE: Public symbols - 2/20/2006 11:39:38 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: Elegant


quote:

ORIGINAL: Aimtoplease101


quote:

ORIGINAL: Wulfchyld

Perhaps a horseshoe nail ring. They are subtle and not in mass production.

*************************

I'm not sure that a horseshoe nail is really an appropriate symbol, or in any way theme-related, but it's creative.



Horseshoe nail rings are not a unique idea...already done and already in mass production.

http://www.equicraft.com/rings1.html
http://www.backinthesaddle.com/itemdy00.asp?c=j&T1=B85665&GEN1=Rings,+Watches+and+Pins&SKW=ring&PageNo=1
http://www.equestriancollections.com/eq/editBag.do?departmentId=-4&productId=7655



Such sign need not be unique-- just sufficiently uncommon that it not lead to a lot of mistaken assumptions. Indeed, to serve the function of not drawing unwanted attention, it would have to be something that did not stand out in too overt a manner. The purpose of this is just to provide something to elicit further interest-- the involved parties would hopefully engage in further conversation, and that would run its natural course.
ATP

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RE: Public symbols - 2/20/2006 11:41:26 AM   
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ORIGINAL: HalloweenWhite


quote:

ORIGINAL: Aimtoplease101

Have you ever thought that meeting people with similar interests in the bdsm lifestyle would be a lot easier if there was some discrete symbol that dommes and subs could wear in public? Like a blue bracelet, or a red toe ring, or a black tie. Something that was not so unusual as to draw attention from the uninitiated, but sufficiently unique/ rare to serve as an identifying sign to those who know what to look for?

ATP




Just a quick reply, I dont know where you are from so I hope this doesnt sound sarcastic or what-ever, anyway, what about wearing an "O" ring-they are popular in the U.K and discrete-they are just ordinary rings with a very small circle attacted to the front of it.

Dommes/Doms wear them on their left hand, subs on their right.

Any good?


HalloweenWhite

No sarcastic at all-- and very good. I don't think I've seen these-- do you have a link to a site you can suggest before we Google the term?

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RE: Public symbols - 2/20/2006 11:44:08 AM   
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ORIGINAL: valeca


quote:

ORIGINAL: MistressFire70

There are symbols already and I'm surprised no one has answered about them. There is the BDSM triskele (which is NOT legally copyrighted, as research has shown) and the leather pride flag. There is also now a Master/slave Dom/sub pride flag.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Triskele#BDSM

http://www.columbia.edu/cu/cv/aboutflag.html

http://www.masterslaveflag.com/html/faq_s.html

Fire



Me too. But then again, I'm one to research the things I'm involved in. That's not a cut on anyone who didn't know there were several symbols already, just a statement that I prefer to find out all I can. Still, it surprised me.

I've been leaning heavily toward the Master/slave flag because of the controversey (for lack of a better term) surrounding the Triskle.


It's not the existence of a symbol per se that the posting is concerned with, but rather a way to work it into an everyday outfit in a casual, unobtrusive manner.
ATP

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RE: Public symbols - 2/20/2006 12:16:47 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: Aimtoplease101


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ORIGINAL: HalloweenWhite


quote:

ORIGINAL: Aimtoplease101

Have you ever thought that meeting people with similar interests in the bdsm lifestyle would be a lot easier if there was some discrete symbol that dommes and subs could wear in public? Like a blue bracelet, or a red toe ring, or a black tie. Something that was not so unusual as to draw attention from the uninitiated, but sufficiently unique/ rare to serve as an identifying sign to those who know what to look for?

ATP




Just a quick reply, I dont know where you are from so I hope this doesnt sound sarcastic or what-ever, anyway, what about wearing an "O" ring-they are popular in the U.K and discrete-they are just ordinary rings with a very small circle attacted to the front of it.

Dommes/Doms wear them on their left hand, subs on their right.

Any good?


HalloweenWhite

No sarcastic at all-- and very good. I don't think I've seen these-- do you have a link to a site you can suggest before we Google the term?



Try:www.richardlarsen.co.uk. Even if you arent in U.K Y/y may be able to get one. Also have a look at purplepassions.com

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RE: Public symbols - 2/20/2006 1:49:35 PM   
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There is a symbol. In fact, 2 different ones. Arm bands denote Dominant if worn on the left or submissive when worn on the right.

There is also the hanky code that let's people know not only their position by wearing the hanky in the left for Dominant or right for submissive, but the colors also tell people what you're into.

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RE: Public symbols - 2/20/2006 3:12:07 PM   
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You can always have the Japanese kanji tattooed on your arm. There is one character for Master and another for slave. There is no reason why you can't have the appropriate character printed on a T-Shirt.

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RE: Public symbols - 2/20/2006 3:40:47 PM   
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The problem for me is those who would identify with and act upon that godawful BDSM symbol are probably people I wouldn't be crazy getting to know. And...hankies? Please!

I sometimes notice subtle clues, but they tend to be more interpersonal than object oriented.






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RE: Public symbols - 2/20/2006 5:08:31 PM   
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Driver1961,

I just want to make clear that no Buddhist would or should ever be against BDSM. There is absolutely nothing in this lifestyle that goes against a Buddhist philosophy. As a lifelong Buddhist and submissive, I want to stand up for both communities I love. Probably the greatest teaching in Buddhism is to be alive and awake in the moment- and I don't think I am ever more in the moment than when doing BDSM.

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RE: Public symbols - 2/20/2006 5:32:09 PM   
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ORIGINAL: IronBear

You can always have the Japanese kanji tattooed on your arm. There is one character for Master and another for slave. There is no reason why you can't have the appropriate character printed on a T-Shirt.


These are the symbols I have in My car window.

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RE: Public symbols - 2/20/2006 9:05:13 PM   
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ORIGINAL: IronBear

You can always have the Japanese kanji tattooed on your arm. There is one character for Master and another for slave. There is no reason why you can't have the appropriate character printed on a T-Shirt.



This is what my Master and i have. I have the symbol for slave tattooed in several different places, while he has the symbol for Master tattooed on his left arm. These seem to work for us. Although when we go out, I put the triskle on my temple next to my right eye. It has gotten a bit of attention from those that know.

1st Girl Phoenix



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RE: Public symbols - 2/20/2006 9:07:25 PM   
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Driver1961,

I just want to make clear that no Buddhist would or should ever be against BDSM. There is absolutely nothing in this lifestyle that goes against a Buddhist philosophy. As a lifelong Buddhist and submissive, I want to stand up for both communities I love. Probably the greatest teaching in Buddhism is to be alive and awake in the moment- and I don't think I am ever more in the moment than when doing BDSM.



I understand you point of view totally. I am Wiccan and have been asked a million times how I can be Wiccan and still call myself a slave. One is a path that I follow and the other is just what I am.

1st Girl Phoenix



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RE: Public symbols - 11/8/2006 10:24:42 AM   
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This thread is a little old but I thought I pass along a new development:

The Icons of the Ownership Flag
Comments on Slave Register (which is part of same group as Ownership Flag)
Thread about Silverfoot's project on MS Christine's Blog

In my many years in the lifestyle, this is the best set of symbols, that I have seen, for subtle public display. I'm hoping Silverfoot makes them.

subiam

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