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Breathplay - 7/9/2009 10:44:04 AM

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any female lovers of breathplay in uk at all

and or methods of play my fav is the plastic bag

anybody ????

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RE: Breathplay - 7/9/2009 10:49:05 AM

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Yeah we dig breathplay.
Plastic bags? Ya serious or trolling? I think I am just a snob... no. Really.

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RE: Breathplay - 7/9/2009 11:10:04 AM

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Yes, adore administering the plastic bag method, rustle rustle, panic

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RE: Breathplay - 7/9/2009 11:13:06 AM

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no not trolling just love plastic bag breathplay and afew others just wondering who was out there

methods of play and the like.
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RE: Breathplay - 7/9/2009 11:21:01 AM

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Someone not well versed in breath play... who can communicate it well and all else well and who is still looking for idea's... not what I would consider a bright idea to play with. Maybe a yet should be added... but a very important yet in my mind.

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RE: Breathplay - 7/9/2009 1:54:51 PM

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I really wana try but im shit scared about it!

It looks amazing though

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RE: Breathplay - 7/9/2009 5:37:07 PM

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I love breath play but damn be careful. Anything pulled tightly around the neck can do much damage. Also causing the sub/slave to pass out is risky.

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RE: Breathplay - 7/9/2009 6:06:28 PM

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I get totally turned on by hands barely squeezing my throat but my Master is not experienced enough to do more but it is enough for me..... but like kellyx said..it still scares me sometimes.... I say this because being a bottom or submissive you go into this state where you just want to allow anything..and you have to keep your head about you!

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RE: Breathplay - 7/9/2009 8:18:21 PM

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for breathplay, I avoid choking at all costs. it's just too risky. I also try to avoid putting much pressure on the carotid either. I'd rather avoid manslaughter charges.

this isn't to say that you have to avoid strangling a woman with her shirt or your belt. you can wrap something around someone's neck and manipulate where pressure is applied (by having it wrapped around your hand) in a manner that gives the recipient the illusion they are being strangled much more roughly than they actually are. the more drunk on sex the person is, the more authentic the feel.

other than good old choking, there's always a sink full of water. give someone a piece of metal or some other heavy noisy implement to drop as the safeword (if you use them - and trust me, having a wrench dropped on your foot let's you know they need air). again, the effect is a lot greater than the reality of the situation. if a woman's getting sodomized or beaten, 8-12 seconds underwater seems like a lot longer than it really is. 25 seconds makes her feel like she's a little trooper.

and when you're just starting out, pinching the nose and covering the mouth works great. it has that same old-fashioned breathplay feel but the recipient can easily get oxygen if they really want to.

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RE: Breathplay - 7/9/2009 8:20:47 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Kellyx

I really wana try but im shit scared about it!

It looks amazing though

and I'd love to strangle you.

believe it or not, that phrase doesn't go over so well in vanilla bars.

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RE: Breathplay - 7/10/2009 12:50:48 PM

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I also like to administer breathplay, by clothed facesitting, there is something quite empowering about a body wriggling beneath.

I also like using My leather gloved palm, so all types of breathplay is enjoyable to me

I get a sexual kick out of the control, their panic and the overall breathless physical reactions to My breathplay, the flushed cheeks the panting, the natural high it causes.

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RE: Breathplay - 7/15/2009 9:33:43 PM

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quote:

for breathplay, I avoid choking at all costs.

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ORIGINAL: variation30

quote:

ORIGINAL: Kellyx

I really wana try but im shit scared about it!

It looks amazing though

and I'd love to strangle you.

believe it or not, that phrase doesn't go over so well in vanilla bars.

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for breathplay, I avoid choking at all costs.

How do strangle and choke differ? :D

I enjoy breathplay. Like blood it is the essence that keeps us alive. What a greater gift could one offer. It is a demonstration of trust and commitment - turning over control. The crunch of the bag from expanding and collapsing bag. Droplets of condensation from their breathe form the bag. The cute cherry red flushed face. It goes great with a toy to stimulate breathing. Yes, yes the disclaimer: Dont try this without me present.

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RE: Breathplay - 7/15/2009 9:39:13 PM

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and I'd love to strangle you.

believe it or not, that phrase doesn't go over so well in vanilla bars.

Hahaha. I can just imagine this happening and trying to defend it with "No no... that means I like you."

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RE: Breathplay - 7/15/2009 9:43:06 PM

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Op:
I like to illicite near drowning /loss of breath by using a cloth on the face and pouring water over it..If he is tied and I am filling his ass at the same time or doing CBT dances...it doubles and triples the sensation..

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RE: Breathplay - 7/15/2009 9:44:51 PM

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'Water Boarding'... I always wanted to try that on myself to see what it felt like. The CIA seems to love this too.

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RE: Breathplay - 7/15/2009 9:56:21 PM

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Ok... I have to admit that breathplay scared me.

I was very, very anti breath play until I met someone that enjoyed it on a small-- there'salmostnowayitcouldhurtme way. We were kissing and he just leaned down and told me to breathe in when he breathed out... It was one of the most erotic things I have ever experienced.

There was no fear, no hands around the neck... no wondering if it was going to end badly... just me breathing what he gave me.

So f*ing HAWT.

It doesn't have to be too edgy... keep that in mind.

(I mean, that is breath play, right? We were playing with my breath....)

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RE: Breathplay - 7/15/2009 10:09:41 PM

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ORIGINAL: Esinn

'Water Boarding'... I always wanted to try that on myself to see what it felt like. The CIA seems to love this too.

yes!!....... a little video was made to scare the shit out of ppl but some BDSM folks loved..

I always try or have the play done to me BEFORE I do it with somone else..I loved and hated it..

I loved surviving...ahahhahah..and how my mind was struggling
to survive and had no frame of reference for this.

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RE: Breathplay - 7/16/2009 2:43:17 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: asphyxialover

any female lovers of breathplay in uk at all

and or methods of play my fav is the plastic bag

anybody ????

Asphyxiation heightens orgasm.
Don't like plastic bags (the sent of them yuk) as the rustle of them ruins the surprise when I am blindfolded.
Prefer the skilful use of fingers on my nostrils and a hand round my throat. Divine.

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RE: Breathplay - 7/16/2009 2:46:53 AM

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ORIGINAL: Esinn

How do strangle and choke differ? :D

one is used in a lighthearted post and the other is used in a more detailed post explaining my feelings regarding breathplay.

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RE: Breathplay - 7/16/2009 5:36:45 AM

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Also causing the sub/slave to pass out is risky.

ahhh but that's what makes BP so much fun

Nothing like passing out and then coming back around and being fucked as if it does not matter if you are there or not. Fucking hot

HOWEVER...I would never tell someone that breathplay is ok to do. It's dangerous. Very dangerous...I don't care how much medical training you have had, or how many times you have participated in this, or how many 'classes' you have taken. Breath play is asking for trouble.

My thoughts of course.

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