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domming a male? - 2/17/2006 7:34:20 AM   
cbts4gd


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Status: offline 		Just curious, how adverse are the male doms here to the idea of domming a male slave?
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RE: domming a male? - 2/17/2006 8:23:13 AM   
RavenMuse


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Status: offline 		I am not bi so have no real interest in doing so. However if I got involved with a female switch who had a male pet of her own then it wouldn't bother me one way or the other to Dom them in a non-sexual way from time to time if we where in the same place, like if all three of us went to a club and we got on well enough for me to be bothered to and for him to trust his mistresses Dom in such a manner.

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RE: domming a male? - 2/17/2006 10:14:54 AM   
MrDiscipline44


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Status: offline 		I think it all depends on your perspective of dominanting someone. If it's only sexual in nature, I doubt you'll find any straight males that would do it. If it is domination purely for the sake of control, with little or no sexual content, you might find a straight man to do it.

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RE: domming a male? - 2/17/2006 10:19:12 AM   
Nuke718


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Status: offline 		Gotta agree with RavenMuse, most of my relationships are sexual. As a straight, I just am net into guys. When I am in Dom, I could easily let somebody elses male sub serve me by bringing me my drinks at a club, or do the cleanup after a party, or anything like that. Actively Dominating a male, I don't see it.

As for Sm topping another guy, I could probably assist. But again if I am not getting my sexual charge, there won't be much to entertain me.

As an aside, I do know straight male Doms, who are seriously into Dom/sub ans sexuality doesn't play a part. Both are sadists, and more than willing to hurt a male submissive.

Nuke

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RE: domming a male? - 2/17/2006 10:50:02 AM   
phoenixslave


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Status: offline 		When i was actively seeking i got contacted by more than a few straight Doms interested in domming a male, some sexually, some not. Change of pace? i don't know . As i was seeking a relationship oriented master i declined. Similarly i know a gay Dom who has a female "boy" at the moment. There is just so much at this buffet...

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RE: domming a male? - 2/17/2006 11:08:01 AM   
fastlane


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Status: offline 		Only if the Male was my fricken Boss. I'd love to Domme his Ass!

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RE: domming a male? - 2/17/2006 2:07:42 PM   
amayos


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Status: offline 		Not too adverse to the idea at all, so long as the circumstances and his appearence pleases me. VERY picky about males.

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RE: domming a male? - 2/17/2006 2:25:15 PM   
IronBear


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Status: offline 		I have no problems with having a kajirus in a collar. However it would be the House Collar. If he graduated to Neets's Personal Collar he would still be required to serve all the Frees in the House. I'll whallop his arse if necessary....

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RE: domming a male? - 2/17/2006 5:32:01 PM   
Petruchio


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Status: offline 		I have always found the idea unappealing, but other men are usually mere shadows in my world anyway.

The except is when it's a sub couple and the dynamics change.

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RE: domming a male? - 2/18/2006 9:03:34 AM   
artglfr


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Status: offline 		Especially at a play party I will...hey I have been a male sub so I know sometimes just a paddle on the ass is good and it really doesn't matter to me if I am paddling a male or female as long as he isn't expecting sex.

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RE: domming a male? - 2/18/2006 11:36:57 AM   
SimplyV


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quote:

ORIGINAL: cbts4gd

Just curious, how adverse are the male doms here to the idea of domming a male slave?


Well I have two bisexual male subs. One is collared to me and the other is just under my guidance.. But both are showing signs of wanting to dominate males.

So.. gimme a few years and I'll have a good experienced one for ya.

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RE: domming a male? - 2/18/2006 2:07:37 PM   
MstrTiger


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Status: offline 		I am a gay dom, I get lots of messages from straight subs interested in being used by me.

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RE: domming a male? - 2/18/2006 2:52:13 PM   
Troubleinparadis


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Status: offline 		I am very much a straight dom.

However domination for me is not sexual, I might get sexual release from dominating a girl....but the sex is a by product of the control. not the reason for it.

I have helped in the training of a male, and enjoyed it quite a bit. It was interesting to control and train, with out the sexual feelings.


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RE: domming a male? - 2/18/2006 5:11:43 PM   
TallDarkAndWitty


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quote:

ORIGINAL: cbts4gd

Just curious, how adverse are the male doms here to the idea of domming a male slave?


I consider my primary sexual orientation to be dominant first, straight second. Though I have no sexual interest in men, Elle and I often enslave both men and women, and our the core of our practices don't change, though some of the surface ones do.

That said, I appreciate beauty in all forms, and wouldn't hesitate for a second if someone as physically attractive as say...MstrTiger up there... wanted to be my slave.

Taggard

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RE: domming a male? - 2/18/2006 5:47:48 PM   
MasterSpinner


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Status: offline 		Troubleinparadis has my response down to a T.

Master Spinner

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RE: domming a male? - 2/19/2006 7:49:08 AM   
TexasMaam


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quote:

ORIGINAL: fastlane

Only if the Male was my fricken Boss. I'd love to Domme his Ass!


fastlane: I love your posts! You silly thing! *laffing*

Texas Maam

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RE: domming a male? - 2/19/2006 9:29:41 AM   
theRose4U


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quote:

ORIGINAL: fastlane

Only if the Male was my fricken Boss. I'd love to Domme his Ass!


Umm Kevin is there something that you need to tell the class?? Didn't know your current mindset had turned you female?

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RE: domming a male? - 2/21/2006 8:20:23 AM   
Despot


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From: Long Island, NY
Status: offline 		I've always considered myself str8, yet I was approached online several years ago by male subs wanting to meet after they saw me scene in a chat room. (I rarely go to those rooms anymore.) At first I declined, until curiousity got the better of me. I always made it clear that while I like to spank and play (intimate touching and probing), sex is unlikely. Additionally, I am not looking for a relationship. The net result is that I now Dom more boys than girls. I have found that they are usually not looking for a relationship either, but need the release of a long and hard, memorable spanking. I only use their toys, because that pretty much sets the limits and keeps things hygienic. If there is no rope, there is no bondage. No paddling without a paddle. No insertion without a dildo. Etc. I still don't have sex with them, or kiss them. If they are really good and obedient, I may allow them to give me a bj (with condom of course). Seems to work for me, and them.

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RE: domming a male? - 2/22/2006 7:30:25 AM   
Webmaster60


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quote:

Just curious, how adverse are the male doms here to the idea of domming a male slave?

a slave is a slave. I'd probably not use him sexually, but he can still be of service.

< Message edited by Webmaster60 -- 2/22/2006 7:32:18 AM >

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RE: domming a male? - 3/13/2006 12:14:30 AM   
subboi3382


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Status: offline 		I am bi male slave wiht a master. I have served a few straight masters (both sexually and nonsexually) and have gotten a feew offers from straight doms

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